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growth spurt?? advice / moral support needed please

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chiefcookandbottlewasher · 23/01/2008 10:40

i am breastfeeding my dd, 6 days old today. So far she has taken to it really well, no problems latching on, a little bit snoozy on the breast but getting some decent periods of sleep between feeds.

Since yesterday however, she has fed almost constantly round the clock with hysterical crying the minute she comes off the breast (she does this voluntarily but just wants to go back on immediately). She snatches small sleeps in between feeds.

My milk came in over Sunday/Monday and ironically the initial nipple cracking that i had has now healed and i have no discomfort when feedng. My main concern is that dd may not be getting all she needs from me, but last night after a solid 3 and a half hours swapping between one breast and the other i gave in and fed her some formula. she took about 30ml and promptly threw most of that back up so she appears to be filling up on my milk, its just that she can't get enough! Also, where initially my breasts were swollen and felt quite hard, they have now softened again and are comfortable. I take this as another sign that dd is getting plenty from them. I have checked that she is not suffering from wind, she does not just want to suck on a finger or dummy for comfort, has regular nappy changes etc.

My husband is concerned that dd is missing out on something and this is why she wants to feed all the time, also that i am getting only snatched five and ten minute bursts of sleep. He is trying to persuade me to switch to bottle feedng. I am determined to carry on feeding dd myself, can live wth the sleep deprivation (as long as its only short-term), and am hoping that this is merely a growth spurt and will soon pass. Can anyone advise / reassure me that I am doing the right thing? Would be really helpful to know that others out there have been through the same thing.

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chiefcookandbottlewasher · 31/01/2008 11:56

oh forgot to add, woke up to a bed full of breastmilk this morning so the cluster feeding is obviously having the desired effect! Am going to try expressing some today so it doesn't go to waste!

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chiefcookandbottlewasher · 31/01/2008 12:12

whoops x-post. What a cutie - a fine head of hair! am in awe of anyone who manages to get a profile together, that's the sort of thing i should have taken time to do while pregnant cos it definitely ain't goin to happen now!

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lisa42 · 31/01/2008 12:22

Hi
My little one is now 6 wks old and was just as you describe dd to be. I started pumping on and off to increase supply but just relaxing helps. Tis hard for everyone as you can't see how much milk they are getting from the breast whereas a bottle its obvious.
All babies have unique feeding patterns and some are more relaxed so they feed with no urgency but this results in feeding more often,,, v tiring for you though isn't it. I see no harm in supplementing with formula - you just have to go with your mummy instincts rather than react out of fear and judgement of yourself. you'll be grand x

Bouncingturtle · 01/02/2008 07:22

Knew the other night was too good to be true - ds is back to 2 hourly (or less!) feeds!
He as feeing much yesterday morning, sleepy but not actually sleeping, and then snacking most of the afternoon and evening. He was doing the same this morning, cries, pop him on he sucks for a few minutes then falls asleep. 10 minutes later repeats itself. I guess he is cluster feeding again...

soremummy · 01/02/2008 10:32

turtle get your bum on the sofa and remote in hand sit relax and enjoy him

Bouncingturtle · 01/02/2008 14:29

That's what I did, I'm rewatching Buffy!!

Bouncingturtle · 08/02/2008 08:10

Chief - how are you doing.

I'm very proud, I've made it to 6 weeks and have no intention of giving bfing up

chiefcookandbottlewasher · 08/02/2008 18:14

whoops, fell off the edge of the planet for a while there, can't believe how quickly time goes when you're basically just sitting around feeding all day! Well done for persevering, didn't think i'd make it at one point, but really glad i stuck at it now. Is ds settling into more of a routine now?

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Bouncingturtle · 08/02/2008 18:20

Not really, but not stressing about it! Glad to hear you are ok!

chiefcookandbottlewasher · 08/02/2008 18:24

think that's the key isn't it? as long as you expect to be feeding most of the time and you know that it's normal, its no longer stressful! We have good days and bad days - the best are when we get a 5 hour stretch of sleep at night!!! - but at least i know that feeding for half an hour out of every single hour of the day doesn't mean there's something wrong with me or my milk. Can actually say that i am enjoyin it now, and i didn't ever think that would happen!

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Bouncingturtle · 06/03/2008 08:05

Hey Chiefcook - how's it going?
Ds is 10 weeks now, he is having odd nights where he is going 4 hours between feeds for the first half of the night but then going to 2 hours through the rest of the night. Hoping this will settle down to 4 hourly feeds all through the night!
Did you find some nice bras, btw?

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