This thread, as always, shows that there are a wide range of experiences of CS births and recoveries (as there are with VBs).
The info from Hazeyjane, and the clarification from BagofHolly, I've found very interesting, and the kind of clear research and info I wish there was more of about elective sections.
While personal experiences are illuminating and always valid, I don't think the tendency to generalise personal experiences is helpful.
I had a very quick recovery from my section. I was up and about feeling close to normal within days.
However, I do try to be careful to say 'that was my experience' - and not 'this will be everyone's experience.' Obviously tinksandfloris had a harder time than me, and I'm sorry about that - but with all due respect, I don't think it's fair to say therefore a CS "makes the first 6-8 weeks of being a Mum a very uncomfortable one." That's just not true for everyone.
As regards other posts - I'm afraid I don't find the 'someone at my mother's group said her stitches burst when she coughed' response useful, or that appropriate. I see threads on MN everytime I log on about refusing induction/going over due dates etc. I know someone who recently went a long time past her due date, had a huge baby via VB (over 12 pounds...) and has horrific birth injuries as a result. Bad 4th degree tear, and has already been told that surgery will offer her limited recovery. But I DON'T post about that on those threads. Because (a) I think her experience is awful, but not common enough to flag up, and (b) it's not my story, and I think personal experiences are much more helpful. Also, I expect I would get flamed for posting such a negative story about a VB.
But CS threads seem to attract a legion of second hand alarmist responses. I want to be clear I'm making a distinction here between people who say 'this is what happened to me', and people who post either dubious 'facts' about CS, or 'word of mouth' warnings.
pinkflipflop - this isn't exactly the answer to your question, but Chynah started a thread asking for personal experiences of CS a little while ago, to counter 'misinformation and scare tales' - www.mumsnet.com/Talk/childbirth/1053355-C-Section-Information-Real-Life-xperiences
It has good and bad experiences on it - a whole range, in fact. You might find it helpful reading - I think it's very informative.
I don't want to upset anyone with this post - mosschops, I know you had an awful experience, and hazeyjane, I've read some of your posts on the thread about elective Csections after traumatic birth. And I am absolutely not belittling or dismissing what you say here. I hope that's clear.