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Dying Children

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busymum31 · 19/05/2009 22:00

Okay so I was going to have Quintuplets but three of them died. The doctor said one of them got sick and spread it to the rest of them and he told me not to expect any of them to live. My three year olds don't understand that there used o be 5 babies and now there are 2 and it is quit hard.
And i am eight moths pregnant and on bed rest not knowing if i am even going to have any children and i am missing school and work for it.

i just need advice on what to do please.

Tifanie

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Makeda · 20/05/2009 17:58

JustcallmeDog, that's what trolls do. Read the OP's profile and see what you think.

Frasersmum123 · 20/05/2009 17:59

Stephanie Meyer's penpal

JustcallmeDog · 20/05/2009 18:00

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Frasersmum123 · 20/05/2009 18:04

I have read troll posts 100 times better than this. I give it 2 out of 10 - could do better!

But its still sick!

KingCanuteIAm · 20/05/2009 18:16

There was a lot sicker around last night

Frasersmum123 · 20/05/2009 18:21

was it a full moon?

liahgen · 20/05/2009 18:21

is her husband dutch then or did he live in holland too? (I met my husband when I was 3, Moved to holland when I was 3)

Sick , please delete Mn

FattipuffsandThinnifers · 20/05/2009 18:22

"You've 3yo twins, you were expecting quintuplets and you want to adopt?"

OP you're Angelina Jolie aren't you?

CrushWithEyeliner · 20/05/2009 18:29

horrible title, sick

BelleDuJour24 · 20/05/2009 18:33

Are you saying she is making it up? Why would she? I don't understand.

BelleDuJour24 · 20/05/2009 18:34

Why make it up!? Maybe it is real?

liahgen · 20/05/2009 18:34

its just highly inplausible belle

op hasn't been back which ime is unusal in trolling however.

We'll see i guess.

BelleDuJour24 · 20/05/2009 18:35

sorry, I thought my first post didn't work!

liahgen · 20/05/2009 18:36

Why exactly? We have no idea why some people do this kind of thing.

Maybe it's true but being in the birth business, and backed up by others in same on here, I know of no consultant who would allow this situation. Just doesn't ring true.

Frasersmum123 · 20/05/2009 18:40

I think she is making it up - if im wrong I will apologise but my reasons are this

  1. The blase attitude - she might as well have said 'okay so I was going to go down the shops but it stated to rain so I had a bath instead'

  2. she has posted on two threads, this one and a a baby name thread about a friends little girls name - not the kind of thing that people do when they are terrified of losing a baby.

I just dont believe it. Sorry.

Trikken · 20/05/2009 18:46

and the title name as someone has already mentioned, not what you wud write if your precious babies really had died or dying, seems cold.

Frasersmum123 · 20/05/2009 18:47

Definately, and in the wrong section.

FlappytheBat · 20/05/2009 18:56

Also, she claims she is from America, via UK and Holland, so why is her name MUM and not MOM?

Why hasn't her Cons Gyn/Obs not delivered her already?

If there was such a risk of intrauterine infection that has already caused the deaths of 3 foetuses, why would any responsible doctor allow the pregnancy to go past the gestational age where the remaining babies would be both viable and not require much support?

This is what made me think about the possibility that the OP may not be genuine.

FattipuffsandThinnifers · 20/05/2009 19:06

Erm, all of the above, and the fact the OP said she was missing "school and work".

What a horrible thread to start.

liahgen · 20/05/2009 19:30

well, I've reported and obviously Mn hear our point but can''t delete until op has been given reasonable chance.

fair enough. These people make me so angry. I'm sure htis is very upsetting for alot of people on here. Guess you can hide thread, but not really the point.

liahgen · 20/05/2009 19:30

these people, Op not Mn

RealityIsMyOnlyDelusion · 20/05/2009 19:40

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Lulumama · 20/05/2009 19:43

with my limited knowledge of pregnancy and birth, i know there is no way a high risk pregnancy would be allowed to continue, with no care plan , with the mother wondering what was going on in her 8th month

mummytoleon pretended she was in prem labour at 24 weeks or something.

as soon as the medical aspects of what she psoted were challenged,she did the offski

there was another person who calimed to be the victim of DV that culminated in her waters breaking prematurely and her baby being delivered v v early, she then posted pics of her 'baby' that were easily found to be images that you could google for

people do lie about this sort of thing

for all sorts of reasons, but i think serious mental health issues are behind it

FlappytheBat · 20/05/2009 19:50

Would you not be more concerned over the health of your remaining unborn children, than either school or work?

I think that although the OP says she is 26, I think the use of the word school is a bit of a clue as to the real age of the OP!

Trikken · 20/05/2009 19:54

I think everyone would be Flappythebat, I'd be screaming at the dr's to get them out now.