I've read all the comments on this thread & would just like to add my voice to the pro-homoeopathy people & to offer a personal response to the OP.
My mum trained as a homoeopath many years ago & the sullen teenage sceptic in me was converted when I crashed head first into a lamp-post when riding my bike at the age of 13. I really hit hard & when I hobbled home my mum, after ruling out concussion, immediately tried to give me some high potency Arnica & something else for the shock. I remember screaming at her "I don't want any of your hippy medicine!" but was eventually convinced to take what she was offering, albeit very reluctantly. Although I was hurt I was really hoping that her remedies (literally the size & shape of a couple of grains of sugar, salt, sand or whatever) wouldn't work so I could mock her some more & vent my self-righteous anger in her direction but I had to eat my words when I felt much better: the swelling on my forehead went down within an hour & there wasn't a black eye in sight the next day (I was sure I'd wake up to a massive shiner).
Anyway, that was how I came to believe in the power & efficacity of homoeopathic remedies, I was so anti-anything my mum was into at the time there's no way it could have been a placebo effect.
I have since been attracted to/very interested in alternative/complementary therapies & have also used a variety of them (including homoeopathy/Tissue Salts, aromatherapy, hypnotherapy, reflexology & acupuncture) to help relieve allergic symptoms, combat stress, ease muscular tension, recuperate from invasive dental treatment & most recently to prepare for, support me during & recover from the birth of my DS (1st child) who is now 9 months old.
Dear Rolf,
All I can say is follow your heart/intuition on this one.
I wrote a detailed birth plan which acknowledged & showed respect for the expertise & experience of the midwives attending my birth but was assertive & very clear in expressing my desire to have a natural labour & birth with no conventional medical/surgical intervention unless absolutely necessary.
I made specific reference to the homoeopathic remedies I would possibly need to use & gave express permission to my birth partners (2 old, good friends with 8 & 4 children themselves) to administer them to me. They had talked at length with my mother about this & I was confident they would be able to choose the appropriate remedies if I myself was unable to.
I had also been following a hypnobirthing programme & asked for all present to be very careful in the language they used around me, particularly regarding the word "pain" which I didn't want mentioned at all & gave alternative words & phrases that I would associate positively with & not be fearful of (the only person who showed complete disregard for this was the booking in nurse who didn't have take the time to read the paper I handed her on my arrival at the labour ward reception).
In the end though I was blessed to have 2 very open-minded & sensitive midwives who really honoured what I had written & did everything they could to make my birth experience as I wished it. One of them was a trained homoeopath herself but did not intervene when my friends were giving me the remedies (I took Caulophyllum to help me reach that magic 10cm as it had taken hours for me to get to just 3cm, Kali Phos towards the end when I was exhausted & needed a boost, Arnica 200c just before & a couple of hours after delivery & 30c for a few days either side of my due date to help the healing process). I spoke to her about it afterwards & she said she was listening to them discussing what to give me & was happy with the decisions they made based on her observations but I never thought to ask her at the time what she would have done if she had strongly disagreed with their choices.
Interestingly I asked the midwife girlfriend of a another good friend of mine to look over my birth plan before I finalised it & one thing she said was that it might initimidate some less experienced midwives or annoy some of the more traditional old-school ones. She herself thought it was really good as it showed I had done a lot of research & knew my mind but had also taken into account the unpredictability of the whole thing & used words like "prefer", "ideally", "aim" etc. to convey my acceptance of the fact that things might not go as I hoped & that I & my birth partners would be willing to listen to their professional judgements in the event of any significant complications.
I passed the kit on to another friend who had a baby girl 4 weeks ago & she was very pleased to have had it too (although she used different remedies at different points she found it equally helpful)!
It is your right to choose how you approach this. I really hope you have a great birth & that you will have the confidence to use whatever you think will provide you with relief & support when you most need it, & that the hospital staff will be as accommodating as those at the (NHS) Birth Centre I attended.