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theTramp · 25/09/2012 18:00

Old thread: www.mumsnet.com/Talk/antenatal_clubs/1558560-March-2013-Mk-V-Lumpy-bumpy-witty-knitters-patiently-await-the-bloom?msgid=34370452#34370452

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theTramp · 09/10/2012 22:20

Lexi - tea tree dabbed on neat when tyre angry & sore, only a tiny bit really helps. I also recommend a mud mask (dead sea is great) which exfoliates & opens pores followed by an oxygen mask (bliss spa offer a reasonably priced one that lasts donks) once a week both as a routine. I suffered acne for years and this was only tuff that made a difference. Ignore the big name brands they're pants for proper sore & nasty zits.

If you're frightened of presenting have you anyone you can practice on? And have you had any presentation training? If you're a Londoner for the price of a pretend (decaf) coffee am happy to assist. Welcome to my world as they say! :)

Am v jealous of your speedy sofa arrival. We ordered ours end of July and was meant to be delivered mid Sept. Still not here :( although I'm expecting greatness (& now our lives are complete!) when it does arrive. Which had better be next week or I start making official complaints.

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mandasand · 09/10/2012 22:23

Okay, I'm feeling better after my rant and lovely tea (thanks to fab DH) and kindness from you lot!

Okay, so this is not at all set in anything like stone, but there's been chat on FB about a poss meet-up and, as we're so geographically scattered, York and Birmingham seemed - by general opinion - like two places where people could easily congregate. Doesn't, of course, preclude other meet-ups: just go to doodle.com and set up a poll based along these lines. I've gone for weekend days only as so many are working. Though am sorry if this is too work-centric! Thing to do is to indicate which dates you can do and where you'd like to do it. I guess the most popular date will be the one to go for ... and I'm going to leave someone else to organise the actual when and where etc! Smile

YORK www.doodle.com/7h972xg5dnp7wn6g
BRUM www.doodle.com/3estx3tfh2urfmxi

EthelredOnAGoodDay · 09/10/2012 22:32

Oooh I'm in a bad mood tonight. Angry no reason why really, just in a right old grump!

I have replied to the poll manda I have limited availability as got hols and visits up north to ILs, then DD's birthday coming ip and various other 3year olds' parties! (that's the kind of rock and roll life I lead!Grin). However, if everyone can make a date that I can't, I'll see if I can shuffle things about a bit.

Will catch up later, bit hope you're all ok. X

mandasand · 09/10/2012 22:32

and thanks so much for sympathy, you lovely lot.

gosh, lexi I think you must have it harder doing it every day. I remember you saying it's a bit over an hour each way? That's a lot of hours per week! I have to do it only about once a week so I really shouldn't complain!

tramp I used to LOVE mud masks! The MUDD one I used to have. Was frequented found with a green face Grin

glad you had a great 20-week scan, panic!

sorry to hear your work isn't going so well, flowery, but as you say not long to go now! spurred on by your q about a meet-up I've set up two doodle polls Smile

theTramp · 09/10/2012 22:43

Poll responses submitted. London to York train costs less than £30 at mo so v reasonable

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shieldbug · 09/10/2012 22:55

hello all!
Haven't been able to read MN for ages (too busy with PhD, having stomach bug, ds having stomach bug, visiting England, having small bleeds and coping with prolonged toddler tantrums (is it normal to scream for over an hour and a half? (him, not me!))), so hope you are all ok, especially JoJo who was due to have op last time I read anything (last thread).
Anyway, just to say, despite some small amounts of smeary blood, I think everything is ok (scan tomorrow with consultant) and even though I'm failing miserably at keeping up, I often think of you all.
Will hopefully be able to keep track better soon (PhD is progressing), especially as we are getting to the exciting scan stage. Wow, some of us must be half-way by now!

theTramp · 09/10/2012 22:59

Shield - hope scan shows a bouncing baby tomorrow & sorry to hear you've been having such a tough time. Will be thinking of you all day tomorrow.

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Em2010 · 09/10/2012 23:00

Hello All. Really will have to keep this short as am utterly exhausted and should have gone to bed hours ago bur cookrd dinner fir my parents instead. Been a marathon day - organised and hosted a team out of office day- took 8000 words of minutes. In the meantime my parents moved out of my the family home that I have lived in since I was a baby and I've been trying to quietly 'project manage' that on the side! All has ended well though and meeting was a success and parents are happily ensconced in their new house which is 5 minutes down the road from mine! Quite a change when they used to live 200 miles away! Had a very small glass of wine to relax!
Doodle polls filled in. Will be so nice to meet up with some of you!
Am beginning to feel very nervous for next week's scan... Good luck to those of you who have them before me.
Sorry for those of you who have had tough days. Onwards and upwards for tomorrow.... !

Em2010 · 09/10/2012 23:23

Oh shield cross posted sorry! Sounds like you've been having a tough time. Hope you and ds are feeling better and that scan goes well tomorrow!

Em2010 · 09/10/2012 23:24

And yup screaming for half an hour is normal in our house (both ds and me!)

ThreeForTea · 09/10/2012 23:25

Hi late night ladies! Sounds like you needed that Wine em! Will virtually join you :)

Thanks for doing doodle polls manda, phone isn't letting me but i'll do it first thing. Has evening been successful after stresses of earlier?

sheild wow that is loads, and a long time for tiddler to torture you scream for. I think it is normal though, for good mums anyway that don't cave and give sweets. Hope consultant is helpful.

tramp that sounds ages, hope it comes soon. I don't know ours is quick as one of those consolations for living in the sticks? I'm always looking for them!

lexi sympathies on both counts. Bad skin days are so rubbish, stress related as much as anything maybe? I get spots when I'm run down, just little angry ones. Used to have terrible skin when I was younger, had to take roaccutane when I was 21 which was a bit drastic. They make you sign a contract promising not to get pg! Fx you get some good rest and are rarering to go by the weekend.

Let it out ethel its all fair atm!

Might need to sleep now but dh is snoring. Might have to poke him.

EthelredOnAGoodDay · 10/10/2012 06:32

Just a really quick message, as need to make my packed lunch (rock and roll...)
Have been meaning to post for ages about the NT screening after someone mentioned it again the other day (sorry, can't remember who) so I dug out the literature I was given. On top of the locally produced guide to screening, I was given an NHS screening booklet, updated 2012, it says all women will be offered tests for Downs and then goes on to list the combined test (scan and bloods) and then the quadruple blood test for later pregnancy. This is a definite change from when I had DD in 2009 and the booklet basically said that some areas offered the scan. The wording is quite different.

Hope this helps whoever it was was that was asking.

Talk later, have a good day all.

Lexiindisguise · 10/10/2012 06:46

Thanks Tramp - I will get face masking! Just hope this settles down after pg.
And thanks manda for the doodle pool organising, will take a look when not on phone.
Re: presenting sadly I'm rarely in London Tramp or I would take you up on that! I am properly phobic, get shaky, hot, etc when I present - like stage fright!
shield sorry to hear you having such a tough time, glad you parents moved successfully & hope scan shows everything is fine Smile

lannyshrops · 10/10/2012 06:49

V quick as have to get up but so have to tell you about my dream last night....manda you were at house as we discovered you lived three doors away. While here jojo called you about meeting up that evening. Then you revealed that jojo, backward, ood and a few others (who's names escape me) all live near me, that you had a little secret group ans were going to leave us all as you all got on really well. Then you got up an left! I was very distressed!
I love my vivid dreams (not) and please font leave us!!

Em2010 · 10/10/2012 06:53

Oh lanny how rude of them!! Grin

theTramp · 10/10/2012 08:39

Lexi - that's very unpleasant for you. Do you have to present often? Have you had any presentation training of the how to recognise what's making you worried and here's some tricks to help variety?

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Sheldonella · 10/10/2012 10:10

Oops, I have missed loads again. I've still not recovered from the weekend away, no idea how I'm going to cope in future! I've been feeling so emotional since then too, very very lucky and so so happy about the baby. I can't wait for my 20 week scan on the 23rd to see her again. Congrats on yours panicnot (and anyone else, sorry if I have missed). A girl, how lovely - me too!
shield Sorry to hear about your bleeding and worrying. Hopefully you will get your mind put at rest today. Well done on the PhD progress.
manda That journey sounds horrible, those sorts of passengers are enough to make anyone uncomfortable. Hope you got some good sleep and have a good trip to Paris. Onion gravy - yum!
Sorry to hear about work stresses too. I have been feeling a bit overwhelmed this week and a bit useless. My boss is thankfully sympathetic but I worry he will lost patience at some point.
Schools - we seem to be in a good area for schools which is good. Not sure how to find out about private school and have no idea what they cost. Might be something to look into if we can't get a place at the good ones though.
tramp Thanks for mentioning face masks, that is exactly what I need too!
Lexi I know how you feel with the wanting to stay at home! I've been loving the knitting and not wanting to go out. Hope your presentation isn't too stressful.
Is anyone else still having pain when sneezing? I sneezed in bed last night and it was awful and didn't go away for ages. It hasn't happened for a while so was a bit of a shock.

Sheldonella · 10/10/2012 10:12

Oh yes - meetups. I think I will just need to see what is decided. I have promised lots of meetups with friends/family and have some work commitments before christmas so I'm a bit limited. Would love to meet you all though!

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panicnotanymore · 10/10/2012 11:45

I'm crossing my fingers for you shield. I've had loads of bleeding too, it's really scary. My consultant says it is very common, and at this stage if it was bad it wouldn't be a little smear it would be a flood. I remember that every time I have a blip.

The comments on schools made me smile. My H has always been really anti private education, but since the bump appeared has started talking about how it might be worth looking into. Double standards or what Grin. I'm happy with the village schools myself, both the primary and the secondary aren't bad, and as a product of private education myself I can say it isn't all it's cracked up to be. I left after GCSEs and had a much happier time at the local comp for A Levels (came out with straight As so my education didn't suffer).

Good luck everyone who is waiting for a 20 week scan. I was so scared before mine I didn't sleep at all the night before. The sonographer was lovely, and explained every single check as she went through. Some are so much better than others, I am tempted to write and say how wonderful she was.

GummiberryJuice · 10/10/2012 12:20

Shield I was wondering where you had got to fx for scan

Panic Yey for baby girl have you updated the stats thread now we have teams

Sorry have read through but I am miserable with this cold had dd1s hosp app this morn then 2nd one was cancelled because of her bloods so another week of juggling hospital/doctors appointments.

And fx girls I noticed dd1s eye looked like it was bruised or a black eye over last couple of weeks, said to consultant today, turns out 1 of the drops causes pigmentation especially in her colouring, and sometimes does not fade, but have changed that drop to prevent further darkening, so fx it fades

ThreeForTea · 10/10/2012 13:15

shel yes to pain while sneezing! And I have allergies in the autumn so tend to have to hold tummy in the place where the tugging is.
Sorry you're not feeling good gummi & having to mess round with appointments not fun.

Just about to have my mid-week nap while dd sleeps, favourite part of my week! Missed it last weds and was then ill for four days, coincidence? Will be back later for afternoon session.

pinkpeony4 · 10/10/2012 13:16

Hi, place marking so I don't get too lost.

Hope all is Ok & lots of luck to all those who have scans.

Myjob I have been getting the stitch like pains a lot this week and I am 19+5. I have put it down to a growth spurt but it is very uncomfy. Is that what your pain feels like? Try and have a sit down? Are you other Children at school? At lunchtimes, I put my baby to bed, ds2 in front of a DVD and have a sit down. It's very needed & I always feel better afterwards.

Shield I hope all is Ok at your scan.

Will try & write more later but have to bake cakes for school cake sale tomorrow

Lexiindisguise · 10/10/2012 13:29

Tramp and Shel thanks for the good wishes - I've not had formal training on this as I rarely need to present to customers, but perhaps I should look into it. It's stopped me thinking of going freelance or agency side as I'd be hopeless at pitching!
Hope everyone is having a good day today. Just popping in inbetween meetings!

StormyBrid · 10/10/2012 13:39

I spend three days lost in Skyrim and come back to find an extra ten pages of messages? Might need to make a cuppa before I start ploughing through them all. I'm determined to finish that game before this kid turns up though - not likely to have much opportunity afterwards!

Re: the name Douglas, I like it. But that may be because it's my brother's name. My dad chose it because he thought it "sounded like a good strong drinking man's name". I like that it's a proper name (as opposed to some of the godawful ones that come out of America these days) but still pretty unusual. Need more names with those qualities!

backwardpossom - lime green little lamb nappies sound very familiar, I think they're the ones my friend favours. I must admit, I'm not sure about the colour though.

The flu jab is irritating me at the moment, or rather, my doctor's policy on it is irritating me. The surgery's having a flu day on the 20th, and I've been invited along to get the thing. Unfortunately I can't make it, because I'm visiting my sister in Cornwall for a week and travelling back on the 20th. I'm going by train, so if I'm going to be exposed to the flu then this trip seems the time when it's likely to happen. Can I get the jab before I go? No. Apparently they have to make sure there are enough doses of the vaccine, or something, and I'll have to ring them up when I get back and arrange an appointment. Which is fine, except a) they've invited me in for a flu jab, ergo there is already a dose with my name on it, and b) I feel as though surgery policy is taking precedence over my health. Not impressed.

Em2010 - you've given birth in Hull? Whereabouts? My options this time are a) HRI or b) in a ditch somewhere and I'd love to hear what it's like there. (Apparently Scarborough is also an option, but buggered if I want to be driven up and down all those hills for that long when in labour.)

pinkpeony4 - movement. At this point (18+5) I don't usually notice it unless I'm paying attention or sitting in certain positions. Last night I went out for a drink, and during the gossiping like a pair of washerwomen I didn't register any movements, but as soon as my friend went to the loo and I didn't have that distraction, I could feel someone doing backflips in there. I figure there's not much point worrying about it at this stage though, because the baby's still pretty small and not very strong, and I've got plenty of padding, so it's only when s/he moves in exactly the right way or place that I feel it at all.

Right, I'm pausing there, with pages 22 through 29 to read when I get back from dragging the man to the dentist. You'd think a grown man could be trusted to take himself to the dentist, but no. If I don't go with him and physically drag him through the door he won't go. Sigh.