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I love 4C Hair!

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lotussnow · 12/11/2021 13:42

Praise to 4c Hair!!

Black people have different hair patterns and textures but when you think Black people, the automatic image is the hair texture mainly known as '4c hair' or 'Afro-textured hair'.

Not surprising that this is the hair that's been shat on the most! The hair that's overlooked and ignored because it doesn't have visible 'gorgeous curls' - at best, and seen as ugly - at worst.

The hair that's said to not be 'styled' or 'finished' unless it's curled, gelled or straightened to within an inch of it's life.

The hair that's said to not "look right" or professional.

The hair that's not just what grows out of our head but is seen as a statement, political, rebellious, akin to chanting "strong black woman" or "Black power".

To me, it's none of those. It's just hair. It grows, it sheds, it does everything that it's supposed to do. It's versatile. It's delicate. It's beautiful. It's styled. It's finished. It's naturally unapologetically fluffy, frizzy and soft. It needs patience and understanding because we've been conditioned to look elsewhere for beauty. We can wear it however we like!

I'm just appreciating 4c hair in it's natural glory and different styling. If we don't, who will?

Happy Friday all!Smile

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lotussnow · 12/11/2021 14:04

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lotussnow · 12/11/2021 14:14

Still have 3 posts to make. Photos are glitching. Will be back.

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lotussnow · 12/11/2021 14:33

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TheBlackDarner · 12/11/2021 14:39

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Just slapping on my Astral and looking in.
Love the joy in your threads, they make me happy @lotussnow.

lotussnow · 12/11/2021 14:50

Grin Slap on! @TheBlackDarner

Photos are messing with my thread. Would have been done by now. Had to make only 4 posts with 3 collages each, like the first post but I'm having some problems posting them. So I've been trying to do single images.

MNHQ have offered to help but I'm not sure what's going on with the photos. Oh well...

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YetAnotherBeckyMumsnet · 12/11/2021 14:50

As OP reached her image limit, we're posting these on her behalf.

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lotussnow · 12/11/2021 14:52

Oh yay! It worked. Many thanks @YetAnotherBeckyMumsnetFlowers

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YetAnotherBeckyMumsnet · 12/11/2021 14:52

...and here.

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TheBlackDarner · 12/11/2021 15:29

@YetAnotherBeckyMumsnet Flowers
That was a very special thing to do.ThankyouSmile
These hairstyles are FAB U LOUS!

lotussnow · 12/11/2021 15:35

It is, TheBlackDarner. I didn't realise I'd gone past my limit. Thought I was doing well with the collages so I don't flood the thread - must have ruined the limit with the 'black don't crack' thread.😅

I have 3 more collages, may do so tomorrow if I can't get them done today. As usual, I have to finish what I started.Grin

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lotussnow · 12/11/2021 15:36

I meant, it's a very special thing to do. Becky offered to add them on my behalf when I enquired to know what was wrong.Flowers

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YetAnotherBeckyMumsnet · 12/11/2021 16:46

Some more here via @lotussnow

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lotussnow · 12/11/2021 16:48

🤗 🙌🏽 @YetAnotherBeckyMumsnet

Thank you. I'm done now.

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Starseeking · 12/11/2021 20:07

These images are lovely, thank you @lotussnow and @YetAnotherBeckyMumsnet!

I have short 4c hair, and dark skin. I've never hated either or lacked in confidence, however the amount of people who seem to expect me to be cowering in a corner crippled with anxiety and in awe of the rest of the world is unreal!

The ladies in your images are glowing like queens, I love it. This thread is wonderful ❤️❤️❤️

lotussnow · 12/11/2021 20:41

I have short 4c hair, and dark skin. I've never hated either or lacked in confidence, however the amount of people who seem to expect me to be cowering in a corner crippled with anxiety and in awe of the rest of the world is unreal!

You spoke nothing but the truth! @Starseeking.❤❤

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NLisa · 13/11/2021 12:53

I really love your treads. I am just back from Jamaica and I had forgotten how good it feels to just be, and be appreciated for everything I am.

Jamdown123 · 13/11/2021 18:01

I have 4b hair, and actually always wanted 4c hair. My afro falls out of shape too quick maaaan.

My daughter has 4c and I can't wait to do all the dos with her hair!!!

mishmased · 13/11/2021 18:05

I'm terrible bad at all these hair differentiations 😂 I don't even know what mine is but it looks like some of these. How do people get to grow their hair like these and what do they use?

mishmased · 13/11/2021 18:06

Oh fantastically gorgeous hair👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

Dastardlythefriendlymutt · 13/11/2021 20:10

I love 4c hair!!!! It really is glorious!

ButterflyBitch · 13/11/2021 20:15

It’s beautiful. 👌🏼

PriamFarrl · 13/11/2021 20:15

Hands up. I am a white woman (pale as winter show and with the straightest hair you can imagine) and was intrigued to know what 4C hair was. Thank you op. It looks beautiful.