My husband told me today that I need to give him £100 from DLA that I receive for my son and I spend on him - special diet food, clothing, school uniform, school days out, his supplements, his days out, extra curriculum activities and anything extra (just as it says on DLA what to use money for). I explained to my husband that this money is NOT carers allowance (I look after my son 80% of the time, I take him to doctor, dentist, do everything related to school, cook, taking him out, organising playdates etc.) and now he decided that he wants a piece of this money which is NOT his, I suggested him that we should rather put extra money that is left each month to our son's saving account, but he didn't like the idea.
I just feel he is being greedy, obnoxious and not acting in the best interest of our child.
What would you do? Should I seek any legal advice? Our marriage is very shaky and unstable as well. His thinking and actions are making me sick.
He also doesn't contribute financially for his son at all. Barely contributes for the bills. Just basics like water, electricity, Internet etc.