This thread title caught my eye when I was looking up something else. I've read a lot of the posts here and for first time I'm posting a message as the whole topic has just made me think (even more) about my emerg c-section 2yrs ago.
Rather naively I had assumed that after a great and problem-free first pregnancy, all would be well and 'normal' with the actual birth. I was fit and healthy.
After induction and 9hrs labour/epidural I had to have an emerg c-sect under GA and it was pretty terrifying and completely not how I'd imagined my experience would be.
I did wake up an hour later and held my DS(who was delivered safely) but then had massive PPH and crashed-which I can remember in glorious technicolour detail - and had more surgery which resulted in a life-saving hysterectomy.
Waking up in ITC hours later was pretty shocking. And the aftermath incredibly traumatic, still, of course.
I had to have surgery on my throat a few months later as I had suffered damage from the intubation.
There is no real explanation as to why I haemorrhaged. There was nothing to indicate this would happen. I had no condition.
So would it have happened if I'd had an Elect C-section or even a VB? Was my uterus just one that would not contract no matter what? Would I have just had PPH anyway? I'll never know as I won't be getting the chance to try a different method.
But supposing I had experienced everything without having to have a hysterectomy and was able to have another child, I'm sure I would be terrifed of having surgery (as I was with my throat op)and would find it difficult to opt for it. It would be difficult for me to believe that everything would go OK as that's what I thought and was told last time. Even if it was elect and a calm room.
Sometimes-and luckily very very rarely-things just go wrong and doctors don't have a crystal ball.We know there were no errors with my labour so sometimes things just happen.