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thefortbuilder · 24/03/2008 19:09

Pleased to be able to start the new thread with our birth announcement!

Samuel arrived at 1923 on thursday 20th March, weighing in at 4lb 10oz! After a fraught day of trying to find a hospital with a NNU with a cot (our hospital NNU was closed just as we were about to go to theatre), we finally ended up at Epsom General!

Sam is still in NNU but should be coming off his last little bit of oxygen this evening, is off CPAP, and having a go at bf'ing whenever he can (he's being fed by a tube).

I'm home and feeling a whole lot better than I did last time around, although very sore - TAKE THE PAINKILLERS THEY OFFER!!!!!

Jacob not sure about the new arrival although is smitten with his new scooter

will catch up with posts later but thanks for all your thoughts, prayers and good wishes over the last few days

xxx

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KangaAndRoo · 18/04/2008 23:16

Revenge is a dish best served cold...mwuahahahaha.

I quizzed my hubby the other morning...I asked 'what do you think of people that hit pregnant women' ? bless him he was really really confused.....well I informed him that he had punched..well ok elbowed me really hard in the back in bed...then persisted to have a pop at me in his sleep might of been 3am but by god I gave it back good LOL ...I now lie with a pillow behind me

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goodcatholicgirl · 19/04/2008 13:22

Just spent ages catching up, so really sorry but can't remember it all. Except mumblesmummy I really hope both your grandparents get well soon, and pinacolada I very much liked your trick on your DH about the warped foot. Maybe you could warp other parts of your body and see what he says !!!!

Well, you'll be very pleased to know I AM definitely chilling out now. The work on the house is all done. I had a lovely pamper party last night, felt totally chilled, and my fabby friends even got all the drinks etc so I didn't have to keep getting up and down off the sofa. I also have very pretty toenails and fingernails this morning .

Yesterday I had one friend bring us her carseat to borrow, another a baby bath seat, and another one a baby bjorn sling. All very exciting!

This morning I went back to bed when DD did, which ended up being 9am-11:30am!!! So I feel refreshed already, but I just feel so pleased and happy that I know I can chill out now. I'm not even gonna go swimming now cos of the allergy thing (and I still have this silly cold ).

Hope you are all having a lovely Saturday.

GCG xxx

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KangaAndRoo · 19/04/2008 20:42

LOL Pina @ the non purple food colouring!!!

Well dh has gone out tonight on the lash not great with me coming up to 37wks but hey ho...he doesnt go out and probably wont get to for the next few years hahaha

Really need to unpack and repack my bags...as we were saying Pina...dont know whats in there!!

Hope you had a good'ish day hun xxxxx

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mumofk · 20/04/2008 00:08

Hello, I guess everyone is far too busy for good old MN!
We've been out for a meal with friends which has been lovely, but for me part of the treat is a liqueur coffee- and I don't normally drink coffee or caffiene (except the odd choc bar) so with the alcohol as well, it really is a bit of a mind-altering experience for me!
I'm sorry these blokes want to go out and get drunk- what is the attraction, esp when they might have hormonal or in labour partner to deal with? My DH used to drink a lot but since DD has cut down a lot- hangover and baby soon helped him sort his priorities , but I think that the same thing happened to his pals around the same time helped (other babies and his best mate was told to make the effort to aid conception!)
This next week its me who has lots of 'going out with pals in the evening' commitments so won't be around for bedtime- Its suddenly sunk in I'll be seeing these folks once bump has landed, with jelly belly and exhausted, so I want them to see me huge and not feeling too badly!
Eating out was a challenge tonight though- really lovely food so ate as much as I could, but leisurely, chatty meal sat in one place got sooo uncomfortable. I even did the loo trips just to stretch, rather than wee! Asics, I can recommend the Dusty Miller in Mytholmroyd, especially if you eat meat!
Zammummy- congrats on tinternet and section date!
mumbles- I have heard of numbness, but don't know/remember anything about it, and haven't experienced it myself so if it is bugging you I'd ask- and I'd like to know whatever you get told!
pina-good on getting your own back with the facewarp (I'm in the dark aged with my mobile so never even heard of that!) and interesting effect of purple mix making non-purple cake! I enjoy cooking but not baking so I'll use that as another excuse not to do it. But did make a massive lasagne today. I've had to put it in the fridge in portions though, as I daren;t open the freezers- they're both a bit full! Oh well, I get to play at curry sauce tomorrow (yes, I am slightly mad- I can see I'm doing mad things but can't help it!). I wonder if I keep planning on things I HAVE to do (in my own little world) it'll put off baby landing??!
Right, woffling too much again, hope everyone is sleeping as peacefully as they can, or having fun in bed
mumofk

KangaAndRoo · 20/04/2008 10:16

Pina he was in at 12 LOL...I made him feel guilty but bless him, he did say before leaving 'I shouldnt be going' but I made him so cant complain!!!

Just been out for a walk with DD.....needed the fresh air to wake me up!!!

Have a good sunday!!!!

goodcatholicgirl · 20/04/2008 14:54

Oooo, it has gone quiet again!!

Can you believe I got a text from my SISTER of all people this morning saying 'are you OK? you're not in labour are you?!!'. FFS, it's 2 weeks til my frigging due date and it's started already!!! And, as if she wouldn't know, she is our person on call to look after DD!!!! GRRRRRRR! .

pinacolada I can definitely relate to the DD thing at the mo, I am def not as patient as I normally am and shouting a bit more, and really she is such a good girl compared to most. I can see that she is getting to an age where she is starting to try my patience a bit.....However, in church today she just sat and rubbed my tummy and asked me (quite loudly) "wenz baby coming out?" It was very sweet and everyone around thought she was adorable!!

My DH had a night out planned on Friday, half an hour away, and was gonna stay over at his mates house (cos of distance). I discussed it with him, said I didn't wanna ruin his fun, but I was bit nervous about being on my own IN CASE things started ( I was 38 weeks Friday). He compromised and went out locally ( a mile away!) and didn't drink much. Nothing happened labour wise (obviously) but I felt a bit happier .

My DD was born a week early, so now I keep doing the whole 'this time next week we could have a new baby'. I bloody hope so. As long as I can get Robonan's funeral out of the way on Wednesday, then DH has told me that as of Thursday am, the sex and pineapple eating commences!!!!!!! (not at the same time I hope). After Weds night, DH is off work til my due date, it's a bug relief knowing he'll be around for when things start...hopefully!

Having a very chilled weekend...honest. Just put some more stuff on ebay to sell. Think I might have a nap now...

C U later

GCG xxx

gingerwench · 20/04/2008 15:27

I'm now 34+3 and feeling increasingly uncomfortable. Lots of nights in the spare bed because I'm so fidgety and I'd rather not deal with the guilt of keeping DH awake. We're both a bit down and grumpy at the moment. Hope it passes. Can't work out exactly why but I've been v whingey lately, work is ok (12 days over 3 weeks to go!) but dull but I don't seem to have energy to do anything much. Puffy ankles, hands and legs. Lots of things to do in the house but most of them are beyond me at the moment. At least the kitchen is back to being useable. I know I should be making the most of this time to ourselves but for some reason I can't seem to relax and enjoy it.

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sweetbean · 20/04/2008 17:28

Pinacolad82 Just popping in v quick to say that i hope your OK babe and not feeling to terrible !! I will be back in tomorrow for a proper catch up xxxx

podglet · 20/04/2008 18:21

hi all,

Quick post as typing one handed whilst feeding madam but there are now pics on profile

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goodcatholicgirl · 20/04/2008 20:35

Sorry to all who are feeling low. We've all been there at some point. 34 weeks is a hard stage I think cos you definitely feel heavy and lethargic etc, but still have at least 6 weeks or so (unless baby early) to go. Hopefully the time will pass quickly and there will soon be light at the end of the tunnel.

I am really hoping my bubba puts in an early appearance like it's sister and is here by this time next week!! Not too much to ask hey?!

podglet Libby looks adorable, and I too love the babygro she is wearing. Hope you are getting on OK. It must be so nice to not have that big hard bump in front of you anymore. I can't wait to get rid of mine!!! I'm definitley not one of those 'I really miss my bump' people!!! I think they must forget what it's like towards the end.

pinacolada Sorry to hear you have had a shitty day luvvie. Hope things get better tomorrow. It must be hard for you, and your DH, if none of his friends are in the same situation as you. What will probably happen is your DC's will be all grown up and you'll both be ready to paint the town red again, and then all your mates will be settling down and having kids!! It happened to a mate of mine who had her kids relatively early (aged 26 and 29!!)

I've had a really quiet day. Even managed a 2 hour kip this afternoon, which was lovely, and the first time I've done it in about 3 weeks with all that's been going on. I haven't really got anything to report.

Is anyone else getting a bit nervous now? I am, and I've already had a baby. I really want it to all start soon, but then I get a bit nervous again.....how's it gonna be??!!

Sorry for the long post, but DH has about 8 bloody hours of stuff to try and get through on the sky plus planner, so he is watching TV. I am just waiting for the final episode of Gavin & Stacey, when Nessa goes into labour early. Does anyone else watch this?

GCG xxx

sweetbean · 21/04/2008 08:32

Hi all hope that everyone is feeling OK today !!

Well Ive still got 5 weeks to go and I'm starting to feel like the baby is never going to get here especially when i think that she could be late, my DD was 10 days late, but I'm trying to just take each day as i comes, and come 36 weeks I'm necking the raspberry leaf !!!!!!!!

Poglet Beautiful photos I'm so jealous of you all i want is to hold my baby now hope your feeling well xxx

GCG I'm with you on the nerves altho I'm desperate to meet my baba I'm also bricking it, but as i said before it mainly the bit when the head comes out that's bothering me the most!! so i just have to keep reminding myself that after that bit its all over !!

Pina i might be on this afternoon as well as I've got a whole day of house work and a pile of ironing the size of Everest to get throw and may well die of boredom without MN on xx

Can i ask when we are all weighing ourselves to see how much we have put on do you weigh from the weight you where before you got pregnant or the weight that you where when the morning sickness stopped.
The reason i ask is if i weight from before i got pregnant then I've put on just under a stone but if i weigh from when the morning sickness stopped I've put on nearly 2 stone so when should i weigh fron to get the accurate weight I've put on? (hope that makes sense)

Also wanted to ask if anyone could give me any tips on writing my DH's paternity leave letter i.e what do i need to included how formal dose it have to be he has to hand it in tomorrow and i said id write it for him today ??

Thank you girlies xxxxxxx

pregnabrain · 21/04/2008 08:39

hello all

Hope you had good weekends.

Mine was good and I've got another whole day to myself today so feeling v happy.

I can definitely sympathise with the grumpy brigade, though. I'm so snappy with dd at the moment - little things that I'd normally ignore in her behaviour are really getting to me . I feel bad because I want these last few weeks of just the two of us to be special.

I'm finding it hard to handle the physical discomfort now. Sleeping comfortably is definitely a thing of the past! And I feel like the circulation going to my legs is getting cut off at night - getting loads of cramp, and waking up with really heavy, painful legs and pelvis. I don't want to bother the midwife about it but it's worrying me a bit, esp with all the talk of DVT here!

pina etc - my dh is also on a socialising frenzy at the moment. I think he knows that he's about to have to go into hibernation for a few months! I hadn't thought about the boozing, though. I suppose once I get to about 37 weeks he'll have to rein himself in.

podglet - gorgeous pics. loved the ones of Libby, and your son dressed as a little donkey brought a hormonal tear to my eye!

pina - at your typo! made me chuckle...

Casserole · 21/04/2008 08:49

Morning all, hope the grumpiness is a bit better this morning for those who are suffering! Just to encourage those of you struggling to sleep, I'm now sleeping a lot better at 38+ weeks than I was at 32-35 weeks, so it might get better... hang in there!

All fine here. Going to a bumps and babies group this morning to hopefully find myself some RL friends with babies similar ages... on which note, I can report that YCBS and I met for coffee yesterday and I can confirm she is as lovely in real life as on here

Right, better get up and dressed.

Have good days all,

Casserole

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sweetbean · 21/04/2008 09:10

ok I just saw this on a web site and thought it might help anyone who wants to meet there babas asap!
I have no idea how to do a link so i had to copy and paste sorry xxx

Don't rush it..
You shouldn?t even consider natural induction until you are around 40 weeks pregnant or overdue. That's because your due date could be inaccurate by a few weeks, and if you start your labour before this, you might give birth to a baby before he is ready to thrive outside the womb. There are many things that can be done to encourage your body to go into labour, however, they will only work if your body is ready.

But these might help.....
Evening Primrose/Raspberry Leaf Tea

These are two of the most well-known ways to encourage labour, but neither will actually induce it.

Evening primrose oil is an excellent source of prostaglandins, which prepare your cervix for labour. It can be taken orally as soon as 34 weeks, and can be applied directly to the cervix at 36 weeks. The general recommendation is two 500mg capsules per day until week 38, at which time you increase to 3-4 per day. Applying directly to the cervix is optimal, but the beneficial ingredients are absorbed through the external skin of the stomach as well.
Raspberry leaf tea is a tonic that can be used to tone your uterus. Many women safely use it from the moment they learn they are pregnant at six weeks, until months after delivery. It helps to tone the uterus after delivery as well, shrinking it back to size more quickly and reducing bleeding. However, it is contraindicated for those having complications "just in case".

Remember, it is best to consult an herbalist or your midwife if she is used to working with herbs.

Spicy food
Hot spicy foods, such as vindaloo curry, can also help induction. They work by causing spasms in the intestines, which, because of their close proximity to the uterus toward the end of pregnancy, can cause the uterus to cramp. This could result in labour.

Sex
It may be one of the last things on your mind as you approach the end of your pregnancy, but nevertheless sex can help to get labour under way. When you and your partner make love, his semen, which contains prostaglandins, can stimulate contractions. Prostaglandins work to help ripen and soften the cervix.

Nipple stimulation
Some women massage their nipples as a way to induce labour. Stimulating the nipples triggers the production of natural oxytocin which contracts the uterus and can evolve into labour.

Alternative Therapies
Acupressure
May be helpful in inducing labour. Some pressure points you can try are the roof of your mouth, the webbing of your fingers between your pointer finger and thumb, and above the ankle ? there is a pressure point approximately four finger spaces above.

Visualisation/Relaxation
Relaxation exercises are another natural induction technique, and are also good practice for when labour actually begins.

Homeopathy
It is best to see a homeopath well before your due date to help maintain a healthy pregnancy. Homeopathy can also help to induce labour, but it is best to have a complete homeopathic consultation.

Acupuncture
Acupuncture can be very useful in getting things started for labour. However, it is not a quick fix - you may need a few sessions.

Blue and black cohosh
These herbs are often used to induce labour and may be particularly effective if you are having weak or irregular contractions.
Blue cohosh is believed to make uterine contractions stronger, while black cohosh may regulate the contractions. Together, they work to make contractions more effective. There have been no studies to determine that these natural treatments are safe, or whether all versions of the herb available for purchase are of equal potency. It is important to see a herbalist for advice.

Stripping the membranes
This is also known as a membrane sweep, and is usually offered at 41 weeks. Membrane sweeping is done by your midwife or doctor. While internally examining you, he or she will simply ?sweep? a finger around the neck of your womb (cervix). The aim is to separate the membranes around your baby from your cervix. This releases hormones called prostaglandins, which may kick-start your labour. A membrane sweep increases the likelihood that labour will start within 48 hours. You have more chance of success if the neck of your womb is already softening and preparing for labour.

A membrane sweep can be uncomfortable because the neck of the womb is often difficult to reach before labour begins and there may be some slight ?spotting? of blood and irregular contractions immediately afterwards. You may need two or three, but they will not increase the risk of infection to either you or your baby.

Castor oil
Women have been using castor oil to help induce labour for decades. In fact, many old school physicians and midwives swear by it. Castor oil can certainly be used for inducing labour, but it tastes horrible and should be taken with caution and guidance from a health professional.
It works by causing spasms in the intestines, which, because of their close proximity to the uterus toward the end of pregnancy, can cause the uterus to cramp. This results in labour.

You can take one to three ounces of castor oil mixed with six ounces of orange juice to cut its oiliness. Some practitioners suggest taking a single dose; others suggest repeated doses depending on your response. Castor oil will usually cause your bowels to empty within about three to four hours. Shortly afterwards, you should be in labour. Castor oil should not be taken without discussing with your midwife or doctor as it can cause a baby to become distressed if not taken with guidance

Ultimately, your baby is the one who decides the right time to be born and the kind of birth he or she wishes to have!
As mothers-to-be all we can do is prepare ourselves physically, psychologically and emotionally for birthing our child, and our subsequent role as his mother.

sweetbean · 21/04/2008 09:10

Now thats the mother of all posts sorry ladies xxx

Wendyjk · 21/04/2008 09:11

Thanks for all your welcomes. Its really nice to have a pregnancy / baby world to dip into during the day - as I'm really struggling to keep work and baby thoughts compartmentalised! Still, only two weeks left at work - and at least now that my coat doesn't do up, I always get a seat on the tube!

Sweetbean - we went to Phaphos for our final 'pre-family' holiday a couple of months ago. It was a lovely place, lots of great walks and places for pottering around - and loads of the hotel spas seem to specialise in ante and post-natal treatments!

sweetbean · 21/04/2008 09:18

Pina Massive hug to you babe i feel the same at the moment a complete emotional wreck but if it makes you feel any better the same thing happened to me in Tesco car park and i also cryed alot (but i sort of wish id hit the grumpy bugger! to give him something to really beep his horn over !!!!)

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