freddysteddy apology accepted.
I am pretty well educated to degree level and have a very demanding 'specialist' role at work in the health service so to be called thick was not very nice. All forgotten now though .
I'm afraid I still really don't know what to do for the best. I am so befuddled. DH thinks I'm mad and that we should just carry on as before, esp as DD2 is 6 months old now, so not newborn (she was BF for 4 months).
I agree with ohidoliketobebesidethe, does anyone actually follow the guidelines that strictly? How can you with a baby?! My DD is pretty regular with her feed times, but not always, and also, with a toddler to contend with too, and a house to run, my life is very busy without having to think about it all day long, IYSWIM. It's bad enough having ti wash and sterilise the bottles anyway let alone what the guidelines suggest.
I was thinking of changing to making up the feeds, adding the powder to about 4oz of water when water hot (not boiling) then storing in the fridge. Then when DD needs feeding add boiled water to make up the 8oz and warm milk at the same time. What do people think, does this sound like a good compromise, IYSWIM? Still not convinced cos the side of the formula tin says not to store made up feeds.
TBH, I still feel that these guidelines, as a lot of other things, are there to protect companies from litigation.
We are told we shouldn't use baby bouncers cos it's bad for their hips, but people still do, and not to use baby walkers cos it can make them toe walkers, but people still do (not me cos being a physio, all things musculoskeletal must be followed...I also have a very good friend who's a specilaist paed physio...she'd kill me if I did!!! ).
I also would like to say that I personally would take note of what notsoserious has to say as she is highly qualified in biochemistry.....