@Arecklessmanor Thanks so much for your kind words and advice, I've woke up (hardly slept) feeling so sad this morning. It's just such a horrific situation to be in. I too am particularly disgusted that a consultant is acting this way in the light of all the news lately/ockenden report, it makes no sense to me why I'm being treated in this way... thank you for the support x
@Thedogscollar thank you for the ongoing support on this thread! I physically don't know what to do next. I'm still not happy with baby's movements and nobody will listen.
I think she was trying to upset me almost when she mentioned a nurse looking over my scan and reviewing. You know like saying oh it's not important SOMEONE will do it... I could tell her intention was to upset me because if obviously offended her by challenging her professional opinion! Overall I am 99% sure there won't be anyone to review my scan with me today and I'll just be sent home and told to go back to the hospital if I'm worried about baby's movements.
However, I'm trying to stay calm and will update with how it goes! It all just feels like one big nightmare and I'm terrified to go back in with RFM in the fear of being spoken to like that again 😞 x
@Clockstooforward this has also crossed my mind, I just would rather be at any other hospital than the one I'm at! X
@Skala123 I have emailed them, however yesterday was a new level of poor care! So I will be chasing it up with this experience. Only thing is I'm terrified that I'll get this consultant again and she'll treat me even more horrifically/purposely mess up my care. I know it's irrational but it's how the whole situation has made me feel! X
@Circlesandtriangles My thoughts exactly, I cannot understand why I'm being treated like this. It's the poorest care I have ever received!
@Doglikeahorse Thank you for the support. It is just awful, it really is. I do want to go to another hospital and need to sort This out quickly, but I don't know the first place to start. Hopefully by me complaining, another woman will receive a better standard of care. X
@InTheNightWeWillWish My hospital is also a huge teaching hospital! I have got the same feelings that you've explained here. I'm worried another the standard of care I'll receive, I really am. They are literally doing against so many NHS rules and guidelines it is just craziness. Thank you so much for the support.
@feliznavidad2 Thank you so much, I'm trying so hard to pick myself up today and fight for myself and my baby. I feel at a total dead end but I know I need to keep going. The support really means a lot to me x