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Due August 2009 - Does My Bump Look Big In This????

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kitkatqueen · 14/04/2009 11:25

Hello everybody Here is the shiny new thread, hope you found it ok!!

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mamamila · 05/05/2009 20:53

i'm having the same dilemma re: wheels. dd will be 2 the week after baby arrives. i love to use a pram for a newborn for first few months. i still have mountain buggy carrycot, but not the pushchair unfortunately thanks emirates so i'm tempted to buy another mountain buggy to use with carrycot but where to put mila? i think she'll still be too little for a buggy board.
i'm only 5'2" so not sure about the double pushchair. small women look so exhausted pushing those things around. i'm not keen on the phil&ted either, the whole slinging the baby under the buggy angle.
and if i did have to go down the double buggy route i'd definitely prefer rear facing for the baby.
who was it who said they's found one? kitkatqueen?

johnworf · 05/05/2009 21:20

Hi ladies. Sorry to hijack your lovely thread for a mo...just wanted to send my congrats to MichaelaS on having little Nathan

I had my DD#2 last May (she's almost 1, hurrah!) at 24+3 whilst on holiday. Scary time all round.

If you would like to get hold of me to ask, vent or whatever, you can find me on here or alternatively on Facebook (search Lisa Stell - there is only 1 of me )

JW xxxxx

Many thanks ladies and now I'll bugger off and let you get on with it

2HotCrossBunsAnd1InTheOven · 06/05/2009 09:49

Morning all - just to add my pearls of wisdom on buggy options, for what they are worth ... DS1 was 22 months when DS2 was born, not a runner but I likewise do a lot of walking etc (live in London so don't get into the car much). I never had a travel system.
I went for the Phil & Teds and have loved it. DS2 as a baby loved it as the sling bit swings a little when walking and he was asleep within seconds of getting in! With the cocoon it was lovely and cosy. DS1 got a micro scooter for his 2nd birthday and frankly once he had mastered that he just used to hop in and out of the back seat as and when he needed a rest. We had a long spell when DS2 was in the front seat, my shopping was in the back seat (it's great for that ) and DS1 was scooting. Then DS1 started nursery at 2.7 and was too tired to walk home most days - and too slow to walk there!

I had lots of friends whose second babies were all born around the same time as DS2 - most had the Phil and Teds for a while. Some moved onto a buggy board with their original single buggy quite quickly though. I found the buggy board a nuisance as I am quite short and had to lean over it to push the Maclaren I have or I'd end up kicking it when walking.

I'll be using the Phil & Teds this time again as DS2 will be 2.3 when this one arrives. I am lusting after the Vibe but DH says no - maybe when he gets a job he will change his mind, fingers crossed!!

Good luck with your choices!

Queenoftheharpies · 06/05/2009 16:18

Hey ladies,

Today's first-time pregnancy learning experience: it is actually possible to spend more on a pram than I spent on my last car.

I have to go lie down now.

ScummyMummy · 06/05/2009 17:49

Not surprised you need a liedown, qoftheh! Is it really lovely?

Hope everything's ok with Nathan today, Michaela.

LittleFairySmile · 06/05/2009 18:08

FWIW we're going for the buggy board option here. DS is already 3.

YanknCock · 06/05/2009 19:13

QotH, as first timer I found the whole pram choice thing completely mind-boggling. I got a used Quinny Buzz off ebay this past weekend, with the carry-cot to use from birth. Happy with what I paid for it, just hoping it doesn't fall apart or prove completely the wrong choice. Now trying to get my head around the myriad of real nappy choices.

And would you believe...I've started puking again!! WHY? It was Special K! FFS.

TaleofTwoCities · 06/05/2009 20:22

We're going with buggy board or baby in sling option here as dd will be 2.9. Last time I found a double buggy useful for only a few months until ds was around 2.9 and could go on the board. But then I had a 2nd hand M+P side by side aria that wouldn't fit through the front door and loading 2 of them into it in the front garden in January was no fun at all! Our house is also quite small and front door straight into living room so storage problems for large eqpt. Plus that one was not easy to push imo. If we'd had a Phil + Teds sure would have used it much longer.

Tip: if getting a twin rather than a tandum, measure the front door

It was fun selling the double on EBay though and having to package up such an awkward shape, went mad with the parcel tape!!!

YNC, what is going on with this puking! Hope you enjoyed your lie down...

TaleofTwoCities · 06/05/2009 20:30

Cos I'm feeling pregnant and sentimental have loaded up a picture to my profile of ds and dd on one of their only trips in the double buggy in Jan 07! You can see it's not the most stylish vehicle and dh refused to use it at all (sigh)...

HeinzSight · 06/05/2009 21:00

MichaelaS, how's little Nathan doing? Please post whenever you can.

johnworf, that's really nice of you to come onto this thread. I hope Michaela manages to get hold of you

Re buggies, I've gone for a Phil & Teds Sport with doubles kit. DD will be not quite 2 when this LO arrives. I like the idea that it resembles a single buggy even with the double seat attached.

Haribosmummy · 07/05/2009 10:09

Oh my god... MichaelaS... I hope you, Darren and baby Nathan are all coping OK.

I'm with Heinzsight - I too have gone for a P&T sport double. DS will be just over 1 when this LO is born, so I am hoping to get quite a bit of use out of it!

Uki · 07/05/2009 13:19

Hi All

johnworf thanks for popping in, i read your story of your premmie daughter, and it is amazing how well she got, very tear jeaking ride though, makes me feel better that Michaela and dear Nathan can get through this.

I had a check up today and both my blood pressure and sugar levels are holding good, (previous problems) that resulted in 2 induced labours. I had to ask about natural labour and when to go in to hospital because I have no idea, i'm a first timer in that respect.

Ob. said as soon as i feel pain, or if anything unusual happens, now that's just scary really.

anyway i'm on fortnightly appointments now,

I've been feeling a little nauseous too lately.

Good luck with the expensive buggies you lot will all be burning the pounds off quickly

readyfornumber2and3 · 07/05/2009 13:26

Hi all hope all bumps are doing well

I had an appointment with the consultant this morning and she did a scan and they are both doing well, twin a weighs 1lb 6oz and twin b weighs 1lb 3oz

I get to see them again in 3 weeks and then 6 weeks.

RE:Buggies , we have bought a jane powertwin pro and will be getting a buggy board for the back and also a sling so I have all options covered lol

craftynclothy · 07/05/2009 13:42

Ready - glad the twins are doing well.

Uki - I've been told to call the mw at ANY sign I'm going into labour (because my first labour was so quick).

Yank - bleurgh to still being sick.

No new pram here. Dd only turned 2 last month but walks everywhere...am at how far she will walk. We no longer bother with the pushchair. Will just use the one we had for her for the new baby or use the sling (plan on using that for anywhere I may have to chase dd )

Hips were bad on Sunday but seem ok now, just a few aches at night. Not sleeping well as I seem to get too hot under the covers but too cold without covers.

Queenoftheharpies · 07/05/2009 14:47

Scummymummy, I haven't actually parted with any money yet - the inlaws have kindly offered to buy us some baby gear and I was just looking at the options.

The result? A panicky, overwhelmed and hormonal QOTH, and zero progress choosing a pram.

VJaybigpants · 07/05/2009 17:01

Hi have been lurking but not posting, sorry, but wanted to say congratulations to michaelas and my thoughts are with you and your family. lovely name for your lo too

kitkatqueen · 07/05/2009 21:49

Michaelas, Congratulations to you!! All our thoughts with you, hope to hear some news when you can manage it.

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BabyBump2B · 08/05/2009 02:19

Hi all - just checking in. Yank I really hope the puking ends soon for you!

I just found out that I failed my gestational diabetes screen and now need to go for the 3 hour test - yippee! So will do that tomorrow and see how we get on. Luckily I've just started reading the blasted Twilight series and am addicted so will take that to while away the hours?

Anyone else doing the GD tests?

nellyup · 08/05/2009 09:43

babybump - yes we do those here, the old 'lucozade test'. Thanks for the reminder, I'd forgotten, must go and do that. It always makes me laugh to see the old ladies' faces as they see you get to queue jump in the blood test place - they even have a special bell to ring when your hour is up.

I also need to go see a doctor apparently to get a 'fitness to fly' form. Actually its not to fly, its to go on a ferry which seems a bit daft to me but I guess I'll be 31 weeks so they want their backsides covered. Anyone know if I'll have to pay for it? Midwife seemed to think I would.

readyfornumber2and3 · 08/05/2009 10:23

Babybump2B My consultant mentioned GD test to me yesterday and has written in my notes that I am to be tested at 28 weeks (even though I have shown no signs!!)
I am really hoping that I can get away with it lol

YanknCock · 08/05/2009 12:25

Yep, I've got the glucose tolerance test on the 11th. It's automatic for me due to being fat.

Been signed off for another month with antenatal depression and SPD. So I won't be back to work, as I've already said I want mat leave to start at 29 weeks. GP wants me to get out more, and though I sound like a crazy person, I told him about how lately I think everyone hates me/judges me the minute they hear my accent. I must sound so mental/paranoid. I do think it is the depression, but I suddenly hate living here. I probably wouldn't be happy anywhere though.

Went to the 'pelvic girdle pain group' yesterday, and learned almost nothing that I didn't already know. Okay, a few exercises with the gym ball, but other than that, kind of a waste of time. They just herded all the preggos together and showed us a powerpoint presentation for ages. There were some practical sessions demonstrating how to do things, but all stuff I'd learned from the pelvic partnership website and mumset already.

And I got some tubigrip stuff which is less supportive than your average pair of Spanx.

DH has found an osteopath online and says we'll figure out the money somehow.

Hawkmoth · 08/05/2009 13:23

Sarah,

A friend of mine went through the same thing with her accent last year. Because she was homesick she felt more that it was all, "Did you vote for George Bush then?" and "How many guns do you have?". Complete idiocy.

Hope you manage to get an osteopath, but my obsetric physio really is very good. Can't help me when I decide to go for a walk, then spend two hours at an event on my feet. I'm HURTY!

craftynclothy · 08/05/2009 13:31

Just popping in. Bad night's sleep again but hopefully will get a lie in tomorrow (will let dh take dd to baby ballet on his own). We've decided that as we're not having a holiday this year we'd have a weekend away - so have just booked for next weekend. Only a cheapy in Chester (£39 for all of us - just staying Sat night) and will take dd to Chester Zoo.

Yank - I'm sure it's the depression making you feel like you don't like where you live. I get that too when I'm down.

No GTT test here unless I show any signs.

Oh pants, I can't remember anything I was gonna say

HeinzSight · 08/05/2009 13:34

Sarah, sorry to hear you're still suffering with antenatal depression, that's awful. Can you doctor not give you some meds for it? I know that Prozac is pretty safe during pregnancy.

I had my glucose tolerence test on Tuesday and have a nice big bruise on my arm to show for it! Came back negative. The reason I had mine is because my first two babies were over 10lbs. Will have to see how big this 'LO' is! Although my last was 'only' 7lb 8oz, but I had her at 39 weeks by section.

How's Nathan doing MichaelaS? xxx

YanknCock · 08/05/2009 15:11

They put me on Prozac in January, but after two months of not feeling any better they switched me to Citalopram last month. The GP then doubled the dose today. Seeing psychiatrist later on this month.

It's very weird, I used to not care about anti-U.S. stereotypes because I'd just think 'well, that's not me, and people will figure that out once they get to know me'. No trouble chatting to anyone. Now I feel like a shadow of myself. People have to ask me to speak up because I talk quietly and mumble in hopes of not being spotted.

I don't leave the house much with not going to work. I spend way too much time on MN. And nearly every day something jumps out at me from a thread that is negative about the U.S./people from there--not just threads where the title suggests it's going to be like that either. Was just reading something on phrases/words that annoy people, and there were a few entries about American phrases/accents. On its own, not a big deal, but when you read negative stuff about your nationality every single day, it gets depressing. You start to wonder what people really think when they meet you. With the depression, I'm having a hard time separating out what is paranoia and what isn't.

Sorry I'm having a bit of a wallow here. DH tried to tell me my accent was 'sexy' today and all I could do was cry at him. If we ever went to live in the U.S., people would hear his accent and automatically think he was intelligent. I feel like people here hear me and think I'm stupid, ignorant, lazy, wasteful, rude, annoying, war-mongering, pushy, loud, obnoxious, bossy and all the rest of it, until I can prove otherwise.

Sorry again, I've been wanting to write something like that for ages but could never quite get it out. I'll probably look back in a few months and think how daft it all sounds.

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