Thanks MLP. Personally I don?t think it will be an elective, they?re giving me a gel to try and stop me going into labour again, but I got the impression they don?t see it will delay it by much. I worry that it will be another rush job (I don?t mean that in a bad way, I had the hospital director ? called back from half way across the car park on his way home ? no less and I know he did a good job, but there was an urgency as I had started to deliver a foot and the drugs weren?t stopping my labour) and will be along the same lines as last time. I think the reason I?m so interested in the difference is if I am in premature labour I and we?re not facing a footling I?d rather not be rushed off for a GA at last minute when the drugs haven?t worked not knowing if it could be avoided. The GA screwed my head up, I still feel like I?m babysitting Tink till her mother comes for her, I can?t bond with her because I?m looking over my shoulder for her mother all the time (I am seeing someone to help me with that and other things I should point out) I think MmeBovary has explained it well, I wasn?t there. The fact I?ve only just gotten over my fear of needles to self-inject and have extra blood tests does slightly come into it?
?If they ever do decide to offer elective sections on demand, I think we should all insist that those of us who wouldn't want one be offered the money to spend on the services an independent midwife instead!?
It is a shame they don?t have the same budget for every labour so that those women with a normal labour have everything they need.
who could have access to food and drink in the delivery suite, rather than having to disappear off to find it, or bring a packed lunch
lol I was begging for food, they said no in case they needed to operate, I asked for water as my mouth was so dry my throat hurt ( maybe that added to the problems I had afterwards) they still said no. My partner went to get something from the shop and call Mum, came back with a mars bar and a drink and insisted on drinking and eating standing next to me! I went mad and he laughed!
FairyMum, I know a lady whose baby?s bottom was nicked during a section. They didn?t say anything about it to the parents and it took granddad yelling at them that the baby was ill 12 hours later to get the baby moved to the unit. The unit weren?t told why the baby was sent there, they didn?t do a blood transfusion the baby desperately needed and the baby died. I know a lot of stories of mothers and babies hurt or worse during a CS. When you use baby loss forums and IRL groups you learn so many ways that babies can die, it?s heartbreaking. I bet I could beat you on the insensitive comments! I have one obstetrician who insists on making as many as possible every time I see her and that is a lot! I was rather disappointed at my booking in that it was her I was seeing.
The birthing centre near me is actually part of the hospital, so women are encouraged to use it, even if you don?t the labour rooms in the delivery suite are still very good (I?m told, have skipped over them slightly before) with a birth pool, beds that allow you to take any position etc. I had a MW with me the whole time I was in the delivery suite and she talked me through each contraction.