"personally i think that research is questionable.. some kids get sick some dont... you cant stand there and say that a kid is sick or not sick simply because one was BF and one Wasnt."
Surely all adults need to be aware that human health and immunity is very complex, and as an individual you can almost never perceive a clear cause and effect relationship between lifestyle behaviours and health outcomes? This is true of almost everything which we know to be harmful: failure to exercise, eating diets deficient in fruit and vegetables, smoking, drinking in pregnancy etc. That's why we need medical research to flag up the damage they cause! I'm amazed that so many adult women apply this reasoning to breastfeeding when it wouldn't occur to them to judge the value of other things behaviours in this way.
"Sure, we KNOW that bf improves a babies immune system, but it doesn't make it fool proof, its not a fail safe... its not the cure to all ills... just like FF doesnt mean a child can't be 100% healthy just because they were never BF'd."
Breastfeeding doesn't 'improve' a baby's immune system. Artificial feeding deprives a baby of the immunological protection that physiologically normal feeding confers.
Not even the most ardent advocate of bf argues that it's a 'cure to all ills'so arguments about bf not being a 'golden bullet' are irrelevant. Where is the value in challenging an opinion that we all hold to be false anyway?
"Every child is an individual, as is their immune system and how its built up by the environment they live in"
Yes - very true. And as breastmilk adapts according to the immunological challenges the individual child faces it helps to protect that child from illness. Children who are not breastfed have one less tool in their health armoury.