I did, mud, which is why I made at least one of the same points below.
You don't say whether your friend is exclusively breastfeeding her son, or whether he eats solids as well.
I advocate the benefits of breastfeeding, but draw the line for a two year old.
NOT, YOU WILL NOTICE "ADVOCATE THE BENEFITS OF EXCLUSIVE BREASTFEEDING, BUT DRAW THE LINE FOR A TWO YEAR OLD" -- IT'S "BREASTFEEDING" FULL STOP.
I'm sure your friend has the best intentions, but I think she could be creating problems for herself.
WELL, YES, SHE COULD BE. IF SHE'S EXCLUSIVELY BREASTFEEDING, WHICH THERE IS NO EVIDENCE AT ALL THAT SHE IS.
Breast milk is perfect for babies - it provides the optimal amount of nutrients and allows the mother to pass on antibodies that can help reduce the chance of her baby developing infections and allergies. However, once a baby is six months old, milk alone will not meet all their nutritional requirements. Milk is also quite low in iron and, as the baby's stores of iron will have depleted by siz months, other sources will need to be introduced.
Babies are ready to move onto solids by six months, plus they need to develop the hand and eye coordination needed to get food into their mouth. Eating is also important in developming their speech as it helps them learn how to form sounds.
YES, ALL GOOD REASONS WHY EXCLUSIVELY BREASTFEEDING A TWO YEAR OLD WOULD BE A BAD IDEA. BUT THERE IS NO SUGGESTION IN THE ORIGINAL LETTER THAT THE FRIEND WAS EXCLUSIVELY BREASTFEEDING. REALLY, WHO EXCLUSIVELY BREASTFEEDS A TWO-YEAR-OLD? NO ONE I CAN THINK OF. WHO NON-EXCLUSIVELY BREASTFEEDS A TWO-YEAR-OLD? LOTS OF PEOPLE. WHICH IS IT MORE LIKELY THAT THE FRIEND IS DOING? NON-EXCLUSIVELY BREASTFEEDING. WHICH IS IT THAT THE EXPERT GEARS ALMOST THE WHOLE REPLY TOWARDS (WITHOUT MAKING IT CLEAR THAT THAT'S WHAT HE/SHE IS DOING)? EXCLUSIVELY BREASTFEEDING.
Breastfeeding is also detrimental to the mother's health, as the calcium required for milk not only comes from the stores in her bones, buy also her diet.
DON'T SEE THE PROBLEM IN IT COMING FROM HER DIET BREASTFEEDING MOTHERS TYPICALLY TAKE IN EXTRA CALCIUM ANYWAY. AND THE RESEARCH EVIDENCE IS THAT IT DOESN'T DAMAGE CALCIUM IN BONES LONG-TERM. THE FACT THAT THE "EXPERT" DOESN'T SEEM TO KNOW THAT IS ONE OF THE THINGS THAT MAKES ME . PLUS THERE ARE RECOGNISED BENEFITS TO THE MOTHER IN BREASTFEEDING FOR THIS LONG LOWER RATES OF SEVERAL TYPES OF CANCER (BREAST, OVARIAN, UTERINE TO NAME A FEW) AND LOWER RATES OF ARTHRITIS. THE "EXPERT" CONVENIENTLY DOESN'T MENTION ANY OF THAT WHEN MAKING THE SWEEPING STATEMENT THAT BREASTFEEDING IS "DETRIMENTAL TO THE MOTHER'S HEALTH".
The nutritional benefits of breast milk will also be insignificant, as he is unlikely to be taking large volumes.
NO MORE "INSIGNIFICANT" THAN THE BENEFITS OF WHATEVER HE'D BE DRINKING INSTEAD IF HE WEREN'T DRINKING BREASTMILK! AND WHATEVER THAT IS WOULDN'T HAVE THE IMMUNE FACTORS, ETC. (SEVERAL OF WHICH ACTUALLY INCREASE IN BREASTMILK ONCE THE CHILD IS OVER ONE). SO WHY IS IT A BAD IDEA TO GIVE HIM HUMAN MILK BUT (BY IMPLICATION) A GOOD THING TO GIVE HIM COWS' MILK?
He will also have a good set of teeth by now, so she may have been nipped a few times too!
PERSONALLY I GOT NIPPED A FEW TIMES BY DS WHEN HE WAS 6-8 MONTHS. NEVER BEEN BITTEN SINCE. WHAT IS THE ASSUMPTION THAT THE MORE TEETH THEY HAVE THE MORE YOU GET BITTEN, RATHER THAN THAT MOST MOTHERS MANAGE TO TEACH THEM NOT TO BITE? AS THE "EXPERT" CLEARLY HAS NO PERSONAL EXPERIENCE THIS IS A FAIRLY SILLY COMMENT.