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Pregnancy after loss: spring 2019 edition (The Brexit Babes) 🐧 Part 2

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Pancakes7 · 27/11/2018 07:08

The old thread got closed at 1000 posts, I'm not sure why. So I've started this new one. I hope you all find it ok. @Swisbest2 @OneMoreWish @frankiefumbles @Kisses4u @hayleyfx @Maydot @Jessabean

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Swisbest2 · 15/12/2018 16:04

Ah @june88 amazing! I feel the same i think i have but nothing to compare it to and generally in mornings when i sit cross legged feel something then gone!

xJune88 · 15/12/2018 19:24

Yeah that's the same with me @swisbest2 the more i try to feel baby with my hand or change position it stops but sure it's what I'm feeling! Exciting!! How long until your scan?? X

kisses4u · 15/12/2018 20:31

Booked in for a last minute gender scan this morning!!! I'm 18 weeks today and I was just bursting with anticipation!!! Baby was so perfect in the scan!!! They got great images and confirmed the sex!!

We are having a GIRL and I am so so so excited!! This was what i had hoped for 💖🙏👌

kisses4u · 15/12/2018 20:32

we got 4D images which I didn't realise we were getting! She looks just like her big brother 😍

dreaminofholidays · 16/12/2018 17:24

@kisses4u yay! how exciting!!! a little girl 😁.

I am so happy you are all feeling movements and to be sure what they are. I'm still not totally sure but my app says at 18 weeks the baby is almost 15cm so that's made me think they must be little movements. I can't wait to be sure what they are. xxx

Jessabean · 16/12/2018 20:58

Congratulations @kisses4u! Another little girl in the group 💕How exciting! Lovely pictures too!

dreaminofholidays · 17/12/2018 10:37

eurgh just a little moan... fed up of being sick. We've been away for a weekend and I was sick in a bin in the street once and in my own hands whilst I hurried to the next bin and now I've been sick in some unpleasant airport toilets.

delighted to be pregnant obviously but just fed up with sickness at 18+3. I think I'm a bit hormonal too so just having a little rant x

xJune88 · 17/12/2018 16:47

@dreaminofholidays hope you feel better asap I feel so lucky I've only been sick 4 times in 19 weeks! I've had the shittest day ever just got home from work and cried. Laid on sofa chilling out and felt bubs moving so I lifted up my jumper and I got a massive nudge and my belly moved out like bubs kicked it. Day is much better now ❤😍 feel so much love already!! X

kisses4u · 17/12/2018 19:37

I'm still puking some day too @dreaminofholidays it's not fair is it! Maybe we will be lucky and have a better ride than others in the last trimester 😆

Swisbest2 · 17/12/2018 19:37

@june88 not til 16th jan 😣starting to feel quite anxious again though tempted to get a private booked in before christmas... i def too feel more emotional than i did early on most things set me off have had to hide so many fb videos and seems like every 5 mins theres some kond of appeal on tv 😢@kisses4u how last minute was your acan im womdering if i call wed i might be able to get one thurs (dont know til wed if im def off thurs)

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Pancakes7 · 17/12/2018 20:44

@Kisses4u Congratulations, a little girl, how lovely. @dreaminofholidays Poor you, it's horrible being sick. Especially when out and about. I hope it stops soon for you. I've been sick on 3 occasions so luckily not too often. I've been struggling with restless legs and now arms too. Last night I got barely any sleep as one of my arms was so painful. Went to gp today but she just said if it happens every night to go back. It was so awful, lucky I'm off work today for my husbands birthday. Hopefully won't happen tonight. @xJune88 How lovely feeling movements. I've felt a few movements ove4 the last few days. Getting more obvious now. I love it. It makes me feel even closer to our baby.

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kisses4u · 18/12/2018 07:00

@Swisbest2 I think I got lucky! I rang at 9am on Saturday and got a scan booked in for same day! That was one place, the other place I tried couldn't book me in until jan 7th. I must have got a cancellation. I'm so glad I did it as I'm managing (so far) yo keep the baby gender from my husband. I don't think it would be so easy if I'd found out at my 20 week scan then tried to keep it secret as he'd know straightaway from my face! We will say to write it on a card and I will look once in on my own at home just to double check that it really is a girl. Although the scan clinic said 99.9% defiantly a girl 😆

Swisbest2 · 18/12/2018 07:17

Ahh @kisses4u i cant believe youre manging to keep schtum well done i would let slip straight away lol

kisses4u · 18/12/2018 10:47

Haha! I'm struggling I must admit! I called my bump 'mrs' yesterday in front of my oh, closely followed by ...'or mr' eek! Hope he didn't notice the pause! He knows I'm totally convinced I'm having a girl so I think he expects me to refer to bump as a girl. So we should be ok 👌

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Pancakes7 · 18/12/2018 13:21

@Kisses4u So does OH know you had the early scan? Does he not want to know till baby is born? So I guess you can't buy anything pink yet lol

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xJune88 · 20/12/2018 12:13

Scan day tomorrow! It's come around so quick...

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Pancakes7 · 20/12/2018 20:42

Oooh @xJune88 how exciting!! What time is it? Let us know what the gender is! I'm going to randomly guess boy! Lol

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xJune88 · 20/12/2018 23:46

Cannot sleep. Feel really anxious! 3pm x

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Pancakes7 · 21/12/2018 06:13

2 weeks today till my anomaly scan! I'm so excited to see baby again and find out the gender. DH got up at 5, I haven't managed to get back to sleep. I think baby is low, can feel baby on my bladder, need the loo all the time! Feel baby wriggle or possibly headbut me too lol.

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dreaminofholidays · 21/12/2018 06:40

@junex88 how exciting!! hope you managed to get some rest. so lovely to know everything before Christmas, please let us know what it is like and I am going to guess boy. 😊

@pancakes7 love to hear how much can feel but hope the baby moves from your bladder. 2 weeks it's coming round fast now.

I cracked and had a private scan last night, just a quick assurance one but it was great. Baby was wiggling around lots but would not turn on its back so we saw lots of little alien shots as the baby was on its side facing us. Only a week to go now until my 20 week too but just wanted to check pre Christmas. xxx

Swisbest2 · 21/12/2018 08:19

So i did mamage to get scan yesterday partly cos i was worried again and felt stomach bit smaller... but all was fab heard heartbeat for the firat time and to my suprise found out that im DEFINITELY having a boy 😂 now the birth is worrying cos hes starting off just like his dad and hes 6'2 and has size 13 feet 😣

Pregnancy after loss: spring 2019 edition (The Brexit Babes) 🐧 Part 2
Pregnancy after loss: spring 2019 edition (The Brexit Babes) 🐧 Part 2
Swisbest2 · 21/12/2018 08:55

@dreaminofholidays thats fantastic 😁 i was thw same just really needed to know what going on in there before christmas

Swisbest2 · 21/12/2018 08:57

Good luck today @june88 camt wait to see your pics

Jessabean · 21/12/2018 09:19

Congrats @Swisbest2 &@dreaminofholidays! Aw a little boy! Yup no denying with those pics! Understand how you guys feel - it was Christmas last year that I had my first miscarriage & am feeling like I'm needing lots of reassurance more than usual with kicks and things- doesn't help being so busy that it's harder to notice them 🙁 going to see how today goes but may ring midwife if I don't feel any more movements throughout the day I think...

Swisbest2 · 21/12/2018 10:06

@jessabean thats how i felt thought id felt movements then nothing for 2 days but all was fine. Got midwife as well today. Sute everythings ok in there for you