"Seriously, we get it titty, c-section is not for you.
It's not up to you to dictate whatever anyone else wants or does though.
Why is that so hard for you to get your head around? It's not up to you to dictate whatever anyone else wants or does though."
Where have I told anyone what sort of birth they 'should' have?
Really - what are you talking about?
Arse. Go take your cs angst out on someone else.
"Atm, it seems to be - VB experiences on the NHS are depressing and chaotic - and that's why women will opt in such large numbers for CS's if given the choice - but they mustn't be allowed to, for if they do, maternity services for the women who don't have CS's will get worse, and more women will die as a result"
And where's your proof that it wouldn't increase dramatically if all women were told they could have a cs on demand? Given the very, very high c/s rates in other countries where elective c/s are easy to obtain? And given the fact that our own c/s rate has practically doubled over the course of the past decade alone.
And the point I made wasn't that 'maternity services for the women who don't have CS's will get worse'. At the moment NHS maternity services are working to capacity and many hospitals don't have 24 hour consultant cover. More operative births will mean that these doctors will be spread even more thinly, and that means all women who really need medical input will lose out. Try reading my posts properly next time.
I'd love to know what interest you have in making me out to be an unreasonable extremist, when the views I've expressed on this thread are common currency in midwifery circles and among those in the UK involved in maternity care. Everyone agrees that an increased rate of c/s would put strain on maternity services and lead to worse maternal and infant mortality and morbidity. Everyone agrees that more midwives and better birth environments would result in better outcome for all women.
And there has been no 'blaming' of individual women for the cost of their maternity care - just a realistic acknowledgment that if resources for maternity care are limited they need to be spent in a way which leads to the least loss of life and health for mothers and babies.
"And if I knew for a fact that a particular birth experience was very likely to be a bad experience for a mother, then no, I absolutely would not force her to have it because of some imaginary scenario, or abstract policy."
I can only assume you have said this because you believe there are people on this thread or elsewhere who would be quite happy to put a mother through a traumatic birth experience because of some 'imaginary scenario' or 'abstract policy'. Would you like to point us in their direction please, so we can see what they've said for ourselves?