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March 2013 VIII: feeling kicks, comparing knits and halfway there

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theTramp · 03/11/2012 23:24

Old thread www.mumsnet.com/Talk/antenatal_clubs/1588951-March-2013-VII-Our-little-pumpkins-are-getting-fatter?msgid=35174657#thread

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Emus · 10/11/2012 20:07

Hi everyone! Struggling to keep up a bit!

Back from Barcelona with good news to report! Went for my rescan yesterday to check baby's heart and lips and was given the good news that everything looks normal and as it should! Am so relieved. Grin

My OH is in South Africa working so I took my darling mum with me to make up for the horrible way I broke my pregnancy news to her and I knew she would love to see baby 'live' as it were! She was thrilled, especially when it was confirmed that we are TEAM BLUE!!

I compared the baby's measurements from the scan two weeks ago and am amazed at how much he's grown! Although saying that, I shouldn't be too surprised as I have grown quite a bit too and can no longer do my trousers up and definitely need to move to maternity clothes. This morning I discovered that overnight the line from my belly button downwards that some women get is occurring. I was hoping I wouldn't get that! It bugging me already as it doesn't line up with my belly button!!

I am finally allowing myself to plan for the future and after the scan mum and I went for lunch, then to Mamas and Papas to look for maternity clothes (which they didn't have) and I allowed my mum to buy the baby his first toy - a cute wooden duck that you pull along on a piece of string! Can't wait now for OH to get home next week so that we can start discussing names, nursery and prams!! I'm sure a subscription to Which! will happen.

Tramp - what company did you use for your private scan. I think that's a lovely idea to get a DVD for the grandparents and I like the idea that the scan quality is much improved along with the time you get and the full explanations and reassurances.

Only another week and a bit until I'm 24 weeks Grin (this is my goal). oh, and I can't stand the smell of BioOil either Manda, or the fact that it's really greasy and makes me feel like I need a good wash after applying. I have used randomly though and now have stretch marks so probably serves me right.

Oodthunkit · 10/11/2012 20:22

Place marking , been to pm showing of skyfall in lovely old cinema near us ( they still have an ice cream lady at intermission!) and on way home realised its probably the last time of going for a year as I was v sore from the stairs and wont manage for at least a year. Will have to be second choice cinema which is also an independant but more up to date less character and more expensive. We avoid the chain ones as they are so expensive & soulless.

mandasand · 10/11/2012 21:02

Hello lovelies! Had a great tutorial today. I'm getting really fond of my group already and impressed with their commitment and enthusiasm. Getting a bit sad I'm only doing one more with them before the Study Day in May, though on the other hand delighted I've only got one more assignment to mark as that's the hard bit of the job! Two brought cake today - gorgeous, light lemon drizzle and some brilliant cupcakes - yum!

OC you're right, altho I'm knackered I've got lots more energy than early on ? but I hear that with twins you're as big and heavy at 28 weeks as a singleton pregnancy at 40 weeks, and a lot of people take their maternity leave from then ? eek! Funny on the name of the scanning dept, by the way!

To answer Pink on that ... with my full-time job I'm stopping going down to London in December (when I'll be 28 weeks), just working from home after that, so am trying to get as many research trips done before then so I've got enough to tide me over. But as long as I can sit comfortably with my laptop I'll keep working till ? erm ? the birth?! I've got a fellow-academic friend, though, who said the same thing but she had had enough by 36/37 weeks so I'm prepared to change my mind on that! She took a whole week at the end just to lounge about once she realised that this would be probably be the last time for about 18 yrs she'd be able to do so!! Scary biscuits.

But with the OU tutoring I have cleverly decided to start mat. leave early, from 1 January, so that I didn't have to make the third assignment or teach any of the ancient Rome part of the course - not my forte! Crafty Smile

Sounds like you're going to miss your Mum this time round, Pink, an I'm sure she'll miss being around at the birth of your baby girl. But great you have the au pair's extra pair of hands. Ooh, I've never been to the Horniman. Should rectify that at some point.

Tramp, yes the adjustment is slightly frustrating. But in so many ways I think pregnancy is preparing us for Life Afterwards. I think this when, for example, it takes me three times as long to get dressed and out of the door! Amazed at your baby shower baking - what a fab friend you are!

Oh Flowery, your poor Mum with the v. bad PND. Sounds like she got through it though?

Hermione that's a lot of moisturising! Normally I don't bother much, but I'm defo doing the bump after a shower (I was doing Pregnacare cream but now BioOil), and arms and legs with E45 which seem a bit dry at the mo. Great news about your course at work - brilliant! And sounds like you've got a good head start too Smile

Has anyone got any recommendations for more natural alternatives to BioOil? Really not sure I like the idea of the ingredients...and the smell is a bit hmm for someone who sometimes develops allergies to smelly stuff!

Em impressed with your DH's culinary experimentation! How did it go?! Yay for Pooh nostalgia! I only discovered Pooh as an undergraduate. Love Alan Bennett too so great combo!

Lexi yay for the ballet! And how cool that beanette was jumping in the loud bits, hehe! BOO to your mate and her insensitive comment though, humph. Don't take it to heart. Our bodies will do what they need to do. If mine needs to extend a further foot horizontally, then ? erm there's nothing I can do to stop it!

Emus big yay for your fab scan! And how lovely to take your Mum along! I know mine would LOVE that too wondering if I can somehow make that happen Congrats on Team Blue! Woop!

Just waiting for Ocado delivery then bed. Was in bed a lot of the afternoon after teaching so am amazed I'm still so knackered!

theTramp · 10/11/2012 22:22

Manda - I am allergic to pretty much everything with perfume in, but having no problems at all with bio oil, infact my skin loves it. Sorry to hear that some people aren't having as much fun with it. I would suggest coco botter or a special pregnancy cream instead perhaps?

So baby shower now over. Have done some cleaning up, but there's some left. MrM has disappeared, not sure where to. Cats are moping. I've eaten my body weight in cake and finger food and have enough cake left over for another baby shower. Seriously i should have just said I'd cater and ask everyone for a fiver, I think it would have been easier for all. Anyway, I made...

  • mini quiches: which are dead easy, really tasty and I shoudl have made twice as much I think.
  • moserella and tomato roses (cocktail stick, add two basil leaves, top off top of a cherry tomato and add above basil leaves, pop mini moserella pearl on top - YUM) which were the hit of the day I think
  • chocolate fudge cake, which no-one touched (fools!) something MrM is thrilled about
  • mini victoria sponges (which need some work, I put too much mix in so they came out like cup cakes, next time less mix)
  • cucumber, cream cheese & mustard finger sarnies (yum!)
  • strawberry & ginger ale punch (freeze strawbs, then mix frozen strawbs in blender with a litre of canda dry) another big hit
  • frozen grapes (seriously yum) as token fruit

Other ladies brought brownies, cup cakes, quiches and cookies. Only one lady baked. So we had loads and loads of food.

Pink - you and the boys could have popped in as Horniman is 5 mins from my house (well, 10 when you're waddling :) ).

Anyway, looks like sundays menu will consist of the tomato bruchetta that I didn't make in the end today, more moserella roses, salad and quiche (as had lots of quiche mix left over). Oh and our choice of cakes. :)

Mum to be had a fab time and was so thrilled by fuss everyone made. Some of the girls sorted games, there was a lady who came and everyone had either a massage or their nails done. Fab afternoon.

I am a bit knackered now though.

Contraception: what is wrong with condoms? So much nicer than inserting nasty coils in your womb or pumping yourself full of hormones. That or the snip. Heck, the snip doesn't even hurt these days (apparently) as it is all done in seconds with a laser (I am told).

Priavte scan place is: www.thebirthcompany.co.uk/ We opted for 3D scan with iBaby video. Was sooo tempted to have 4D scan, but basically it was the vid we were after.

Manda - you are probably right about the slowing down, but ya know what, I don't like it one little bit.

Sorry if I have missed anyone. Am reeling a bit. Long ole day.

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EthelredOnAGoodDay · 10/11/2012 23:25

Just saying hi. Having a mega busy few days, and off to center parcs on Monday, then weekend up with ILs in Cumbria so not sure how much I'll be posting for next week or so. anyways, hope you're all ok and feeling good! x

Emus · 10/11/2012 23:28

Quick question - how many scans do we get on the NHS? I know it varies from region to region but I thought my 20 week scan would be my last but the sonographer on Frday said I would get one more. I failed to ask when as I was still a bit overwhelmed! I'm in Berkshire but having our baby in Hampshire (as no hospital near me!). I do have an anterior placenta so maybe that's why I'll be offered one more?

Thanks for scan info Tramp and well done on your efforts today, as someone else said, I would love to be your friend and you bake that or me!

Manda, at least you've got a plan for maternity, playing by ear sounds like a great idea!

StormyBrid · 11/11/2012 02:42

No idea why you're getting an extra scan, Emus. It's normally just two scans on the NHS, unless you have complications that warrant extras.

Tramp - what's wrong with condoms is they give me thrush every damned time!

Nothing to report on the baby front here, except the man has admitted he finds the idea of sex with a pregnant person weird. No idea how to help him past that one. Any suggestions?

Right, it's nearly three in the morning, I ought to be asleep, not poking around with dosbox and playing twenty year old games. Happy Sunday, everyone.

Emus · 11/11/2012 07:19

Nope, no complications Stormy, everything is fine. I can only think its to check on the placenta position maybe? She didn't elaborate so now I'm kicking myself for not asking why and when! She could be wrong of course, am not going to worry about it or read into it... she says

EthelredOnAGoodDay · 11/11/2012 09:08

Emus, I'd think it's probably to do with the placenta. Can you ring your mw this week and ask?

Emus · 11/11/2012 09:30

Yes, that's a good idea Ethel!

I swear last night I felt the baby kick on the outside for the first time and this morning he seems to be quite active with proper little kicks going on! I'm loving it!

He seems to like Gungam Style - should I be concerned?! Haha.

Sheldonella · 11/11/2012 09:33

Morning! Sorry for the lack of posts - I had mild food poisoning like symptoms on Thursday and Friday which was horrible and I had to miss work yet again :( They don't seem to mind too much but before this year I almost never took any time off so it feels very strange for me. Of course I suddenly started panicking that I had listeriosis or something but DH calmed me down and pointed out that I wasn't vomiting (just the other thing - TMI) and didn't have a temperature.

I had a lovely day yesterday when my cousin came to visit with her little boy. He is so lovely and smiley and I can't wait to have DD so they can play together. I cooked them a lovely lunch and then we chatted about babies all afternoon :) DH and I then decided when they had left to go to see Skyfall and I had another baby clothes buying incident in mothercare. I bought some lovely brightly coloured vests which I noticed were marked on the receipt as "boy essentials" which I thought was very silly. Boy clothes aren't a different shape are they?

JoJo DD kicked me throughout the loud bits of Skyfall too, twas lovely :)

Flowery So glad your DH is ok, that must have been such a worry.

Hermione Your spa trip sounds lovely and great news on the training. I might get to do a training course before I go on maternity leave which should be very interesting. Lovely that you have someone to study with too.

October I hope you don't have accreta, that sounds worrying. Is it something that you won't find out until the end?

tramp Your baking sounds lovely, and I love the sounds of those mozerella and tomato roses.

Lexi Your London night sounds lovely. Shame about the comment from your friend though, not sure why people feel the need to say things like that. I have had a comment on working off my baby weight which wasn't very helpful at all.

Emus Glad you enjoyed Barcelona (jealous :) ) and congrats on team blue! Ooooh a wooden duck, I love those!

manda Your cake filled tutorials sounds lovely :) I hope I will be able to do some more OU courses in the future and go to such lovely groups. Bio Oil - I have used rosehip oil which is meant to do a similar thing with regards to scarring and healing. It smells much less than Bio Oil but still has a slight smell.

Have a great trip Ethel.

Right, off to try to have another productive day around the house.

Oodthunkit · 11/11/2012 09:41

emus dd3 dances like gangam style Hmm

sheldonella hope you are feeling better

GummiberryJuice · 11/11/2012 09:54

Morning ladies

Bio oil I used in all 3 pregnancies still got stretch marks but as I said somewhere before I didn't get big red angry ones and they are like little silver lines now, so I'm not sure weither that means it worked or not.

I still have that rash I had the panic trip to doctors about, so I am using Aveeno this time which I love. After more research I think I do have the rash that has a report on internet about dangers to pg women, but it was based on a study of 39 people, so I am going to ignore. Loads of pg women seem to get it and all have healthy babies, there is no treatment for it anyway and it just has to run its course. It is brought on by stress and it just so happens it first appeared when I was really stressing about dd1 and her new meds.

Dark, loud theatres always made my babies very active.

After all my quiet days I am definitely feeling baby more, rescan on Tuesday Yey, and 22 weeks today!

Emus when I had my last 2 babies I was consultant based, everytime I went to hospital they gave you a quick scan to measure baby but very poor quality and no pics. I have a rescan on Tuesday and then that's it until we see our little bundle in March

Ethel have a good time

October have fingers crossed for you and hope you had a lovely evening with girls last night.

Tramp, yum your party sounds wonderful, have your in laws got DVD yet? I'm with you on condoms, although I think since this is our fourth and final I think dh could be persuaded for the snip.

Waves to everyone

Oodthunkit · 11/11/2012 10:26

I remember when pg with dd1 saying to xh I didn't have any stretch marks and he gave me a mirror. They were all under my bump. Then they came over the top. In the last 2 weeks my stomach was covered :( don't seem to have any new ones but tbh there's not a lot of room left for them!

theTramp · 11/11/2012 10:28

Stormy - eep. I wouldn't use condoms either if that was the side effect.

Em - suspect they're checking placenta. Poor that they didn't explain BUT would say that as they didn't make big deal of it I wouldn't worry. Anything bad and you'd be seeing consultant straight off and you'd have loads of appointments between now and birth.

Lexi - I love Matthew Bourne. I like the fact that he sees ballet as theatre as well as dance. Every element is so exquisite and his all male Swan lake (did you see that one or the later one?) was just beautiful. Actually they're all beautiful. Out Christmas gifts to our mothers last year was to take them not to see his nutcracker suite which was just fantastic. So pleased you had a lovely evening.

Kudos on the tidying house plans today ladies and sorry to hear about rashes and food poisoning type symptoms. Hope alls well soon.

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JoJoBella84 · 11/11/2012 13:55

Eeeeeek 26 weeks today! Where has the time gone? It doesn't feel like 20 weeks ago I took the test that changed everything!!!

Just a quick post with no name checking as I'm pushed for time this afternoon! Have spent the past few days travelling around to see different family members. Had an overnight stop in Otley to spend some time with my nephews and give the youngest his belated birthday present - a bubble machine! Never has a present gone down better!! Two boys (one with a thigh high cast) running around a garden chasing bubbles!!

Have now arrived in Disley at the IL's and have seen and played with my pram which is just awesome!! I sooo want to stick a teddy in it and take it for a spin around the park but I'm fairly sure I know what Mr JoJo's response to that request will be!

Mr JoJo is enjoying watching my bump jump around with big kicks which I have to say is pretty funny!

Heading back to York in the morning for a lecture and then straight on the road to Aberdeen with all baby stuff for a couple of days before returning on Friday for a course in Sheffield on Saturday... I'm going to be exhausted but its all good fun :)

Sheldonella · 11/11/2012 14:01

JoJo that makes you third trimester doesn't it :)

JoJoBella84 · 11/11/2012 14:14

sheldon I think it's next week, I could be wrong but I thought 3rd trimester was 27 weeks onwards.

sundaesundae · 11/11/2012 15:04

I thought anterior placentas were absolutely fine unless it is low? So shouldn't need any additional scans for that, unless you are due a CS maybe?

Bubba is much more active today and yesterday after quiet Friday, just flumps and stuff, but the feelings have changed. I guess she is getting bigger in there so they are more rummagy and less poppy.

I have had an upset tummy too, boo!

We went to John Lewis this morning (had a naughty breakkie which I then nearly puked up, yay) and looked at pushchairs. We are getting the uppababy vista and the BeSafe Izo seat and isofix base. Won't buy it till after Christmas, but glad it is chosen.

Going to put a spreadsheet together of our choices and prices, then if something happens and I can't be there DH can go out and know what he is buying!

Emus · 11/11/2012 15:43

I don't have a low lying placenta, just straight forward anterior. I will ask my midwife but I'm guessing the sonographer has got it wrong as she seemed a bit unsure herself as soon as she said it. As far as I'm aware there are no concerns for my baby or for me (although I am on the heavy side but nothing has been mentioned about my weight. My BMI is high but not in the high risk category).

Em2010 · 11/11/2012 17:18

Hello All, quick post from me as I need to get tea/dinner/supper (I am constantly walking a tightrope on what to call the bloomin' evening meal!)

Sorry to all those feeling grotty at the mo.

26 weeks! Yay jojo! Im 24 tomorrow, can't wait, def feels like a milestone.

tramp now officially London's caterer to the best baby showers??! Sounded delicious! Is anyone here having a baby shower? Don't think I could get away with having one as it's a second baby but would have loved one first time around.

sundae pram choices sound good. DH laughed (quite excessively) when I told him how excited I was that in January I'm looking forward to starting to buy things for this baby. Admittedly I have bought, ahem, a few bits and pieces already! Speaking of which I've got a phil and teds sport!! Bought it off eBay for a very reasonable figure and picked it up this morning! So far have it in baby and toddler mode and been whizzing ds around the hall in it very happily!!

Anyway, must dash! Ttfn!

Em2010 · 11/11/2012 17:20

Ps emus I have a low lying placenta and was dragged in to the consultant and given a lecture that put the fear of god into me so as someone else said I'm sure if there was anything serious they would have mentioned it to you.

I have booked a 4d scan for 8th December! So excited, can't wait!! (also hope placenta is a bit higher!)

backwardpossom · 11/11/2012 17:46

Hi all, I've been a bit quiet on Mumsnet recently and you'd dropped off my "Threads I'm On" page! No chance of me catching up... I'm 23+2 and feeling a bit miserable - I've been left with a cough after the cold I had and I don't have the greatest of pelvic floors, so every time I cough, I'm on piss-my-pants watch. Blush Baby is very wriggly and I know it should be exciting, but I'm not really enjoying it this time around... I'm so so so so busy at work and also filling in this application for the head of department job I'm going for and report writing and I'm losing the will to live... Blah. Early bed tonight and I'm sure I'll feel happier tomorrow!

LexiandBeanette · 11/11/2012 18:09

hugs to backward
Gummi I love Aveeno. I have bad eczema and find using their shower oil and the stronger lotion help to keep it at bay. Am using a Mama Mio bump oil for stretchmarks DH bought me, smells lovely and is definitely keeping the itching at bay, but we will see if I develop marks or not!
Tramp it was the all-male Swan Lake I saw, beautiful. He has another production this Christmas but I can't remember which ballet. Your baby shower food sounds amazing! mouth watering
Been out for lunch today and now having slight crisis as my ageing MacBook is on its last legs. Not sure what to replace it with. Would love another Apple but they are so expensive....mind you this one is 7 years old and until now has been brilliant, so it's hard to know what is for the best.

Oodthunkit · 11/11/2012 18:31

Back at work tomorrow after two weeks off. Got to find my new desk and find out if my job has changed. Got supervision in the afternoon so can catch up. Not looking forward to not seeing much of my team, hoping they email me gossip!

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