Healthy babe and Mum is the aim - regardless of route.
Have to agree that C section is v common amongst my friends,all for valid reasons though. Breech, fetal distress, obstructed labour etc.
I do hate the look of condescension given by women andmidwives who hear you had an elective section. No clue as to the reasons but happy to judge you and treat you like scum.
I loved the midwife who gave me such derision and said at my size, pushing a baby out would have been no problem. when she finally saw new arrival, proceeded to comment on the likelihood of a shoulder dystocia - still said I should have tried.
Some if us medics choose elective sections for very good reasons. On asking what the likelihood of me having a normal delivery after induction was, was told odds of about 20-30% and most likely would go to C section. I would have been stupid to have proceeded on that basis.
For those who doubt an elective section - have a heart problem, have been a type 1 diabetic since age of 10yrs, multiple miscarriages and previous abdo surgery, high BP, very large baby ( not DM related - just two giraffe like parents)
Each to their own and I have not one regret.