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BabyCRIMBOlat · 15/12/2008 19:48

New thread here (I hope!!)

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SnowySunshine · 28/12/2008 14:11

I think I'm going to stop coming here! You lot with your domestic skills & dedication make me feel guilty! Although you've just pushed me enough to wash the bedding. I usually do it every Friday, but it passed me by this week. Will go & do it now! [determined]

brettgirl2 · 28/12/2008 14:20

It seems to me that the attitude of many in the NHS (and the institution as a whole) is that they are doing patients a favour. It winds me up no end because it actually costs us a fortune! I think they take you seriously if your condition is lifethreatening, but otherwise the interest is lower. However, I do have a brilliant GP so won't complain there. It concerns me that one midwife has written 'indegestion' and another 'cyatica' on my pg notes - it just doesn't fill me with confidence haha

My husband is currently up a ladder cutting the hedge (too short but I don't have the heart to tell him)I am worried he is going to have his arm off in a minute

I survived Christmas and two day trip to in laws. On Christmas day my own mother shot me in the head with a party popper - I've seen it all now!

I've really got to go to sainsburys cos we only actually have chocolate in to eat...

VirginBoffinMum · 28/12/2008 14:58

I think there's actually something in the 'can't be bothered' argument. We went to A and E recently with DH and a suspected fracture, and - surprise surprise - it was actually TOTALLY EMPTY OF PATIENTS at 9am in the morning (i.e. beginning of a shift), and we still waited 45 minutes for an x-ray etc.

Another time I went mid-morning with DS2, who definitely had a fractured collar bone, and after the x-ray they left us over an hour in the children's play area with the usual 'you will be seen in order' statement, but then I eventually realised there were absolutely no other patients anywhere in there either (I am a bit trusting and slow on the uptake sometimes). So I knocked on the nurses station door to say I was going to leave as there was no treatment for a broken collar bone anyway, except a sling which I knew how to do myself, and suddenly we were 'next' to be seen and the doctor immediately appeared, etc. There had been three paediatric nurses in there with their feet up, basically, and they looked a bit guilty when I caught them, so I assume this was, shall we say, a somewhat additional tea break, and I suspect not related to the fact they may have been rushed off their feet all day without a moment to themselves, etc etc. I think they forgot we were there and generally couldn't be arsed, basically. I also wonder if they suddenly saw "Dr BoffinMum" on his notes and got scared when I started displaying some medical know-how (I am not actually a medical doctor but I find it doesn't do any harm if sometimes nurses etc are unsure of the facts).

I have to say though if I was a fellow nurse I would be very unimpressed that they were behaving like this. If we did this with our students at the university, leaving them parked in corridors for an hour at a time for no reason, we would be in big trouble.

VirginBoffinMum · 28/12/2008 15:01

I should also add however in the NHS's defence that they have got me through two very nasty and potentially fatal health experiences, and they were excellent on both occasions, but quite a bit of this can be attributed to the personal dedication of a couple of people I reckon.

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chrismathsmummy25th · 28/12/2008 15:12

Greetings all I am scoffing the contraband like a good'un. I had a small glass of port shock and some brie yesterday and oh sweet baby Jesus was it good.

I just spoke to my midwife, this was how it went..

mathsmummy: 'hello, I'm a bit worried that I should have had another antenatal apointment recently'
MW: 'when did we last see you?'
MM: '14 weeks'
MW: 'and how many weeks are you now?'
MM: 'about 26'
MW proceeds to give mathsmummy a severe telling-off for not telepathically realising that someone has failed to sort out the two interim antenatal appointments. Mathsmummy waits until she has finished and says: 'how exactly was I supposed to know that?'
MW: 'well this is your second baby isn't it?'
MM: 'oh I'm sorry, I didnt realise that qualified me to RUN the bloody NHS' (I am sooo embarrassed, she is quite nice really)

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BabyCRIMBOlat · 28/12/2008 15:26

I don't have any experience at all with m/w etc but ahve to say that while nothing has happened to make me feel negatively about them, I don't feel very loved - lets say. I don't actually have a proper midwife see someone new every week and am new to the area so while my GP is lovely, have only met him three times - I did think that the process would be much more personal but hey so far (touch wood) have had no need for it to be - only worries me once bubs is born really and then I would like to have someone regular to speak to as then they will know me and my concerns etc.

MathsMummy, that is outrageous! I did have to phone up once but then I was told I needed an appointment, I just never got sent the date - cannot believe they lectured you about not phoning them.

Snowy, don't leave - I was supposed to be cleaning the spare room for the nursery today and so far I have watched some DVDs, eaten (a lot), spoken to my friend and sister on the phone for 2 hours (one of whom is now coming round for tea and shortbread!), popped to get some milk and the pile of rubbish in the middle of the spare room floor is still there and so won't be touched today! we are not getting the furniture until Tuesday so I have tomorrow...

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BabyCRIMBOlat · 28/12/2008 15:28

Oh nutty I have had a couple since then - I see the hospital and dr alternatively every 4 weeks (so both once every 8 weeks) but sure it depends on your hospital / system, have my first ante-d injection next monday as part of my next check up! but then am 27 weeks and still haven't had my matB1 form! and I really need to go to the dentist....

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VirginBoffinMum · 28/12/2008 15:35

I do hope I haven't been leading people stray gastronomically ....

VirginBoffinMum · 28/12/2008 15:37

I am 26 weeks and have only seen the mw twice, plus 3 early appointments at the hospital to get my thyroid tested and checked. I wonder whether I should be doig anything right now? With the others you saw the mw monthly until third trimester, fortnightly until week 36, weekly until week 40 and more frequently after that.

NuttyTaff · 28/12/2008 15:41

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VirginBoffinMum · 28/12/2008 15:42

I never saw the HV. I don't even know who she is.

SnowySunshine · 28/12/2008 15:44

I've not seen my midwife since she came & took my blood after the hospital messed it up & didn't label the sample properly. That was 16+2. I wouldn't have seen her since before the dating scan otherwise. I thought that she was great - I had her mobile number, etc. But now her phone's always off. I've let it slide over Christmas, but will be phoning the hospital tomorrow to ask what's going on. I'm 25+1 now & it's my first baby - I'm sure I should've seen her. If I hadn't had that scare about the movement I wouldn't have even heard his heartbeat or anything yet.

I'm glad to hear that not being a whirlwind of domesticity is still allowed, Nutty & BB! DP just made my lunch for me again & I've really not done much. Having said that, I'm 'allowing' him to play on the Xbox at the moment & am having to put up with a running commentary on the zombies he's killing, so it all evens out

& Boffin, you're a very influential lady

SnowySunshine · 28/12/2008 15:46

Oh God, Nutty - I totally forgot about the SureStart grant. I'm going to have to go through all of my reams of financial information & figure out what I'm meant to be doing. When I was first told that you could apply from 27 weeks, that seemed like a lifetime away & I kind of just put it to the back of my mind. I really must get more organised - 15 weeks to sort all of this!

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VirginBoffinMum · 28/12/2008 15:49

We will look after you Nutty. You might be early anyway!!

SnowySunshine · 28/12/2008 15:52

Nutty, of course we won't leave you. Besides, I'm bound to have to be induced 2 weeks late - that's the 25th, so I won't be that ahead of you

Besides, from what I've seen on the other threads, the emphasis shifts onto the new post-natal thread, where people are posting at all hours whilst trying to breastfeed or whatever, comparing their exhaustion. By the end of the month, anyone who's not had their baby (which actually tends to be people due in the middle ) just move across to the post-natal thread anyway - by which point it's only a couple of days before they get their own.

But yeah, I'll stick around for you, I promise

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VirginBoffinMum · 28/12/2008 15:56

One tested DS2 when he was 2 at the surgery but she was a very odd woman indeed.

I did have a nice one when DD1 was born who made me feel like a supermum, but that was in a different area.

NuttyTaff · 28/12/2008 15:56

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VirginBoffinMum · 28/12/2008 15:57

I think you get better, more impartial advice on MN these days, anyway.

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