Hi, Ive had 2 breech babies and also 2 sections, one awake and one was an emergency.
The 2nd child was a breech and they told me that as she was a small baby and my pelvis was a good size there would be no problems.
However she was 8lb 8 and although thats not massive its by no stretch small. The birth was a struggle and she had breathing difficulties and now she's much older she has several problems which could have stemmed from oxygen deprivation after birth. I don't know for certain if it was that and I'm not prepared to harass the hospital as I'm just glad that they managed to get her safely out alive and mostly well.
However, from this I would NEVER ever recommend a vaginal breech delivery because it's not worth the risk to the baby. Unlike a normal birth where the baby can breathe once it's head is out, a breech baby can't and the cord supplying oxygen is compressed as well, meaning that the baby has to be very quickly delivered. Also, the worst case scenario is that the head gets stuck and then what? You can imagine the implications of this I'm sure.
A section isn't to be taken lightly but I recovered perfectly well and although just after birth the scar was MASSIVE, it soon shrunk to nothing much. years later its pale and doesnt show much. The most annoying thing is the fact that due to scar adhesion you can see a sort of bump where the scar is, when I say bump .. its very small indeed and hard to describe but its like the scar sticks to you and so a tiny ridge of fat develops. A bit like a muffin top above the scar, but if you're slim as I am, it's only a mild annoyance.
For my childs safety, the scar is a price worth paying.
I think my daughter almost died, the room was flooded with consultants and doctors and a resuscitation team and I wouldn't wish that feeling on anyone.
Good luck and I hope you can make a decision you're happy with :)