Just looking for some support…not getting any at home. Between us me and my other half have now 5 children. As far as I know the other 3 children were basically brought up by him. Now we have a child together and culturally I should BF with my son I didn’t make enough milk so had to combine. Now I have enough to feed our little one who so far has refused bottles (tongue tie now cut but still refusing) and I’m being told I am being controlling and only thinking about my feelings and not his. I’ve offered him nappy changes, bath time I waited weeks for him to do this and in the end gave up….I've sobbed and sobbed as I really don’t want to give formula…I’ve started expressing but struggling with the machine…and I’m unsure if she will even take it from a bottle as when we’ve tried before she gags and refuses it to the point where she gets herself in such a state she throws up digested milk.
I just want someone else’s view from mums side and especially a dads side really.
please please help one struggling confused mummy.