Gemma -with the greatest respect, what you state is not backed up by the research evidence, which OP is more than capable of reading and analysing for herself. Can you provide links to research studies or clinical guidelines that support what you have said? The ones linked to above, and also the UK NICE guidelines do not. You view of 'precious' babies is extremely offensive
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3littlefrogs -I agree monitoring is key. If deterioration occurs or there are signs of fetal comprimise/distress then that must not be ignored. There can, however, be a discussion about whether elective c-section or induction is preferable.
One of the practical difficulties for mothers who make an informed decision to choose expectorant management, is that some health professionals are not evidence-based in their viewpoint and the behaviours I have personally seen and also heard about sometimes displayed to mothers whose notes indicated that they have gone past T+10 or T+12 or whatever local policy is can sometimes verge on bullying, even where it is clearly documented that the mother is aware of the risks. I have heard fears genuinely expressed that problems will be 'found' on monitoring, by some practitioners because they are so personally uncomfortable with the mother's decision. People genuinely get into a state going in for monitoring in case they are bullied into not being allowed to leave
. This is awful, and the attitudes encountered often make mothers anxious about going in for monitoring, which is not helpful for anyone.
OP -accurate dates are crucial. If you are certain for good evidence-based reasons that your dates are the correct ones, then you can insist they work by them. I'm not advocating it, but I have met one person who changed her EDD with a biro and then all HCPs she encountered simply assumed another HCP had done it. Extreme, but in the circumstances (her DH was abroad for a couple of weeks at the time they insisted she conceived) understandable.
Ultimately, of course, all people who are mentally competent can decline any medical procedure or intervention, even where they are advised it is to the detriment of their health or could actually lead to their death (would anyone try to bully a Jehovah's Witness into a blood transfusion?). This is enshrined in the principles of informed consent and the guidelines from the NMC and BMA.