Ohhh they are supposed to be good I have very nearly bought one myself but my friend has bought one and although she and her baby girl love it i have seen it assmembled and its huge! I am quite limited on space in our bedroom so i bought a small bedside cot instead. Im quite keen on the idea of co sleeping even if i end up not breastfeeding and this is a perfect solution as not sure that DH would be happy to have lo directly in bed with us.
I had pnd with my last birth sadly too but i am more convinced that it was to do with having a bad birthing experience and i was also in an unhappy marriage with not much support. I feel a ok this time around and my DH is marvellous and very supportive. Wow you already have a boy? Thats lovely its going to be really weird for me as all i have known for 16 years is girls lol! I am glad you are taking care of any impending pnd though as its better to be prepared and if you feel yourself slipping a little then it can be taken care of and you can enjoy the birth of your little boy alot more.
My delivery date is 6th February ( im on the fab feb thread ) and i wasnt due till the 21st Feb so you are a little way ahead of me - i will be having my son 6 weeks on Friday so you are going to see your little boy a good couple of weeks before me you lucky thing! My girls were just over 8lbs each and breathing fine except my middle one who was only 6lb but she was breathing fine too and i was lucky because the deliverys were fairly easy,the only thing that i was told and this is to do with insulin levels is that if you are a diabetic induction that most doctors dont like you to labour through the night because of your insulin levels and also the way they might affect the baby when he/she is born.
I think i have got most things ready now. I had to buy everything from scratch so its been rather expensive and we had a wedding to pay for! The thing that i have bought which i think will give me the most peace of mind is an angelcare breathing monitor, just because i am probably a paranoid mummy ( cant you tell lol? ) but it will enable me to sleep fairly peacefully when he lets me! As i am a terrible sleeper as it is.
I am really hoping to breastfeed for alot longer this time. I always tried but didnt get much support and having difficulties at home too didnt help much i think so two weeks or so was my maximum. I am going back to uni for my final year in September as i took this year out but will be going back to Bath instead of Surrey as its alot closer and i dont really fancy the two hour commute with an 8 month old!
4 is a lovely gap for your sons, i have three and a half years between my eldest two and they are great friends, i really really miss having little ones around ( i thought 11 seemed young ) so everyone is awaiting Milo's birth with much anticipation.
Its nice that you dont have too much longer to go, six weeks seems like ages! And hopefully you feel a little better about the diabetes thing. Even if you end up on a little insulin ( it wont be much as you are so near to delivery ) that wont matter and as soon as you are delivered it will all start to rectify ( ie your blood sugars ect )
I am really hoping that i can come off injecting insulin but wont know till 6 weeks after the birth. I am really glad in a way that i got pregnant as i could have been type 2 diabetic for quite a while and not known about it ( i had the GTT after DD3's birth and it was fine ) but as im sure you know if you have GD then there is a strong possibility of you getting type 2 in later life anyway, i just didnt expect it this soon!
Are you on the January ante natal thread? We were discussing you in the February one as someone has delivered on that thread already! It brings it very close to us now and as lots of us have been members since about 6 weeks it seems like the end of a long road