You're all so kind and thoughtful, it's making me a little tearful.
The babies' condition is currently exactly as it was on Monday, so they are stable for the time being and not suffering (heart/ kidney trouble, hydrops, anaemia, brain damage, shrink-wrapped donor twin etc). Donor baby doesn't have a huge amount of room but it hasn't got smaller yet so he/ she can still turn over and can still pee so is receiving some of the blood share.
So, no glamorous overnighter in Brum, just yet. Back Friday morning first thing to check again, same story if there's progression of the disease, we'll be whipped away.
Obviously we're massively relieved - for now. This is the best we could have hoped for at this stage - if they can make it a bit further before needing seriously risky intervention, they've got more chance of surviving it, just not too late or it gets more difficult to pull off again.
Taking DH to the beach - he grew up on a tropical island so it makes him happy. He's been just amazing. Might stay over at a friend's place out of town to try and relax - it's so peaceful there. It's my colleague's last day before mat leave so I'll pop in there to give them the update and wish her well.
Thank you all. I hope your scans are wonderful and your gender dreams come true 