39+2 and its happening, felt periody and crampy past few days, then past few hours had pains, tightenings, take my breath away nerve pains in my bum. I'm struggling. Just bringing it all back from horrific birth with DD, in bed crying and feel very scared. Having my DD was the best thing I ever did but god it hurts like mad doesn't it, I honesty thought I was dying last time. I'm so sad I'm gonna have to go through it all again.