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March 2013 Mk V: Lumpy bumpy witty knitters (patiently) await the bloom!

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Chefette · 07/09/2012 10:09

New one marchers sorry on phone and can't link! Will post title in our old thread x

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sundaesundae · 10/09/2012 15:47

I went and asked at the TFL ticket / info desk and got given two and a big congratulations to the girl. Apparently they hand em out at all the tickets / info places, this was at Euston.

StealthToddler · 10/09/2012 16:38

sundae try a glass of milk to help with heartburn - only thing that helped in my last 2 pg. glass before bed made all the difference!

sundaesundae · 10/09/2012 16:39

would milkshake work? I hate the taste of milk!

EthelredOnAGoodDay · 10/09/2012 17:17

Hi all,

Finally caught up. Have spread good news to most people. Just trying to get hold of my auntie now and that's everyone told.

DD was excited and said she'd like to have a little sister...and a little brother. Ha ha!

Mrs R, I know what it's like when someone really gets on your tits, but to my mind, it's not worth working yourself up so much about it. Everyone has people who some across as having the perfect lifestyle, (our neighbours are a bit like that, we call the man of the house Ned FlandersGrin) but as people on here have said lots of times, you dont know what goes on behind closed doors. And even if their life is as great as you think it is, I can understand you feeling resentful, but letting it wind you up to this extent is not good for you or the baby. Tramp had some really good suggestions re the house, and if all else fails, you need to have it out with your DH and let him know just how low this is making you feel.

Welcome twinkle and congrats shield on great scan news!

Lexiindisguise · 10/09/2012 17:20

Love Tramps suggestions for taming OHs - I also tend to go for the logic & convincing him it's his idea approach with DH and it works well, perhaps because he is an engineer and I am a marketer so it plays to both our natural inclinations!
Turkish hope all went well for you with gastro stuff

HermioneBoo · 10/09/2012 17:41

Sundae you can get strawberry flavoured Gaviscon, it's really nice although I had a bad bout of ms while taking it so I've gone off it a bit, but it was nice before the ms and really helped!
Ladies I need your help, I've been nominated as a role model at my work (! I laugh every time I think about that, the last 8 weeks have been a bit distracted!) and I get to go to a black tie event in London. Dress code is ballgown or cocktail dress - does anyone know where I can get something that will look nice? I'll be 22 weeks by then, and it's a few days before my 30th birthday so I'll be a bit strapped for cash. I don't mind hiring but have never hired before so don't know where to start! I'm a bit of a tomboy so any tips for hair and general glamming up that I can do myself would be much appreciated!

JoJoBella84 · 10/09/2012 17:52

hermione maxi dresses are always good when preggers and if you're a tomboy you won't be flashing lots of leg. If you happen to have a lovely pregnancy cleavage I'd go with something halter neck style. I find with hair the simpler the better, just a pretty clip would do it! I'm terrible with make up so everything is natural for me... Depending on what day it's on though you could get a free make over at a department store or the body shop!! - saves you the hassle! And there's no obligation to buy!

ThreeForTea · 10/09/2012 17:54

Tiddley so sorry to hear about sil :( Have they been through mc before? Really hope that you can stay close and that she gets all the support and love she needs from other people around her too.

Welcome Twinkle really hope you have a great pregnancy and peaceful new start from now on for you and your family!

Congrats on scans, , yay for good news!

manda thanks for sorting the fb out, hope the extra admin hasn't tired you out too much!

My sister has come today, she arrived at 11.30 and promptly fell asleep at 12 and slept till 5pm! She is 21 so probably too much partying. Also she works at London Zoo which I heard can get pretty wild.

Sis is going to look after dd tomorrow as its my first day back at work. Feeling really happy about going, though I don't know entirely what my office based role is going to entail. I'm not sure how many people know that i'm pg. Just going to walk in with my little tummy after my 7 week absence and see what happens!

zoeymlucas · 10/09/2012 19:15

Well FINALLY am home from my pre op it was only booked for 1.30 they wanted bloods to check my itching, they are all fine but they are going o keep an eye! Everyone else there was for c sections on Wednesday - was rather jealous as I have forever left!!!!!!
Was so hungry I even ate some hospital food in the end, times were that bad!!!!! Really annoyed with DH and actually don't want to look at him, I understand he couldn't come but could of at least texted or bothered to reply!!

theTramp · 10/09/2012 19:16

Hermione - what dress size are you usually? how tall are you? And is your budget closer to £50 or £100?

Let me know the above & I'll have a ton of suggestions for you. Black tie is my thing! Even if you're at 22 weeks!!! Seriously, this is my idea of fun.

Sheldonella · 10/09/2012 19:16

Wow, not been on since this morning and so much to catch up on!

Been out to meet my cousin, her DH and DS. He is 9 months old and so adorable - always smiling and waving. We had such a lovely day and it has made me even more excited about ours :) She couldn't believe how big my bump is as she didn't get hers for ages. Ooh, and I pushed the pram :)

Also did a bit of shopping and bought another three balls of wool. I seem to be hoarding the stuff, I wonder if this is a pregnancy symptom? I tried on a grey dress in mothercare which was lovely. I think I will end up buying it online as I didn't today.

Nice to see so many lovely pics on fb, I will try and do a bump picture and put it on there. Will definitely be making all my posts on here but fb is great for the piccies. I love this thread too much to stop and I don't think I would like to discuss my bodily function on fb. Don't mind on here though :)

Congrats on the happy scans ethel and sheild and welcome twinkle.

tiddley So sorry to hear about your SIL, so sad. I hope they can have some success with it in future.

dame and manda I am interested to hear the cleaner talk. I would quite like to get one but I have the 'northern working class guilt' too. I don't know if I would feel weird watching someone clean up the mess I had made. I think I would find myself wanting to clean up for the cleaner!

Sorry to anyone I have missed, I'm so exhausted after walking around town all day.

GummiberryJuice · 10/09/2012 19:28

Hermione do you mid/ long hair, bun ring are only £1 and so simple to put in and very stylish, and a number of ways to wear it

Sheldon I have vomiting with my migraines but have had some visual disturbances lately, they completely wipe me out these days,

Pm me someone

mandasand · 10/09/2012 19:30

Thanks, sundae will do the same! I want to get two badges for twins! Yay!

Cor Hermione that's impressive! Can you get a mate to help with hair? Up dos are always nice with evening dresses. Oh, and I saw some smartish dresses in Mamas and Papas. Not sure if they are quite as posh as it sounds you need, but worth a look? And I'm sure you might find something here: www.seraphine.com/maternity-clothes/designer-maternity-dresses.html. I think this one is lovely www.seraphine.com/short-colour-block-silk-dress.html but have absolutely no posh dos in my calendar! (Bit pricey tho?!) I have my eye on this www.seraphine.com/knot-front-cap-sleeved-dress-navy.html which is more affordable (praps what you'd pay for rental?) and you could glam up with a bit of jewellery and wear it again / sell it on eBay?

Boo to your DH, zoey but glad you are home at last! Put your feet up, if you can.

Sheldon I love pram pushing! Always do it for my friends (when they let me!) Where I was grew up it was quite usual to have a lot of v.v. young mums but when I used to take my baby brother out in the pram (I was 13 when he was born) I used to get such filthy looks!

Three, no worries - it's been such fun getting the FB group together, altho I'm terrified I've missed adding someone - the requests came in thick and fast. So if anyone is awaiting reply or a group invitation message me asap and I'll rectify!

It's been a nice distraction today as I've had a pants time with work. I won't bore you all with the details, but work have failed to replace my crappy non-functional work printer for, oh, nigh on a year (and it took them about four months to supply it in the first place!) Reason is because I am unable to bring it in, on public transport, for them to look at first. (Why they won't courier it back to themselves I don't know, but that's university-think for you.) Director of the School (i.e. Faculty) 2 months ago said, yes, this is ridiculous and I'll sort it instantly. So I sent him details of what I needed and have enquired politely ever couple of weeks since. Nothing has happened! And now my home printer, which is a good laser one but is on its very last legs, has totally gone bonkers. I spent two hours trying to get my book to print today, and failed. (Nevermind the fact that I've been paying for own paper and ink since I've been in post because I can't claim for my own machine, grr!) So I got into a bit of a (totally hormonal!) tizz. Phoned DH and cried my eyes out. Threw a stapler at (my) printer (like that's going to help!) and went shopping ?

? after which my mood has improved considerably! Got a cheerful polka dot top (only £8 so got two in different sizes!) from Matalan. Thanks to whoever shared that tip! In TKMaxx I picked up a beautiful and very 'me' silk top - baggy, but draped and tucked and perfect for those days when you'd just rather not have bump so prominently on display - some Danish label I've never heard of. And also a wheely briefcase. Not the black boardroom style, but red and quilted and quite smart. And when the drag-handle folds down you can pick it up by regular 'handbag' handles which make it look like a proper (if big) bag. This is a purchase on DH's instruction as I was properly exhausted after coming back from London last week with rucksack full of laptop, papers, books, and another bag full of videos and DVDs from my boss.

So I'm quite chirpy now. And I'm sticking two fingers up at my book deadline. Seems increasingly ridiculous that I'm working flat out to get book in so my Department can enter the book into a national (sort of) research competition, so that it can keep it's high status and get awarded more money ? when they really can't get themselves together to provide basic facilities which I need to edit / prepare the book properly for press! (I don't have an office so I'm not costing them a bean on campus?) Sorry, I did say I wouldn't go on ? ! I'll stop now Smile

mandasand · 10/09/2012 19:32

Gummi you want a PM re FB?

GummiberryJuice · 10/09/2012 19:36

Yeap please I was about to pm you

tiddleypompom · 10/09/2012 19:52

Sorry a really quick me me me post but update from 16 week appt:

Listened to heartbeat - 140bpm (boy predicted), nuchal results 1:71000 (pretty good odds), haven't got syphilis, low blood pressure as always. Midwife super & centre couldn't have been more different to Birmingham women's.

Thanks for all loveliness re: SIL. So very appreciated

Must go but will catch up properly soon. Steam mop eh....

backwardpossom · 10/09/2012 19:57

I'm so glad you don't have syphilis, tiddley Wink

OodHousekeeping · 10/09/2012 20:10
Grin
sundaesundae · 10/09/2012 20:56

grey dress this dress? I am wearing it now, is fab!!!!

zoeymlucas · 10/09/2012 20:59

I don't have syphilis either tiddley or mrsa so a good day all round!! Is the heart beat faster or slower with a boy then? I am only 13+5 so haven't heard it yet (apart from at scan). But can't wait to find out what this one is- 2 weeks 2 days till sexing scan :)

I did hear women in labour at hospital which was rather scary ESP with the final cow grunting noise of pushing, suddenly all very real!!!!!

Well operation Wednesday is now going to be under spinal and sedation using a new method cos of hyper mobility but if don't work will move to a general- I will not be amused if I end up having both again! There was some confusion when I got there with one doctr thinking it was today and bringing me a gown to put on, I nearly wet my pants until the midwife stepped in!!!!!!!!

zoeymlucas · 10/09/2012 20:59

I don't have syphilis either tiddley or mrsa so a good day all round!! Is the heart beat faster or slower with a boy then? I am only 13+5 so haven't heard it yet (apart from at scan). But can't wait to find out what this one is- 2 weeks 2 days till sexing scan :)

I did hear women in labour at hospital which was rather scary ESP with the final cow grunting noise of pushing, suddenly all very real!!!!!

Well operation Wednesday is now going to be under spinal and sedation using a new method cos of hyper mobility but if don't work will move to a general- I will not be amused if I end up having both again! There was some confusion when I got there with one doctr thinking it was today and bringing me a gown to put on, I nearly wet my pants until the midwife stepped in!!!!!!!!

zoeymlucas · 10/09/2012 21:00

Blinking iPad

HermioneBoo · 10/09/2012 21:05

LOL@backward, yes good to know you don't have syphilis tiddley :) glad your MW is a good one, I haven't met mine yet - she was on holiday when I went for booking in appt.

Oooo tramp in dresses I'm usually a size 10 as I have a small waist but usually a size 12 in everything else. I'm 5ft6, my budget is closer to £50. I have a halterneck maxi dress like this one www.ebay.co.uk/itm/Monsoon-Dress-Size-18-uk-Maxi-Dress-Halter-Neck-Style-Green-Navy-Cotton-Silk-/200817846254?pt=UK_Women_s_Dresses&hash=item2ec1ad27ee#ht_1086wt_922
But the more I look at it the less sure I am that it's black tie enough. I'm also thinking it'll be November so I might be rather cold!

Thanks for the links manda I will take a look when I've finished this post, knowing me I'd take a look and lose this post! Argh if only you worked at the same uni as me, I'd have you sorted in a jiffy! Printer problems are so frustrating and most of the time easily fixed by IT, but I admit they often get pushed to the bottom of the pile because printers are so unreliable and irritating. Plus we usually get the brunt of academic's frustration with their printer - obv not suggesting for a second that you would do such a thing! I hope your Faculty get you a printer soon.

Gummi yes, that's a good idea, I made my own bun ring and it's perfect for when my hair isn't behaving itself.

JoJo I'm nodding to the pregnancy cleavage, I am a 32E so far so might be knocking myself out by the time I get to 22 weeks! Mind you DH's boss says that my body shape won't change until 9 months, obv he knows all about it, he hasn't seen me for a long while and has no children and basically clueless about women in general. sigh

theTramp · 10/09/2012 21:15

Tiddly - great news.

Zoey - that sounds Bearable, the op details not the grunting woman in labour.

Mand - your purchases sound marvellous and your printer nightmare sounds ridiculously fixable and up to the Uni department to sort. You'd be frustrated whether you were hormonal or not.

Hermione - I'll link to some ideas later but black maxi jersey dresses are fab for black tie. They're not too pricey, can be worn elsewhere after and glam up perfectly with a good necklace, a good bracelet or two and a evening clutch. They also hide fact that you're wearing flats if heels are too much. Because the jersey stretches it'll fit with bump whatever the size and you can get v neck or sleeved versions if you're worried about maternity bra being on show.

Is Oliver have one in the sale, which looks like it would need a strapless bra but could be worn with a shrug and there's plenty in the department store summer sell offs - just buy a size larger than normal and let the fabric do the rest.

If you're not a fan o Maxis then there are some cute LBD type dresses but I think it'll be more important to buy a maternity designed dress if going short. That said - LBDs are perfect for flanking up or dressing down, so you could see it as a maternity wardrobe purchase and then splash out on a serious statement necklace. There's some good ones in Phase 8 and coast of all places.

HermioneBoo · 10/09/2012 21:17

manda I love the dresses on that website! Omg I'm going to have to get some overtime in so I can get me one of those pretty dresses!

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