Hi, need some opinions. Having a planned c-section on Tuesday. 3rd ds. Ds1 will be at school, ds2 looked after by grandma during that day. Dh with me whilst actual operation happening. Now we would like sons to be first to meet new brother - has to be after school, but my mum who is concerned for me wants to be there. We are fine with her being at hospital and popping head in quickly to check all ok, but think boys need to be first to meet the new little man properly. She is now getting all upset and saying she is being pushed out. We did this with the other two and now she says she felt pushed out then too. Not the case at all, after initial meeting I'll be glad if she's there loads as dh will be looking after the other 2 ds of course to keep them happy and not pushed out. Any advice? Are we being unreasonable?