Due December 09 - Fluttering Tums and Excited Mums...

[SarahL2]

New Thread before the old one fills up.

You have to push both keys together, whilst holding down ctrl push c to copy and v to paste.

Will this make it easier

Some people have also added ages of curent DC's, baby's sex and thier postcode - I'm sure if you posted them, someone would add them for you....

fatandiknowit - DC1, EDD 25th Nov - 1st Dec,
Flumpity - DC2, (DD 22 mths) - EDD 27th Nov - 1st Dec,
raggie - DC1, EDD 28th Nov N4 but soon OX4!
Anniebigpants- DC2, EDD 1st Dec ,SR5
Spaniel-DC2 (DD almost 4) EDD 1st Dec
Charleymouse DC4, (DD 4; DST2 2; DST1 Angel) - EDD 2nd Dec, S6, 17th July, D/K.
Kingsroadie - DC1, EDD 2nd Dec, SW5
4thtimelucky - DC1, EDD 3rd Dec,
sickbubby (DD 3) - EDD 3rd Dec - 6th Dec,
Catz - DC2, (DD 20 mths) - EDD 4th Dec,
Pumpkin20 - DC2, EDD 4th Dec,
sparklycheerymummy - (DD 7) EDD 28th Nov - 5th Dec,
BexJ78 - DC1, EDD 5th Dec, YO26
Moosy - DC3, (2 DDs, 3 1/2 and 2) - EDD 6th Dec,
Firawla - DC2, (DS 12 mths) - EDD 6th Dec,
Sleepychunky - DC2, (DS 22 mths) - EDD 7th Dec,
Claire236 - DC2, (DS 4) - EDD 7th Dec,
Boogeek - DC3, (2 DDs, 5 & 2 1/2) - EDD 7th Dec,
BubblesBump - DC1, EDD 8th Dec, W11
Legscrossed - DC1, EDD 9th Dec,
damnitdamnit - DC2, (DD 20 mths) - EDD 9th Dec,
HazeDB - DC1, EDD 9th Dec,
BlueChampagne-DC2 EDD 10th Dec
Beffnal - DC1, EDD 11th Dec,
JumpingJellyfish - DC3, (DS 4; DD 2) - EDD 11th Dec,
Fairywing - DC1, (mc Jan 08 )- EDD 11th Dec,
Baisey - DS is 2.5, EDD 11th Dec,
FlyingDuck - DC1, EDD 11th Dec,
Devongirl - DC2, (DS 2.5) - EDD 12th Dec, Mystery Gender!
Blackteaplease - DC1, EDD 13th Dec,
Whistlejacket DC3, (DS 9 mths; DS 3 years) - EDD 14th Dec,
Tillyscoutsmum - DC2, (DD 23 mths; DSD 5) - EDD 15th Dec - Boy !
Mybox - DC6 - EDD 15th Dec
Ravgirl - DC1, EDD 16th Dec,
Stigaloid - DC2, (DS 22 mths) - EDD 17th Dec,
Viktoriamac - DC1, EDD 18th Dec,
bumpsoon - DC3, EDD 18th Dec
Docket - DC3, EDD 20th Dec,
BexieID - DC2, (Tom 3) EDD 25th Dec,
PennyBenjamin - DC2, (DS 7 1/2 mths) - EDD 20th Dec,
Becksworth - DC1, EDD 21st Dec,
missDiddles - DC1, EDD 21st Dec,
Biscuitsmustbedunkedintea - DC2, (DD 3.2) - EDD 21st Dec,
Scorpio - DC4, EDD 25th Dec,
Lollie77 - DC2, (DC1- Angel baby) - EDD 22nd Dec,
Noodleboo - DC3, EDD 22nd Dec, RH19,
madmissy - DS1 3rd child, EDD 21st Dec,
cairnterrier - DC1, EDD 23rd Dec, NR4,
Harimad - DC2, (DS1 2.2) EDD 24-26th Dec, SE3,
JoseyM - DC1, EDD 25th Dec..eek!
MiapieMum - DC1, EDD 25th Dec,
Rookie81 - DC1, EDD 25th Dec,
Didov - DC3, (DS 3; DD 14 mths) EDD Dec 25th,
Ripcow - DC1+2(!!!), EDD Dec 25th, SG4, identical girls
1petshortofazoo - DC2, (DS 3) EDD 26th Dec, DN15,
LaDiDaDi - DC2, EDD 26th Dec,
BlameitontheBogey - DC2, EDD 26th Dec,
Madremia09 - EDD 26th Dec,
Milliemuffin - DC2, (DS 22 mths) EDD 27th Dec,
GoldenSnitch - DC2, (DS 2.9) EDD 27th Dec, MK14, Girl (DD1)
Alexpolismum - DC3, [DS 2; DD 10 mths] EDD 28th Dec,
Lolianja - DC2, (DS1 2 mths) - EDD 29th Dec,
jumblies - DC2, EDD 27th Dec,
LittleMonkeysMummy - DC2, (DD 14 mths) EDD 30th Dec. AB21,
Pinkjenny - DC2, (DD 23 mths) EDD 31st Dec,
MarlaSinger - DC2, (DS 18 mths) EDD 31st Dec

oh dear ,had a go and only ended up making the writing on the page really ,really big!!
these are my details if anyone can see fit to add them for me

bumpsoon - DC3 (DS 15yrs, DD 7yrs) EDD 18 dec

bumpsoon - DC3 (DS 15yrs, DD 7yrs) EDD 18 dec
fatandiknowit - DC1, EDD 25th Nov - 1st Dec,
Flumpity - DC2, (DD 22 mths) - EDD 27th Nov - 1st Dec,
raggie - DC1, EDD 28th Nov N4 but soon OX4!
Anniebigpants- DC2, EDD 1st Dec ,SR5
Spaniel-DC2 (DD almost 4) EDD 1st Dec
Charleymouse DC4, (DD 4; DST2 2; DST1 Angel) - EDD 2nd Dec, S6, 17th July, D/K.
Kingsroadie - DC1, EDD 2nd Dec, SW5
4thtimelucky - DC1, EDD 3rd Dec,
sickbubby (DD 3) - EDD 3rd Dec - 6th Dec,
Catz - DC2, (DD 20 mths) - EDD 4th Dec,
Pumpkin20 - DC2, EDD 4th Dec,
sparklycheerymummy - (DD 7) EDD 28th Nov - 5th Dec,
BexJ78 - DC1, EDD 5th Dec, YO26
Moosy - DC3, (2 DDs, 3 1/2 and 2) - EDD 6th Dec,
Firawla - DC2, (DS 12 mths) - EDD 6th Dec,
Sleepychunky - DC2, (DS 22 mths) - EDD 7th Dec,
Claire236 - DC2, (DS 4) - EDD 7th Dec,
Boogeek - DC3, (2 DDs, 5 & 2 1/2) - EDD 7th Dec,
BubblesBump - DC1, EDD 8th Dec, W11
Legscrossed - DC1, EDD 9th Dec,
damnitdamnit - DC2, (DD 20 mths) - EDD 9th Dec,
HazeDB - DC1, EDD 9th Dec,
BlueChampagne-DC2 EDD 10th Dec
Beffnal - DC1, EDD 11th Dec,
JumpingJellyfish - DC3, (DS 4; DD 2) - EDD 11th Dec,
Fairywing - DC1, (mc Jan 08 )- EDD 11th Dec,
Baisey - DS is 2.5, EDD 11th Dec,
FlyingDuck - DC1, EDD 11th Dec,
Devongirl - DC2, (DS 2.5) - EDD 12th Dec, Mystery Gender!
Blackteaplease - DC1, EDD 13th Dec,
Whistlejacket DC3, (DS 9 mths; DS 3 years) - EDD 14th Dec,
Tillyscoutsmum - DC2, (DD 23 mths; DSD 5) - EDD 15th Dec - Boy !
Mybox - DC6 - EDD 15th Dec
Ravgirl - DC1, EDD 16th Dec,
Stigaloid - DC2, (DS 22 mths) - EDD 17th Dec,
Viktoriamac - DC1, EDD 18th Dec,
bumpsoon - DC3, EDD 18th Dec
Docket - DC3, EDD 20th Dec,
BexieID - DC2, (Tom 3) EDD 25th Dec,
PennyBenjamin - DC2, (DS 7 1/2 mths) - EDD 20th Dec,
Becksworth - DC1, EDD 21st Dec,
missDiddles - DC1, EDD 21st Dec,
Biscuitsmustbedunkedintea - DC2, (DD 3.2) - EDD 21st Dec,
Scorpio - DC4, EDD 25th Dec,
Lollie77 - DC2, (DC1- Angel baby) - EDD 22nd Dec,
Noodleboo - DC3, EDD 22nd Dec, RH19,
madmissy - DS1 3rd child, EDD 21st Dec,
cairnterrier - DC1, EDD 23rd Dec, NR4,
Harimad - DC2, (DS1 2.2) EDD 24-26th Dec, SE3,
JoseyM - DC1, EDD 25th Dec..eek!
MiapieMum - DC1, EDD 25th Dec,
Rookie81 - DC1, EDD 25th Dec,
Didov - DC3, (DS 3; DD 14 mths) EDD Dec 25th,
Ripcow - DC1+2(!!!), EDD Dec 25th, SG4, identical girls
1petshortofazoo - DC2, (DS 3) EDD 26th Dec, DN15,
LaDiDaDi - DC2, EDD 26th Dec,
BlameitontheBogey - DC2, EDD 26th Dec,
Madremia09 - EDD 26th Dec,
Milliemuffin - DC2, (DS 22 mths) EDD 27th Dec,
GoldenSnitch - DC2, (DS 2.9) EDD 27th Dec, MK14, Girl (DD1)
Alexpolismum - DC3, [DS 2; DD 10 mths] EDD 28th Dec,
Lolianja - DC2, (DS1 2 mths) - EDD 29th Dec,
jumblies - DC2, EDD 27th Dec,
LittleMonkeysMummy - DC2, (DD 14 mths) EDD 30th Dec. AB21,
Pinkjenny - DC2, (DD 23 mths) EDD 31st Dec,
MarlaSinger - DC2, (DS 18 mths) EDD 31st Dec

You see alot of people are horrible about teenagers ,but they are actually quite useful

Now you're on there twice though...

fatandiknowit - DC1, EDD 25th Nov - 1st Dec,
Flumpity - DC2, (DD 22 mths) - EDD 27th Nov - 1st Dec,
raggie - DC1, EDD 28th Nov N4 but soon OX4!
Anniebigpants- DC2, EDD 1st Dec ,SR5
Spaniel-DC2 (DD almost 4) EDD 1st Dec
Charleymouse DC4, (DD 4; DST2 2; DST1 Angel) - EDD 2nd Dec, S6, 17th July, D/K.
Kingsroadie - DC1, EDD 2nd Dec, SW5
4thtimelucky - DC1, EDD 3rd Dec,
sickbubby (DD 3) - EDD 3rd Dec - 6th Dec,
Catz - DC2, (DD 20 mths) - EDD 4th Dec,
Pumpkin20 - DC2, EDD 4th Dec,
sparklycheerymummy - (DD 7) EDD 28th Nov - 5th Dec,
BexJ78 - DC1, EDD 5th Dec, YO26
Moosy - DC3, (2 DDs, 3 1/2 and 2) - EDD 6th Dec,
Firawla - DC2, (DS 12 mths) - EDD 6th Dec,
Sleepychunky - DC2, (DS 22 mths) - EDD 7th Dec,
Claire236 - DC2, (DS 4) - EDD 7th Dec,
Boogeek - DC3, (2 DDs, 5 & 2 1/2) - EDD 7th Dec,
BubblesBump - DC1, EDD 8th Dec, W11
Legscrossed - DC1, EDD 9th Dec,
damnitdamnit - DC2, (DD 20 mths) - EDD 9th Dec,
HazeDB - DC1, EDD 9th Dec,
BlueChampagne-DC2 EDD 10th Dec
Beffnal - DC1, EDD 11th Dec,
JumpingJellyfish - DC3, (DS 4; DD 2) - EDD 11th Dec,
Fairywing - DC1, (mc Jan 08 )- EDD 11th Dec,
Baisey - DS is 2.5, EDD 11th Dec,
FlyingDuck - DC1, EDD 11th Dec,
Devongirl - DC2, (DS 2.5) - EDD 12th Dec, Mystery Gender!
Blackteaplease - DC1, EDD 13th Dec,
Whistlejacket DC3, (DS 9 mths; DS 3 years) - EDD 14th Dec,
Tillyscoutsmum - DC2, (DD 23 mths; DSD 5) - EDD 15th Dec - Boy !
Mybox - DC6 - EDD 15th Dec
Ravgirl - DC1, EDD 16th Dec,
Stigaloid - DC2, (DS 22 mths) - EDD 17th Dec,
Viktoriamac - DC1, EDD 18th Dec,
bumpsoon - DC3 (DS 15yrs, DD 7yrs) EDD 18 dec
Docket - DC3, EDD 20th Dec,
BexieID - DC2, (Tom 3) EDD 25th Dec,
PennyBenjamin - DC2, (DS 7 1/2 mths) - EDD 20th Dec,
Becksworth - DC1, EDD 21st Dec,
missDiddles - DC1, EDD 21st Dec,
Biscuitsmustbedunkedintea - DC2, (DD 3.2) - EDD 21st Dec,
Scorpio - DC4, EDD 25th Dec,
Lollie77 - DC2, (DC1- Angel baby) - EDD 22nd Dec,
Noodleboo - DC3, EDD 22nd Dec, RH19,
madmissy - DS1 3rd child, EDD 21st Dec,
cairnterrier - DC1, EDD 23rd Dec, NR4,
Harimad - DC2, (DS1 2.2) EDD 24-26th Dec, SE3,
JoseyM - DC1, EDD 25th Dec..eek!
MiapieMum - DC1, EDD 25th Dec,
Rookie81 - DC1, EDD 25th Dec,
Didov - DC3, (DS 3; DD 14 mths) EDD Dec 25th,
Ripcow - DC1+2(!!!), EDD Dec 25th, SG4, identical girls
1petshortofazoo - DC2, (DS 3) EDD 26th Dec, DN15,
LaDiDaDi - DC2, EDD 26th Dec,
BlameitontheBogey - DC2, EDD 26th Dec,
Madremia09 - EDD 26th Dec,
Milliemuffin - DC2, (DS 22 mths) EDD 27th Dec,
GoldenSnitch - DC2, (DS 2.9) EDD 27th Dec, MK14, Girl (DD1)
Alexpolismum - DC3, [DS 2; DD 10 mths] EDD 28th Dec,
Lolianja - DC2, (DS1 2 mths) - EDD 29th Dec,
jumblies - DC2, EDD 27th Dec,
LittleMonkeysMummy - DC2, (DD 14 mths) EDD 30th Dec. AB21,
Pinkjenny - DC2, (DD 23 mths) EDD 31st Dec,
MarlaSinger - DC2, (DS 18 mths) EDD 31st Dec

Am i ? how the heck have i managed that ? confounded technology

You were. I added you part way down (cause they're all in date order) then you got added again at the top.

No probs - Millie's fixed it

hi everyone

Am very tired and feel very stressed here, not actively stressed but alot on my plate i think. DH & I are getting along ok/well, but he seems to really want alot of affection and a) i feel ouched out by kids al lday long and b) i'm not really in that 'zone' with him yet. Just keep thinking what a dirty liar he is.

I have had my dss here all week; so thats 3 boys and dd i'm looking after. I have decided im not going to look after dss anymore; its too much. He is very hyperactive. He lives 300 miles from us; so its not a huge issue; DH will have to have time off to visit or stay at his mums with him (150 miles away).

I seem to have 1000 thoughts and nowhere to empty them.

I so want to enjoy this pregnancy you know, but it feels lile im just coping, not enjoying. He has ruined this for me. Heres to the next 17 weeks being better

Sorry to hear you're feeling down Scorps.

We're all here if you want to get rid of those 1000 thoughts - do you have a thread going at the mo?

No, i am actually coping quite well, just DSS is here and i find him very hard to handle; then with that and dealing from the hurt, the pregnancy...it just takes its toll i guess

I'm not surprised!! I had a fight with DH cause he ignored our aniversary a couple of weeks ago and that felt like the end of the world - what you're going through is a million times worse!

Maybe sending DSS back is a good idea. You have enough on your plate as it is!

The offer of an ear to bend or a shoulder to cry on is still there if you need it too...

Thankyou. He is going home on Tuesday, first thing. In hindsight it probably wasn't the best idea he still came down, but that would have caused more issues. I thought i would be ok but i'm not coping as well as i could with the 4 of them. (they are 7,7,4 and 16 months). DH says he will do anything to make it better, but Zac going home isn't on of them i guess, its not Z's fault his Father is a knobber.

The actual 'affair' isn't bothering me - i understand it now, just trying to heal with 4dc around isnt really happening.

You're too good for that man!

I'm not sure I could have forgiven him in your circumstance but then I am terrible for cutting my nose off to spite my face!

I hope you get some time out to do some healing soon...

Well, i kind of weighed it up, and realised that i would hurt more without him, than i would with him & working through this. It was not a full blown affair; he did not sleep with her, or tell her he loved her, or much at all really. If it was any more than what it actually was; he would be one very poor divorced man.

He is actually punishing himself more than i am hurting, i think. I am almost sure he will never stray again. I, however, used to feel so entirely devoted to him, and now i don't. I think he is a weak man. I have noticed men who look at me for the first time; i am being so selfish, i'm almost uncaring... i feel so revengeful; i think the baby is the only thing from stopping me getting any revenge, on OW or DH. I am a huge believer in Karma, and think that the phrase 'You're going to reap just what you sow' is very apt.

sorry for all this, lol

You see, that's what I mean - I would have had to hurt him back even if it hurt me more too.

You are being much more sensible and grown up

I hope you can fix things for yours and your children's sake.

I think you're doing really well so far

I'm trying to be grown up, lol It really is just the baby being there that i haven't gone and slept with someone and come home to tell him; to see him hurt. But, i never will, I believe in my vows wholeheartedly. He will punish himself more than i ever could. I am smug in the fact i have always considered him and my children in everything i do - something he cannot claim. He is a weak man, and i am not a weak woman. I know he will pay for this, far more than i am hurting.

I'm just dying for some relief of children or something!

scorps good on you. just dont take too much upon yourself though

i have my dss at the mo and had all 3 on my own the other day and its hard work

sometimes i too struggle with dss

Does your dss live near? mine onyl comes in holidays and i think the fact he isnt here much makes it all that harder iyswim.

lives 30 mins away and we have him every other weekend.

Hi All

Scorps really sorry you are feeling poop, but he will get his comeuppance, don't you worry! :-)

I went to yoga last night and one of the girls who had been to the classes brought her little boy in, just a few weeks old. I got a bit emotional when I think it came back to me again that we are going to have our own baby soon!

getting really pissed off with DH having to work late all the bloody time. he is absolutely pulled out with work, and IMO they are really putting too much on him, but they have had to make quite a few staff redundant, so he constantly has this threat hanging over his head of, 'you should think yourself lucky you have a job!' Alhough no one ever says so, there is that underlying atmosphere of do it, or you'll be out.... Plus he is hoping for promotion so is trying to keep all the senior management happy. But then he is tired and bloody grumpy and constantly thinking about work... And this is a senior job at a Times top 100 company!! arrgghhh! I feel like writing to his manager to tell him what i think, but that would get me precisely nowhere!

missy - i live right at the bottom (literally!) of Cornwall; dss lives in Glouscester, so its a 700 mile round trip

wow is it nice living down there?

so how often does he stay? no matter how long or how often still never easy

fatandiknowit - DC1, EDD 25th Nov - 1st Dec,
Flumpity - DC2, (DD 22 mths) - EDD 27th Nov - 1st Dec,
raggie - DC1, EDD 28th Nov N4 but soon OX4!
Anniebigpants- DC2, EDD 1st Dec ,SR5
Spaniel-DC2 (DD almost 4) EDD 1st Dec
Charleymouse DC4, (DD 4; DST2 2; DST1 Angel) - EDD 2nd Dec, S6, 17th July, D/K.
Kingsroadie - DC1, EDD 2nd Dec, SW5
4thtimelucky - DC1, EDD 3rd Dec,
sickbubby (DD 3) - EDD 3rd Dec - 6th Dec,
Catz - DC2, (DD 20 mths) - EDD 4th Dec,
Pumpkin20 - DC2, EDD 4th Dec,
sparklycheerymummy - (DD 7) EDD 28th Nov - 5th Dec,
BexJ78 - DC1, EDD 5th Dec, YO26
Moosy - DC3, (2 DDs, 3 1/2 and 2) - EDD 6th Dec,
Firawla - DC2, (DS 12 mths) - EDD 6th Dec,
Sleepychunky - DC2, (DS 22 mths) - EDD 7th Dec,
Claire236 - DC2, (DS 4) - EDD 7th Dec,
Boogeek - DC3, (2 DDs, 5 & 2 1/2) - EDD 7th Dec,
BubblesBump - DC1, EDD 8th Dec, W11
Legscrossed - DC1, EDD 9th Dec,
damnitdamnit - DC2, (DD 20 mths) - EDD 9th Dec,
HazeDB - DC1, EDD 9th Dec,
BlueChampagne-DC2 EDD 10th Dec
Beffnal - DC1, EDD 11th Dec,
JumpingJellyfish - DC3, (DS 4; DD 2) - EDD 11th Dec,
Fairywing - DC1, (mc Jan 08 )- EDD 11th Dec,
Baisey - DS is 2.5, EDD 11th Dec,
FlyingDuck - DC1, EDD 11th Dec,
Devongirl - DC2, (DS 2.5) - EDD 12th Dec, Mystery Gender!
Blackteaplease - DC1, EDD 13th Dec,
Whistlejacket DC3, (DS 9 mths; DS 3 years) - EDD 14th Dec,
Tillyscoutsmum - DC2, (DD 23 mths; DSD 5) - EDD 15th Dec - Boy !
Mybox - DC6 - EDD 15th Dec
Ravgirl - DC1, EDD 16th Dec,
Stigaloid - DC2, (DS 22 mths) - EDD 17th Dec,
Viktoriamac - DC1, EDD 18th Dec,
bumpsoon - DC3 (DS 15yrs, DD 7yrs) EDD 18 dec
Docket - DC3, EDD 20th Dec,
BexieID - DC2, (Tom 3) EDD 25th Dec,
PennyBenjamin - DC2, (DS 7 1/2 mths) - EDD 20th Dec,
Becksworth - DC1, EDD 21st Dec,
missDiddles - DC1, EDD 21st Dec,
Biscuitsmustbedunkedintea - DC2, (DD 3.2) - EDD 21st Dec,
Scorpio - DC4, EDD 25th Dec,
Lollie77 - DC2, (DC1- Angel baby) - EDD 22nd Dec,
Noodleboo - DC3, EDD 22nd Dec, RH19,
madmissy - DS1 3rd child, EDD 21st Dec,
cairnterrier - DC1, EDD 23rd Dec, NR4,
Harimad - DC2, (DS1 2.2) EDD 24-26th Dec, SE3,
JoseyM - DC1, EDD 25th Dec..eek!
MiapieMum - DC1, EDD 25th Dec,
Rookie81 - DC1, EDD 25th Dec,
Didov - DC3, (DS 3; DD 14 mths) EDD Dec 25th,
Ripcow - DC1+2(!!!), EDD Dec 25th, SG4, identical girls
1petshortofazoo - DC2, (DS 3) EDD 26th Dec, DN15,
LaDiDaDi - DC2, EDD 26th Dec,
BlameitontheBogey - DC2, EDD 26th Dec,
Madremia09 - EDD 26th Dec,
Milliemuffin - DC2, (DS 22 mths) EDD 27th Dec,
GoldenSnitch - DC2, (DS 2.9) EDD 27th Dec, MK14, Girl (DD1)
Alexpolismum - DC3, [DS 2; DD 10 mths] EDD 28th Dec,
Lolianja - DC2, (DS1 2 mths) - EDD 29th Dec,
jumblies - DC2, EDD 27th Dec,
LittleMonkeysMummy - DC2, (DD 14 mths) EDD 30th Dec. AB21,
Pinkjenny - DC2, (DD 2.3yo) EDD ELCS 29 Dec, boy, L31
MarlaSinger - DC2, (DS 18 mths) EDD 31st Dec

Just updating my stats.