"There is something very revealing about your statement that you know women who were 'utterly terrified' of childbirth but who were unable to get a cs who had 'fantastic' births etc. So you want to make paternalistic and controlling decisions on their behalf, do you? Deny them a cs because you think they'll actually have a jolly good time of it."
I'm not in a position to make decisions for anyone and never will be.
I'm was just responding to Ushy suggestion that it's psychologically beneficial for women to have a planned c/s if that's what they'd prefer.
"A sharp increase in HOMEBIRTHS with no increase at all in staffing or funding (i.e the exact same circumstances you envisage, Shagmund, for your fictional apocalyptic future where simply everyone will be clamouring for a planned cs) would also have an appalling effect on other women's care."
Ok - please can you stop this. What is the difference between the staffing necessary to accomodate a low risk mum in a birth centre, and a low risk mum at home? Both get one to one care. Midwives on average spend less time at homebirths as they tend to arrive later in labour, and women labouring at home tend to have shorter labours on average than women labouring in hospitals and birth centres.
NHS evidence has homebirths as the cheapest of all care options for low risk mums.
And I haven't said 'simply everyone' will want a c/s. Why do you feel the need to distort what I'm saying? Is it because you have no answer to my valid points and therefore need to make up rubbish so you can then refute it? That's called 'creating a straw man argument' and is a well known strategy used by people on mumsnet with poor knowledge of their subject and weak debating skills.
What I actually said was that it wasn't unreasonable to assume that our c/s rates could end up being similar to other countries in the high 30's or low 40's.
With no increase in numbers of midwives on postnatal wards and without an increase in consultant hours, anaesthetist cover, postnatal beds and community midwives this would be disaster for the mothers and babies who are experiencing complicated pregnancies. Ushy is implying by saying: " It's called configuring services to meet client need" that the government would be expected to cough up more money for maternity services to fund this increase in medically unnecessary surgery. 'Instead of' or 'as well as' the funding increases needed to provide appropriate staffing to plug the current gap in the service she doesn't say.
And rain - your 'charge drunks for A&E care' is not a 'get out of jail free' card in this argument. I don't really care where additional funding for maternity services comes from - that's not something I'm particularly interested in and it's a separate argument. I'm interested in how maternity services are organised with the money they've got NOW, or the money the government intends to allocate to them in the next few years.
As for women being traumatised by pain - well yes, but if the government is planning on what services to provide for women over the next few years and looks at the evidence, what they tend to find is that women are more likely to feel positive about their births and their care when they give birth in settings where epidurals aren't immediately available - ie, in birth centres and at home.
That's not to say we shouldn't have the options of epidurals and I'm glad that most women in the UK who opt for an epidural get one and don't have to wait too long for it. If the government spent more money on birth pools, homebirth services, midwives and birth centres the evidence suggests that the rate of epidural request and emergency c/s would go down signficantly, and this would free up anaesthetists to care for mums who need an epidural.
Every one a winner no?