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Bloody hypocritical NHS about breast/bottle feeding

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Somersaults · 14/02/2012 12:36

When pregnant and a new mother I could definitely feel pressure from all the health care professionals I saw to exclusively breastfeed. Which was fine because I was planning on doing so anyway. And then since DD was born every HCP has nodded approvingly or looked delighted when they've asked how she's feeding and I said ebf.

I get to clinic yesterday to have her weighed, explain that she's had sickness and diarrhea for two days, and that I'd had it for another day and a half after that, but they still told me I should think about giving her a bottle of formula every day because she's only gained an ounce in the two weeks since she was last weighed and her weight has dropped below two centile lines from her birth weight.

Argh! Of course she's barely gained anything! She kept nothing down for two days and then I fed her for another day and a half without eating anything myself!

I just find it hypocritical that they push so hard for breastfeeding and the minute the baby doesn't gain the prescribed amount they start recommending formula! The book says that a child who falls anywhere within those centile lines is of a normal weight! It also says that they are expected to drop centiles if they are I'll but should be back on track within two to three weeks. Not two to three days like apparently my HV expects! And then, probably not on purpose but still, made me feel like I was doing something wrong by saying I wanted to continue to ebf. I've got to take her back next week when if she's not gained enough they'll tell me again to start giving her formula! I'm not bolshy enough to keep saying no so if that happens I'll end up stopping taking her to be weighed. I'll have to do it on my kitchen scales!

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chocolateyclur · 17/02/2012 20:25

Thanks everyone.

I'm on the fenugreek at the moment, so smell delicious. I'm not sure if it's made a difference or not - because I'm not sure how bad (if at all) the situation was pre hv of doom.

thereal... I've spoken with an nct breastfeeding counsellor, who has suggested skin to skin and putting it to the back of my mind for 2 weeks as he may be finding his own centile (so been born bigger than he was "meant" to be). I've also spoken with a midwife at the birthing centre here who has said similar. I have a (small) thread on it (before I made the link to the drugs I was given) but can't work out how to link from phone. Blush

He put on 6oz in 2 weeks, which is what took him down the centiles (he "should have" put on more, apparently) so he's obviously gaining weight, thus I have some milk (or he's sneaking my creme eggs). I'm just frustrated at the GP's blasé attitude - especially since 2 weeks ago at his 6 week check we had the usual "and are you still breastfeeding?" question.

I am also noticing a difference in the PCTs. Where I had DS1, there was a very very low bf rate. The GPs and HVs fell over themselves to help - lansinoh was on prescription, I was told that if I had supply problems there were drugs like domperione to help. In this pct where bf rates are high, they don't seem to want to help, just tick the box that says it's being done Sad

Somersaults · 27/02/2012 20:03

Saw GP today who tried very hard to be professional but said DD looked absolutely fine, not to worry unless she was losing weight and that sometimes the charts might not be based on bf babies (but I think that's already been covered on here :) ) and that they're also not always plotted accurately.

Took DD to clinic this afternoon and she's put on 14oz in two weeks and I've stuck to ebf so I'm really pleased she's gained fine without formula. HV can't say she's not getting enough after that gain!

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Somersaults · 27/02/2012 20:03

And I meant to say thanks for everyone's support and advice. You really helped me.

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worldgonecrazy · 28/02/2012 08:21

Somersaults, that is great news. Well done on the weight gain.

Somersaults · 28/02/2012 16:02

Thank you :)

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