I don't think I said 'punishing' did I?
And yes, no need to shout. No need to apologise - just don't do it in the first place, eh.
My point was that I had very little time with a mw during or after my planned cs. As I've said - for me, fine - I didn't need any more involvement as my birth was easy and quick and my baby was healthy.
whereas someone having a homebirth gets a mw sent out to their home, don't they? As I said - women on this board are often advised to have a homebirth to guarantee one to one care, which they will not get in hospital. A few times, they are advised that if they run into resistance booking it, they should just go ahead anyway, as they have a legal right and if they just ring the hospital who then have to send a mw out.
[worth pointing out too that spontaneous birth is unpredictable, timewise - what does a maternity ward do when it is flat out at the weekend, at a busy time of year, and a call comes in about a homebirth?)
Now, I am very pro homebirth for those women that want it. I totally support their right to choose one.
But you insist on talking about NOW, the situation now with no extra funding etc etc. I am happy to be corrected if I am wrong - but wouldn't an increase in women asking for homebirth NOW, with no change in maternity provision or funding, mean fewer mws available in hospital or MLUs? Because homebirthers are getting one to one care?
That was my point. You are focusing (unlike others, it has to be said) very much on epidurals on demand and requested cs's specifically because you say that RIGHT NOW they would deny other women one to one care during labour. i suppose someone like me would take the wider view that successful homebirths are very cheap, and so would save the nhs money, and that could be spent on more mws.
But you are resisting the scenario where more money is available, and thus more mws can be trained and employed. You keep talking about right now. So.... right now, if there aren't enough mws, and women are not automatically gettting one to one care in labour.... then someone insisting that they get one to one care through home birth is making that problem worse for other women, aren't they?
(again - I am not bashing homebirth, I am supportive of it. I am just pointing out that if you really want to go down a particular route re: funding, as Shagmund is, then there are consequences that are not just to do with epidurals and caesarians)