Okay now I actually feel stupid for trying to do too much. I had my ds on a Wed night, and was back up on my feet the next morning, had to, had a exdp who wasn't going to get up and do stuff for the baby, and hospital staff told me I had to, I guess there were concerns because of my weight. But then that also makes me feel like sticking two fingers up to the obese haters, as there I was in my position, emergency c section, and the following morning up on my feet, and caring for my baby and doing stuff, we were thrown out the following day! Wound got infected and I felt sick but other than that, externally it healed quite nicely. Mentally and internally is another story.
I would say if I had my time back again, please take it easy on yourself, use all/any help and support you have got, take your meds as it all helps, and is what it is there for. Rest as much as you can, comparing a now 32 month old lol, and a newborn, I now realise the advantage at that stage, that they need lots of milk, but sleep a lot as well! And that has to be your time to rest and catch up on stuff, and then when baby is awake then you can focus more on them/outdoor trips. Good luck.