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Considering not breastfeeding because 38G nursing bras are £27+. What should I do?

63 replies

mumblesmummy · 05/03/2008 17:36

Just a quick note as I'm going out the door, but I'll be back on to check responses tomorrow.

All nursing bras in size 38G are around £30 or more. I just can't afford it so I'm considering giving in before I've started and just bottle feeding. I've fought off everyone who's said bottle feed but now I'm at my wits end.

If I can't get a bra then I can't do it. My boobs are terrible as it is.

Does anyone know where I can get cheap bras?

Can anyone remind me why i wanted to breastfeed in the first place

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ILikeToMoveItMoveIt · 05/03/2008 17:39

Try Ebay for cheaper bra's.

I know what you mean about the cost, but just think how much you would spend on formula compared to a couple of bra's?

Please don't let this be a reason for you to stop.

PenelopePitstops · 05/03/2008 17:39

oh dear mumblessmummy

will bottle feeding not cost you more?
no real advice bumoing for you

TheBlonde · 05/03/2008 17:40

how much will formula cost a week?

OrangeKnickers · 05/03/2008 17:40

you can bf in a normal bra - it's just a faff in public.

belgo · 05/03/2008 17:40

you'll spend a lot more then that on formula milk and all the bottles, sterilising equipment etc.

hecate · 05/03/2008 17:40

bottles, formula and sterilising stuff will cost you a lot more than £30. A lot more.

I suppose you might get tokens for formula depending on circs, but not bottles, replacement teats etc etc--- adds up.

StealthPolarBear · 05/03/2008 17:41

Sorry you're having problems, but surely formula + bottles etc must be more?
Hopefully someone will be around soon with somewhere you can get reasonably priced nursng bras. Mine were from M&S, £25 for 2 but not sure what size they go up to.

OrangeKnickers · 05/03/2008 17:41

and big tins of formula at £8 a throw....

QuintessentialShadow · 05/03/2008 17:42

Formula is expensive.
Bottles cost a packet.
Teats cost money too.
Wont you need a Sterilizer?

And the hassle.

Are you sure the cost of the bra is the real reason?

Is this your first baby?

katz · 05/03/2008 17:42

mothercare 38G nursing bras are £14 eahc or 2 for £25, they were fine for me,

margoandjerry · 05/03/2008 17:43

Orangeknickers, at 36F myself I would have found it impossible to bf in a normal bra. The cups are just much bigger and come up higher so you can't get your boobs out properly.

Mumblesmummy, I just used soft cup nursing bras from John Lewis - they weren't £30. They were also a bit horrible and I was glad to see the back of them but really, it was totally worth it. I have similar sized boobs to you and I found I managed ok with the ones in JL which weren't a perfect fit but did the job for the few months I needed it. And moveitmoveit is right - formula will cost much more.

Jenkeywoo · 05/03/2008 17:43

Ok, this may seem glib but the cost formula and bottles etc would soon overtake the costs of a couple of bras. In an ideal world you would have 4 maybe but I coped with two and handwashed them as and when. I would recommend the bravado ++ bra - www.figleaves.com/uk/product.asp?product_id=BVO-1013&mci=&size=&colour=&image=r573693-p573714-back

and use this discount here: ELEMIS to get 15% off and free delivery.

katz · 05/03/2008 17:43

oh and i was wearing a 36J, these bras provided enough support

StealthPolarBear · 05/03/2008 17:44

Def look on ebay, and you could even resell once you're done!

Lulumama · 05/03/2008 17:44

99p on ebay

FioFio · 05/03/2008 17:44

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Twiglett · 05/03/2008 17:45

bloody hell you won't be able to afford formula then

SheherazadetheGoat · 05/03/2008 17:45

just get the £12 bras from john lewis and develop an up and over technique. this really isn't an issue.

you want to breastfeed if you can because

a. it is good for baby
b. it ia good for you , lot sof happy hormones
c. it is a nice thing to do
d. bottles are faff.

btw it probably will hurt and you will get confused and need help but tbh it is worth it.

MrsSeanSlater · 05/03/2008 17:46

This is a terrible reason not to bf.
Formula will cost you far, far more anyway.

spicemonster · 05/03/2008 17:46

Honestly, having switched from bf to ff when my DS turned six months (because I went back to work and my milk supply dried up), formula is much, much more expensive that bfing. A box of formula (which lasts about a week) is 5-6 quid. I have big boobs too and had 2 bras and just rinsed them out overnight.

Also you can get nursing bras in your size from figleaves (Royce Cherish) for £18

Twiglett · 05/03/2008 17:46

mothercare 2 for £18

Jenkeywoo · 05/03/2008 17:47

nursing bras in 38G under £20 - (and you could use discount code, there's loads out there if you google figleaves discount codes and they are great with returns etc.

www.figleaves.com/uk/nsf/qwiseranswered.asp?searchhandle=A%253dbra%257eB%253dbra%257eD%253d12%257eG% 253d4060%255e2%255e3776%255e2%255e3921%255e2%257eK%253d4%257eL%253d1%257eM%253d2%257eN%253d4%257e&an swerhandle=P1520&sortorderrequested=&originalquery=Bra&oqmc=&answerhandlecrumb=&spellercorrections =&pagesize=&removetextsearch=&hd=&colouranswerselected=&productid=&productcolour=&answer=1&answer=1& answer=P1520&answer=1&answer=1

LittleBottle · 05/03/2008 17:47

Are you any good at sewing? I bought some nursing bra clips off eBay for £2.50 and attatched them to a normal bra (you'll a bit of elastic as well).

MrsSeanSlater · 05/03/2008 17:47

It might hurt at first^. Maybe only a week or so. It's not usual for it to hurt beyond that.

spicemonster · 05/03/2008 17:47

I think this is just a ploy to get us to do her research