Feb 2013 - early days - part 2!

[LittleMissSnowShine]

Couldnt fund a second part to our thread! Has anyone else started part 2 somewhere else???

Anyway...

Also sleeping badly!!

Yes, I will get to work on organising our list according to due date and post later!

Re fifty shades, queen, u wont hav to do mych skipping to find the rude bits, they're shagging and spanking on every other page!

I've lost my appetite nooooo!!

Queen tell me about it! We've only dtd twice in the last two weeks as I'm too nervous :/ dp has assured me baby will be fine but I can't relax properly

So talking on mn and fb is going to mean I get nothing done today!

Also not a massive fan of 1st trimester sexy times - last time it was mostly cos I was so sick I didn't want anyone near me ha ha but the cramping afterwards made me a bit nervous too. I know it's normal but I was able to feel a lot more relaxed about it once I was past 12 weeks and also I didn't think the cramping was as bad later on either. It's our wedding anniversary this week tho so might consider it tomorrow night

Im not doing it for the forseeable!

The thing I was most worried about was DH going too 'deep' and upsetting something up there this couldn't happen could it?

pinkie I've lost my appetite too the last couple of days, have to force myself to have dinner most evenings and even then I can't eat much

Morning everyone.

Just friend requested you Bean I'm SB

Hello all, I have a 28feb/1Mar bfp which I got last night, so can I tentatively join? Congrats to all, and so sorry to hear about the mc, and your rabbit something - that's v sad :( x

Queenof the - I had the exact same worry last night! No, I don't think it could but I still worried irrationally all the way through!

Hi everyone, I am so behind with everyone's news, trying to catch up now. My bloating has gone (hurray!) and yesterday I was absolutely starving, but today I feel a bit queasy (boo!)

I'm also a bit apprehensive about doing the deed for exactly the same reason as Queen, I think I might be able to relax a bit more once I have seen the midwife. (Don't have an appointment yet, next week is when I can call the GP surgery to make one for me, so no idea when it will be!)
Lovely to hear that some of you have had scans - it's so exciting :)

this waiting for my scan appt lark is killing!!!

I've not got my doctors appointment until 2 July so god knows when I'll see my mw and get a scan date. Am I right in thinking you need to see your GP, she arranges your mw and then you mw sorts scan date?

Hi zany, I think it varies wildly. At my GPs, you don't need to see a doctor, you go straight to the midwife, but they won't make the appointment until you are 7 weeks (no idea how long the wait is after that, as this is my first time!)

I had a bleed after 'doing the deed' totally freaked out, but had a early scan and all was ok. But as you can imagine my poor DH is getting no action now! Bless him! I've told him once we reach 12 weeks I may start considering it again, hopefully I will stop feeling so bloody sick by then!!

Hi zany. Ask your surgery. They will let you know the set up in yourarea. For me, I had to see gp 1st and he referred me to the midwife attached to our surgery. Others up thread have had to contact their hospital to arrange mw appts.

MrsRT gosh, that must have been scary. Glad all is well now thank goodness. I will definitely be abstaining for the foreseeable!

I heard it can cause bleeding as the blood supply to your "undercarriage" area is so high.

Thats why I dont bother, it all feels a bit sensitive down there right now! Last think I want is any winky action. Mr P can stay away!

zany I have to do the same as flyingsubmarine - wait til im 7/8 weeks then book in with a midwife. Did you say the appointment was because you were pg? Last time the first time I met my midwife she phoned up for my scan (I was 9 weeks though before I could get in so I think she wanted to book it pretty quickly) and then gave me my green notes to complete and she scheduled my "booking" appointment where we would go through my completed form, discuss ante natal testing and take bloods.

I didn't enjoy my pg last time due to worry so this time I'm thinking positive.

Not much action here either, zzz.

I don't think I will join the facebook group yet if thats ok - I know secret groups are secret but i'm still nervous of being outed.

Ooo, I have just seen a 'due in march' thread pop up on the antenatal boards! That made me feel like we are moving along! We're no longer the most newly pregnant!

Yeah I mentioned I was pregnant, might ring the GP just to check their procedures. It's 9 years since I was pregnant so I've forgotten how things are done.

I'm still having problems with my DS (11) after being told my news. He is very tearful, doesn't want a baby in the family, wants me to get back with his Dad (we split 6 years ago) and is worried we won't do anything together once bump is here. Fallen out with DP too. :-(

Bring on the weekend

Morning everyone!

I'm feeling super grumpy today, lots of worry and negatives in my head but maybe that's just the weather. I'm going to a bumps, babies and breastfeeding event today so at least I can have a chat with a mw about my worries.

On the bright side, my hayfever has calmed down a bit since it's been raining. GP gave me a nose spray and eye drops, both safe for use during pg/bf. The system to get a mw appointment has just been changed here. Need to fill in a form which they didn't have a copy of for me which gets sent to the hospital, then mw will make contact to arrange a home visit for booking in.

Best add myself to the ever growing list! Can't cut and paste tho as I'm on me phone!!
Sazzababs, Edinburgh, pg with DC#1, Due 8th Feb ish...

Another Scot on the list now Carries :) Not on very much, but I'll try and be a bit better with keeping up with the threads :D

Can other people see photos we put on the facebook group??? A friend just liked a photo!! I cant see how they saw it though but I think I have a security breach.

NO phew is you Zany Wany!! Youve got the same name as one of my friends. Thats a relief!

Just sent a friend request Bean! Am ML.

Have also sent a friend request. I have a boys first name but I'm not an imposter I swear! JC :)