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Not losing weight despite massively cutting back

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Morgun · 28/09/2025 13:45

Can anyone analyse what I’m eating and tell me where I’m going wrong? I’ve cut back so much yet the scales are not shifting. I’m 5ft 8 and 16st

breakfast - porridge oats, 2 slices of wholemeal toast with low fat spread, a fat free yogurt and a banana

lunch - pasta salad with a wholemeal roll and a packet of low calorie crisps.

Aftetnoon snack - apple, nuts and sometimes a fat free yogurt but not always

dinner - homemade spaghetti bolognese (wholemeal spaghetti), 2 small slices of garlic baguette, a weight watchers mouse and a piece of fruit

evening snack - a couple of biscuits

this is far less than I used to eat yet the scales are not budging. I’m being told to cut down further but I can’t see what else I can do, I’m struggling as it is.

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Bambamhoohoo · 28/09/2025 21:07

MemorableTrenchcoat · 28/09/2025 19:48

I would bin the porridge, toast and fat-free yogurt for breakfast. A couple of boiled eggs eggs, or some natural or Greek yogurt with berries would be a far better, and more nutritious option.

How is a couple of eggs more nutritious than porridge, wholemeal toast and yogurt?!?

Allisnotlost1 · 28/09/2025 21:13

DidIForgetPEAgain · 28/09/2025 21:03

Swap the low fat yoghurt for full fat, swap the spread for real grass fed butter. What porridge do you have? The more processed it is the higher the blood sugar, low fat yoghurts will also spike your blood sugar leaving you feeling hungry. Nuts are good, try to fill up with lots and lots of different vegetables. You’re not consuming a wide variety of nutrients which can lead to cravings but the brain will also process this as anything with glucose? Because that’s what the brain likes to run on. Try also supporting the liver, often fat cells can become difficult to break down, and liver support can help this. Have you tried fasting? (Not recommended if you are pregnant or any history of disordered eating, or around your period).

ive seen a lot of recommendations for switching to full fat yoghurt. I think a better one is to switch to plain Greek or natural yoghurt, either full fat or 0% fat.

MemorableTrenchcoat · 28/09/2025 21:14

Bambamhoohoo · 28/09/2025 21:07

How is a couple of eggs more nutritious than porridge, wholemeal toast and yogurt?!?

Porridge and toast are mainly carbs. Eggs are one of the most nutritious foods on the planet. They’re a complete protein, a good source of fat, and contain umpteen vitamins and minerals.

JediNinja · 28/09/2025 21:15

Bambamhoohoo · 28/09/2025 21:07

How is a couple of eggs more nutritious than porridge, wholemeal toast and yogurt?!?

They have a lot more protein, which keeps you fuller for longer and can help to build muscle if she's exercising. My NHS dietician keeps telling me to eat more protein, no less than 100g a day. This should be protein as shown in the tracker, not just 100g of chicken or whatever, which is not equal to 100g of protein.
Wholewheat bread is great for fiber and it keeps you fuller than white bread but OPs food choices are already full of carbs and not enough protein, so she should balance the meals better if she wants to lose weight. If she didn't have pasta, biscuits and bread the rest of the day, that breakfast would look much better. I think posters were trying to suggest swaps and some bread needs to go.

Bambamhoohoo · 28/09/2025 21:16

Allisnotlost1 · 28/09/2025 21:13

ive seen a lot of recommendations for switching to full fat yoghurt. I think a better one is to switch to plain Greek or natural yoghurt, either full fat or 0% fat.

There is a myth that fat free yogurt is full of sugar. Fat free yogurt has just had the fat removed. Obviously you would be aware of the yogurt was sugary by the addition of fruit jam etc, which would be clearly visable. Otherwise it’s just yogurt.

Bambamhoohoo · 28/09/2025 21:17

JediNinja · 28/09/2025 21:15

They have a lot more protein, which keeps you fuller for longer and can help to build muscle if she's exercising. My NHS dietician keeps telling me to eat more protein, no less than 100g a day. This should be protein as shown in the tracker, not just 100g of chicken or whatever, which is not equal to 100g of protein.
Wholewheat bread is great for fiber and it keeps you fuller than white bread but OPs food choices are already full of carbs and not enough protein, so she should balance the meals better if she wants to lose weight. If she didn't have pasta, biscuits and bread the rest of the day, that breakfast would look much better. I think posters were trying to suggest swaps and some bread needs to go.

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So that’s just protein. Not more nutritious, just more protein. They’re not the same thing.

Crikeyalmighty · 28/09/2025 21:19

@Morgun as an example here’s an average day for me if trying to lose weight and believe me at 63 this is the 1lb to 1.5lb a week kind of losing weight , not more and I’m not on WLI -

breakfast 2%fat Fage Greek yoghurt with about 8 raspberries and 8 blueberries , l hard boiled egg

lunch - tomato and basil soup with 2 rye crisp bread - sometimes half a banana mid afternoon cut into slices

dinner - salad with a whole small pack of prawns and 1 large tablespoon of Waitrose yoghurt dressed coleslaw

several glasses of water, several green teas, 1 Americano with oat milk

and that’s it - 2 days a week at weekend will add in another 400 cals with 2 glasses of wine each day

SlowestHorse · 28/09/2025 21:21

You really need to read and digest these replies. See mine earlier - here’s a sample day for me when I’m focusing on losing 1lb a week with a 500kcal deficit a day.

Not losing weight despite massively cutting back
Not losing weight despite massively cutting back
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Magnolia82 · 28/09/2025 21:21

JediNinja · 28/09/2025 21:01

Screenshots of totals. I put low kcal spread and home made bolognaise with extra lean mince. I would reduce that extra bread or balance the meals more. Aim for 500kcal per main mail and snacks up to 300kcal, or something like 400-500-600 for meals then 200-300 for snacks. See where you are hungry the most and make that your most calorific meal, etc.
Ignore the red -629kcal, I had to add it in my tracker and I'm working with 1609/day at the moment but you wouldn't need to go that low at this stage. Something like 1850kcal could work.

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@Morgun I think this post in particular would be really helpful for you to look at. Look at the screenshots and see how many calories each item/meal is. This is why I recommended Nutracheck. It will really help you to see where and when you are overeating.

I’m sure it must all feel overwhelming but I am sure you could make some significant progress by gradually making a few changes.

Allisnotlost1 · 28/09/2025 21:21

Bambamhoohoo · 28/09/2025 21:16

There is a myth that fat free yogurt is full of sugar. Fat free yogurt has just had the fat removed. Obviously you would be aware of the yogurt was sugary by the addition of fruit jam etc, which would be clearly visable. Otherwise it’s just yogurt.

A lot of flavoured fat free yoghurt has added sugar yes, and other chemicals for the flavouring which is why I’d avoid them. Eg https://www.sainsburys.co.uk/gol-ui/product/onken-fat-free-vanilla-biopot-450g

Im sure there are also sugar free fat free versions, I just can’t be bothered reading all the labels so go for plain fat free!

popcornandpotatoes · 28/09/2025 21:22

Bambamhoohoo · 28/09/2025 21:17

So that’s just protein. Not more nutritious, just more protein. They’re not the same thing.

No, great for healthy fats and have a number of vitamins. Eggs are undoubtedly better than porridge or toast for breakfast. Doesn't mean oats don't have a place but eggs for breakfast if you want to make a quick, healthy change to your diet is a great first step

JediNinja · 28/09/2025 21:22

Bambamhoohoo · 28/09/2025 21:17

So that’s just protein. Not more nutritious, just more protein. They’re not the same thing.

I think the "nutritious" was refering to the combination of eggs, yogurt and berries, not just the eggs. Not my post, so I don't know what @MemorableTrenchcoat was refering to but that's what I am assuming. Eggs, however, are also nutritious: https://www.mayoclinichealthsystem.org/hometown-health/speaking-of-health/is-it-healthy-to-eat-eggs-every-day

Offloadontome · 28/09/2025 21:23

Antimimisti · 28/09/2025 20:04

What you're eating is quite balanced and healthy, which is good. But you started this thread because you weren't losing weight, and the responses have been pretty much unilateral - the reason is that you're still eating too much.

Even supposing posters have overestimated what you're eating from your description of your day, the facts are as you state - you are not losing weight, so you need to create more of a calorie deficit than you are currently in - or accept your weight and simply focus on continuing to eat healthy foods, which will benefit you in other ways.

All of this.

Bambamhoohoo · 28/09/2025 21:26

Allisnotlost1 · 28/09/2025 21:21

A lot of flavoured fat free yoghurt has added sugar yes, and other chemicals for the flavouring which is why I’d avoid them. Eg https://www.sainsburys.co.uk/gol-ui/product/onken-fat-free-vanilla-biopot-450g

Im sure there are also sugar free fat free versions, I just can’t be bothered reading all the labels so go for plain fat free!

No- it is clear if yogurt has bad sugar added. We’re not stupid right? We don’t have to read a label to tell that vanilla flavouring = added sugar?

yogurt is yogurt. It’s like suggesting semi skimmed milk is more sugary just because chocolate milk exists, and you might mix them up somehow

Bambamhoohoo · 28/09/2025 21:28

JediNinja · 28/09/2025 21:22

I think the "nutritious" was refering to the combination of eggs, yogurt and berries, not just the eggs. Not my post, so I don't know what @MemorableTrenchcoat was refering to but that's what I am assuming. Eggs, however, are also nutritious: https://www.mayoclinichealthsystem.org/hometown-health/speaking-of-health/is-it-healthy-to-eat-eggs-every-day

No, it was a couple of eggs OR yogurt and berries.

eggs are of course nutrious. I would argue that they are not more nutritious than porridge and toast, which contain more vitamins and minerals than eggs alone.

Macaroni46 · 28/09/2025 21:28

Wow that’s a huge amount of food per day! I’d say either porridge or one toast for breakfast. No crisps or biscuits. You’re basically still eating too much even if it’s less than before.
I’m currently losing weight with the help of Mounjaro and my typical day looks like this:
breakfast - one slice of wholemeal or granary toast with a thin scrape of honey plus one piece of fruit
lunch - I try to make this my main meal. Protein heavy such as grilled chicken or fish, veggies, no carbs
snack - one plain biscuit

dinner - yogurt and fruit or boiled egg or very small portion of porridge made half with milk / half water
I’m losing 1lb - 1.5lbs a week doing this

Allisnotlost1 · 28/09/2025 21:34

Bambamhoohoo · 28/09/2025 21:26

No- it is clear if yogurt has bad sugar added. We’re not stupid right? We don’t have to read a label to tell that vanilla flavouring = added sugar?

yogurt is yogurt. It’s like suggesting semi skimmed milk is more sugary just because chocolate milk exists, and you might mix them up somehow

I don’t understand what (or frankly why) you’re arguing here. It has nothing to do with being ‘stupid’ or getting mixed up.

The item linked previously has vanilla flavouring AND sugar added. Here’s a flavoured yoghurt that does not contain sugar, but artificial sweetener https://www.asda.com/groceries/product/diet-low-fat-no-added-sugar-yogurts/muller-light-banana-custard-flavour-yogurt-160g/6346360

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GoldPoster · 28/09/2025 21:36

That’s much too much food.Toast and porridge, drop the toast, drop the yoghurt.

Don’t have pasta salad, have proper salad with eggs, ham or chicken, you can keep the bread roll then.

no afternoon or evening snack.

Only have 70 grams of dried pasta and no garlic bread.

Eat a lot more vegetables.

HelenHywater · 28/09/2025 21:37

to be fair to the OP, I wouldn't be full on 40g of porridge and was also shocked when I discovered that was an actual portion.

I eat eggs or salmon for breakfast (sadly am dairy intolerant but love full fat greek yoghurt plus berries). Or I just fast until lunchtime.

I was also shocked at the calories in nuts - I can't do nuts as I would eat a handful and a million calories (similarly, who can eat one square of chocolate?!).

OP protein and green veg is the way to go. Bit of cheese to snack on.

Bambamhoohoo · 28/09/2025 21:40

Allisnotlost1 · 28/09/2025 21:34

I don’t understand what (or frankly why) you’re arguing here. It has nothing to do with being ‘stupid’ or getting mixed up.

The item linked previously has vanilla flavouring AND sugar added. Here’s a flavoured yoghurt that does not contain sugar, but artificial sweetener https://www.asda.com/groceries/product/diet-low-fat-no-added-sugar-yogurts/muller-light-banana-custard-flavour-yogurt-160g/6346360

Sorry do you not understand the point? It’s obvious if a yogurt has sugar (or sweetener ) added. Do you think people don’t know that? The one you’ve linked to is bloody banana flavoured 😂

there are plenty of plain fat free yogurts around. There is nothing wrong with fat free yogurt.

you’re arguing because you are spreading the myth that fat free yogurt is sugary and keep posting random links at someone who is simply confirming that it is not, inherently, any more sugary than full fat yogurt.

MemorableTrenchcoat · 28/09/2025 21:44

Bambamhoohoo · 28/09/2025 21:28

No, it was a couple of eggs OR yogurt and berries.

eggs are of course nutrious. I would argue that they are not more nutritious than porridge and toast, which contain more vitamins and minerals than eggs alone.

Let’s say you had a choice of desert islands to be stuck on for a month. One had nothing but eggs to eat, the other, only porridge and toast. I would suggest you’d be in much better health after a month on the former.

Bambamhoohoo · 28/09/2025 21:48

MemorableTrenchcoat · 28/09/2025 21:44

Let’s say you had a choice of desert islands to be stuck on for a month. One had nothing but eggs to eat, the other, only porridge and toast. I would suggest you’d be in much better health after a month on the former.

Yes that’s a perfectly logical and scientific way to measure this nutritional value of food 😂

MemorableTrenchcoat · 28/09/2025 21:52

Bambamhoohoo · 28/09/2025 21:48

Yes that’s a perfectly logical and scientific way to measure this nutritional value of food 😂

It may not be scientific, but it illustrates that eggs would keep you in better health, for longer, than oats and wheat. Humans can survive perfectly well on zero carbohydrates, but would quickly die without protein and fat. Eggs are simply a more nutrient dense food than grains.

Bambamhoohoo · 28/09/2025 21:52

it doesn’t illustrate anything. It’s just an idea you have.

Antimimisti · 28/09/2025 21:53

MemorableTrenchcoat · 28/09/2025 21:44

Let’s say you had a choice of desert islands to be stuck on for a month. One had nothing but eggs to eat, the other, only porridge and toast. I would suggest you’d be in much better health after a month on the former.

Hmm, you'd be seriously constipated after a month on egg island 😂