I had it the other way, contented little baby who rarely cried. He didn't favour sleep, but we got there in the end. However, he is such a firery toddler it's unreal, however now he sleeps and naps perfectly.
I too have had the wobbles; how will I cope with two? Do I have the energy for two little people? Etc etc But I guess it's natural and we will all find our way.
Those that are scared of labour, don't be, just try not to think about it. If it hurts take what they are offering you, you wouldn't have your leg amputated or have knee surgery without pain relief. However you may be like me, I was open minded to pain reliefe, except for epi, I really didn't want that, but due to my preeclampsia they insisted I would have the epidural without choice. To cut a long story short, they couldn't get the cathiter in my hand for fluids before I was pushing, needless to say I didn't get epi or anything else, but nor did I need it, I was on some hippy cloud somewhere totally zoned out only hearing my MWs voice, bizarre as that is not me. The poor MW didnt even get to open my notes, so after labour asked me if I had HIV, which luckily i don't. I think the more calm you can stay about it all, the better you will cope with it. Yes, it'll hurt a bit, but then it'll all be over and you will totally forget.
I can't drink enough fruit juice, my teeth are going to drop out by the end of this. Also found that mini milk ice lollys help with the sickness. Can't get hula hoops here :( OH has been complaining tonight that I keep half eating things and going off them..ops.