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December 2012, 'Christmas rush' has a different meaning for us this year!

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StaceymReadyForNumber3 · 23/11/2012 10:03

Thought we should have a shiny new thread.

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StaceymReadyForNumber3 · 27/11/2012 01:04

Well I've had 2 high readings today with no reason, so I've had to up my metformin to 2 tablets. We'll see how that goes. Obv I'll ring my diabetic midwife tomo and inform her of the change. Esp as I don't have an appointment until next week now.

I don't get how I always wake up at 1am! It doesn't matter what time I go to sleep I'm always awake at 1am! Really annoying!

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Walnut8 · 27/11/2012 04:39

SPOTTY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Huge congrats! And sounds like Felix is doing really well. I hope you get a cuddle with him (if you havent already). What a good weight too. I hope he came out without too much ouch (or damage), but either way, well done!!

Stacey i keep logging on here each afternoon hoping you and COD have popped too Smile. I think I've given up going early, will go back to planning for overdue which I didnt want to do this time around but what can you do? DD was born at 42 weeks so I think I should stop hoping and just go with it!

I keep wondering how low this one can get though? Does anyone else feel like a baby is just going to drop through their legs soon? I get movement so low down.

SpottyTeacakes · 27/11/2012 05:11

Stacey I know it's rubbish but with diabetes the levels are expected to increase towards the end, I would take it as a sign that everything is working well with the placenta Smile

Thanks Walnut ill do a little birth story when I get out hopefully will be encouraging! Still not allowed to hold him but had a good hour of skin to skin after he was born so that's something.

Secondsop · 27/11/2012 05:33

willyou I'm booked in to go in on Wed night but have to ring that evening to check there's still a bed available. So really not long now.

I can have pasta too, in smallish portions. I can also have baked potato if I load it with stuff eg cheese and tuna. I can't have porridge though.

ellie my readings tend to be around the 6s and 7s, although in the last couple of weeks I've been getting a few more 5s as I've got more used to managing it. My high readings were about 3-4 a week at the start but have reduced in frequency eg I only had 1 in the last week, and they r all been in the low 8s apart from one 11 (to this day I can't work out what caused it as it was the same sandwich that had given me 7s the previous day), and one 9 (too big a bowl of porridge in the morning).

i thought I was controlling well, which was why I couldn't help but get a little upset when the consultant at my last appointment suggested I wasn't, by saying that the point of him coming "all the way from" the other hospital (a max 10 min drive by the way) was to hold the clinic for women whose diabetes was well-controlled and that I needed to discuss it with the diabetic team. On another day though a diabetic nurse had said I'd been doing well as she said it could be harder for bigger taller women to manage their sugars.

I don't know about you but I have found that whilst the emphasis is quite rightly on maintaining the right numbers for the good of the baby, i do sometimes wish for more recognition by the diabetic team of how DIFFICULT it can be for us. Just knowing the importance of good control doesn't automatically mean that we can follow it. Avoiding sugar isn't just a case of not being greedy - we're being asked to do the opposite of what our body is craving us to give it. I did find the nurse to be helpful when I was really struggling and lost 5lb in a week but then I did have the evidence on the scales of how it wasn't working for me. I've also not had any diabetic professional talk about the morning insulin surge and how to beat it, even when I kept pointing out that breakfast was proving difficult; I was just told "yes, breakfast can be hard because there's a limited number of things that you can eat for it", even when I explained that I could eat (eg) porridge at other times of day and not at breakfast. I also don't know how much difference a couple of high readings make - someone (poss spotty) said that her midwife had seen women with readings of 20 and 30 who'd had no ill effects on their babies, but then in that case I don't know why everyone flies into a panic about me having 3 readings of 8.2. Nobody's ever really explained to me whether (eg) 1 bad reading causes a specific bad effect, or whether it's a sliding scale depending on the reading, or whether it's cumulative so you need a few to make a difference.

Secondsop · 27/11/2012 05:45

Eek, having now spotty's post about levels increasing being a good sign, I'm going to look back over my numbers to make sure my stabilisation really is because of what I'm eating and that it's not the case that the same meals are giving me lower numbers now. At my 36 week scan the uterine Doppler thing was all normal.

I've been reading about colostrum. Had a go last night after a warm bath but no real joy. I'm hoping that even if I don't get any actually produced beforehand, practising the action of trying might stimulate my breasts to know what they're doing when called upon. spotty when you had skin to skin after Felix's birth, did he latch on to feed? And if you're continuing to express, is it any easier after birth? I've realised I actually have 2 good reasons to keep persevering with expressing - the GD, and the fact that I'm taking a beta blocker for high blood pressure, both of which can leave the baby hypoglycaemic.

SpottyTeacakes · 27/11/2012 06:01

Seconds I wouldn't worry about your levels you're so close to the end and mine were dramatically dropping. He wouldn't latch at all but had quite a bit of expressed colostrum. The mw did it and there was loads I'm finding it really easy. His sugar level was only 0.9 though so he was not in the mood!

I've leaked everywhere and have no spare trousers until dp gets here I don't even want to stand up because I know it's just going to gush out Sad going to ask to be discharged today

Walnut8 · 27/11/2012 06:04

seconds you are so close now. I hope you they have room for you tomorrow.

The bad storms over there is all over the news over here! Hope everyone is staying safe, sounds awful!

spotty how long until your dp gets there? what a pain!

SpottyTeacakes · 27/11/2012 06:07

Not for ages walnut as he's got dd! Such a nightmare. Also it's really early and all the lights are still off so I don't want to disturb anyone!

Can't say I've noticed the weather Grin

Secondsop · 27/11/2012 06:46

spotty thanks for that re the levels and re the colostrum. And for reminding me to pack extra trousers!

Walnut8 · 27/11/2012 06:46

No I suppose not Grin

At least the lights are off ... you could sort of sneak around if you need to ...

SpottyTeacakes · 27/11/2012 07:01

Luckily trousers are dark so we're all good just not looking forward to the inevitable gush when I stand up which I'm bracing myself to do!

Hmm ok so Felix is really really crying so they want to top up must have used colostrum I gave them. I said yes because it just be a good sign that he's hungry mustn't it especially as yesterday he wasn't even having any food?

StaceymReadyForNumber3 · 27/11/2012 07:13

Yes spotty it's good he's hungry, have you had a chance to express anymore? How are they feeding him tube or bottle?

Thanks for the reassurance with my levels spotty I didn't realise they may go up nearer the end. I really hope this baby comes soon, I'm completely fed up of all of this!

Well after getting back to sleep at half 2 I woke with a nightmar at 4. But got back to sleep about half past and DH just woke me before he went off to work. That's almost 3 hrs in 1 go! Lol

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SpottyTeacakes · 27/11/2012 07:19

It'll be a tube he's too ill for anything else. I'm going to get expressing again now I feel bad I didn't do more last night but I needed sleep!

PurplePidjChickIsNotTheMessiah · 27/11/2012 07:29

Spotty, you'll get nothing out if you're tired. I know it's important but don't overdo it and compromise your nipples - he'll be there to suck soon enough!

For anyone worried, remember R wouldn't latch due to pethidine and had to be topped up. He's now exclusively bf, only 3oz off birth weight on Saturday at his 5 day check. A fed baby is a healthy baby!

He hasn't gone more than an hour without feeding all night. I'm off to bfing group this morning to find out if he's getting enough, or what! He feels heavier Confused

SpottyTeacakes · 27/11/2012 07:32

pidj day five and sonewhen else I can't remember is when their stomach doubles in size I think Smile

StaceymReadyForNumber3 · 27/11/2012 07:33

spotty don't feel bad at all, esp if it's tube as it won't cause any nipple confusion etc. And pidj is right you have to sleep or your body won't cooperate! Have a go this morning, but don't beat yourself up. Keep trying if only for the fact it will keep your supply going. A little bit of formula isn't going to hurt him.

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PurplePidjChickIsNotTheMessiah · 27/11/2012 07:56

Please tell me it's day 8

SpottyTeacakes · 27/11/2012 08:12

I got 0.2mls so that's good. Will go see him after I've had some breakfast. Dp took the pâté Angry

SpottyTeacakes · 27/11/2012 08:13

I think it might be pidj Smile

PurplePidjChickIsNotTheMessiah · 27/11/2012 08:19

0.2 is fab, don't forget it's immensely concentrated - he'll have lots of scrummy antibodies for his breakfast :o

EggsMichelle · 27/11/2012 08:19

Ellie if you are into creative cooking, there is an Atkins diet recipe for pizza which uses mashed cauliflower for the base. Never brave enough to try it, but lots of pictures on the Internet suggest it works really well (and low sugar of cause!)

Spotty glad to hear Felix is noisy and hungry, very good sign!

I either have a virus or my gastric reflux is back with vengeance, had sniffly nose for weeks, but now I have a sore throat and sex line worker voice. I sound like the ballet shoe from The Shoe People which brightened DHs morning!

utopian99 · 27/11/2012 08:35

I remember the Shoe People!! Grin

When does one have to stop swimming? I feel fine, just wondering about risks of waters going/infection.

Also - have read that dates are an accepted labour-inducer in the middle east, is anyone doing this and if so, from when do you start eating them?

2blessed · 27/11/2012 08:44

sh sh sh shoe people! I remember it too! Showing my age now...

Morning!

Clarella · 27/11/2012 08:56

Congratulations spotty! a lovely name :) very well done you! I imagine its bern pretty stressful since though, thinking of you lots.

I went down like a ton of bricks yesterday after this bug appetite still pants. Porridge today though so fx. Still debating this sweep this morn ( tjough at tjis rate ill be late!!!!) Quick cstch up .....

Walnut yes baby is so low it feels like i can feel scrabbling at the door - i tried to feel for my cervix and felt the head right behind it Confused it does feel like its going to fall out!

Hi hormonal! I have sometimes hopped on the nov thread as started there then dates moved back and forth though its blooming hard to keep up! Hope things stay put for you for a while.

Those wanting to dance baby out i think strawberry posted this link to try - when ive some energy i will be!!

Hope youre ok strawb?

Colon pressure - try the over the bed thing on spinning babies website - has worked a treat for me.

Alison - lactulose?? (I fear that)

Great name pidj!

Yes to dates been scoffing for last 3 weeks, 6 a day i believe ( though any excuse to eat any amount for me) i think you can start in last 4 weeks but its one of the things that theres been a proper - though small- study on.

And so so sorry to hear all the gd blood level difficulties, it must be a nightmare Flowers

Clarella · 27/11/2012 08:58

Ooops link - google how to go into labour in 8 hours vanilla ice youtube.... off to mw!

To sweep or not to sweep?? Seems early ...