Secondtimelucky - I am making the point that no matter how good the care we receive be it one-to-one MW or consultant or whatever -
ultimately NO-ONE can predict if they will suddenly experience a severe problem during labour
Yes I know it's rare...
but I still don't want to be that 1 in 1,000 or even 1 in 10,000 who experiences a severe and unexpected problem during labour that even the best MW with the best training and experience in the world can do nothing about, because it requires immediate surgical intervention for myself and the baby to survive or to survive without major birth injuries.
I just don't want to be too far from an operating theatre, crash team, consultant paeds, resusitation unit. etc etc. About 20 metres and 20 seconds away is good. 20 miles and 20 mins drive is not good.
HB cannot and do not have the capacity to deal with the rare and unexpected problem. Unfortunately, nobody can predict accurately who or when the rare and unexpected problems will strike. It could be me. It might not be me, but it definitely IS the woman I read about in the paper last month, or even the MNetter I know of whose baby sadly suffered severe birth injuries in HB gone wrong. I'm sure they didn't expect to be the one with the problem either.