Hi Pram - a bit better but only once I made it clear that I will not allow him to make me ill with stress and if the only way to avoid that is to do this alone, I'm fully geared up to do that.
Then we started the talk about what screening tests we would like and what would happen if any came up as high risk etc. I had to cut that conversation very short. Put it this way, there's a very good reason that the law leaves that particular choice with the woman. I know those types of choices are very personal - it was more the way he was stating it - as though his opinions should be law and anyone with opposing opinions to him would automatically be wrong.
Still. Better than yesterday. Just. And he still has potential to fuck it up yet. Saw friends and family last night and have been promised the physical and emotion support should I need to get him out of the house and be helped to move house by someone.
Either way, pretty sure he's aware the ice is thin.