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Jue in June -Waters breaking everywhere and not a drop of Gaviscon to drink...

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NurseSunshine · 12/06/2011 22:17

Here's another :)

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milliemuffin · 28/06/2011 07:23

Best of luck PP! Look forward to hearing your news later!

Anyone else likely to pop soon? Still nothing happening here :(

neenewps · 28/06/2011 08:08

Good luck Pp

Nothing happening here either Millie +6 now. This baby will be crawling by the time it's out!!! Still have the cramps off & on. Didn't go out yesterday as the weather was dreadful but today it's lovely (still cold) so I'm going to try walking for an hour and then like barbie bouncing like a loon on the ball.

Really need to drag myself out of feeling sorry for myself and take onboard what my DH has said that the due date is an arbitrary date. That said it's difficult not to focus on the EDD. Another girl from my NCT who was due after me had her baby yesterday. Really pleased for her but at the same time it made me feel Sad

Still nothing from nurse & Jasmine ?

takethatlady · 28/06/2011 08:45

Good luck pp!

The due date isn't entirely arbitrary though neenewps - and it's so hard not to feel disappointed when it comes and goes because you've been focusing on it for so many months! I have always tried to keep my birthday in my head as a possible due date (4th July) but I've clearly been kidding myself because I felt mighty pissed off yesterday to have gone a day over my actual due date. And also, even though you know it probably won't happen on the due date, there's a good chance it'll happen before, and once you go past it if you don't have any signs then you start to think 'when the bloody hell' is it going to happen, and having to face the prospect of more interventions. I am totally projecting my own fed-up-ness on your DH here Grin

No signs here at all. Feel 100% normal. Would forget there was a baby in there if I didn't look down or feel her feet rummaging around in my ribs ... the long walk and the hour bouncing on the birthing ball clearly didn't help her down!

Good luck again pp! Worried about nurse and jasmine now. ... Sure they're just snuggled up :)

curiouselle · 28/06/2011 09:11

Good morning all! Brew

Firstly good luck pp I am so excited for you and slightly Envy if I am honest Blush! Enjoy splashing in the pool!

citizen it was me asking about the active/rest thing and your advice sounds spot on - now you just need to tell me how to mentally relax and I will be sorted Wink

takethat neenewps I wish I had never been told my EDD am now 41 weeks and going crazy! It really really doesn't help that for the last 2 months everyone I know has looked at me and said 'wow that is all baby, I bet you are early!' Normally I wouldn't listen to people but seriously EVERYONE said it and had me convinced, needless to say I want to shoot them all now Grinfeel like you do takethat on the normal front, it's the least pregnant I have ever felt - so weird!

Waddling off to do dishes, to music, dance that baby out!

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ConfessionsOfAnAchingFanjo · 28/06/2011 10:04

Ahhhhhh! how dare MN lose my fecking post!!!!!

GRRRRR

Anyway apart from my stupidly overly sensitive, not doing anything cervix, Best of luck PP. Really happy that you don't have to worry about induction now. Enjoy new baby snuggles.

milliemuffin · 28/06/2011 10:04

Supersunny good news for you - you're the only one with a MW appt today. I just had a call from the hospital to say my MW was at a home birth all night so she's coming to see me 2mrw instead. My god they have no idea how much we look forward to them visits. I don't want a sweep but I do want to know if anything at all is happening. If nothing fair enough, I know that can change quickly but if something is happening I'd really like to know! My friends are trying to keep me from going insane by inviting me out to the cinema, making plans with the kids etc but all I wanna say is No cos I'll have baby by then WON'T I!!!!!

evs34 · 28/06/2011 10:43

Hi Ladies. I have followed the thread and other than early on never really got around to posting. Keen to follow a postnatal thread though so was wondering if those of you that have had your gorgeous bundles have started one? there is a june 11 thread in the postnatal bit but only a cpl people on it. My DS now 12 days old, has already gained 600g - feeding like a beast! good luck to those still waiting - i was 12 days late and it was hell but worth it in the end! thanks xx

curiouselle · 28/06/2011 10:49

Hi evs34 we are all trying to stick together as a group so those with and without little ones yet are chatting away together - fat feet and fat boobs all together! Please join us :)

Just for my own curiosity (as 7 days overdue) were you induced or did you go into labour naturally?

KaraStarbuckThrace · 28/06/2011 10:50

Quick one from me, to wish PP good luck!
DD has been awake and feeding since 5am and just dozing in short intervals. She has been okay to put down for short spells so have been able to grab a quick shower, get self, ds and dd dressed, hang washing out, take ds to nursery and shop! Going back out shortly so praying she will finally sleep then!

Am thinking of introducing a dummy though.

evs34 · 28/06/2011 12:01

Curiouselle - I was booked for induction on the thursday afternoon - day 12 but went into labour on the wednesday evening. contraction started about 6, waters broke at 9 and babe born 4.30am on the thursday morning. was getting desperate so would have been glad to be induced if it hadn't happened by itself. the waiting is just horrid isn't it? it consumes your every thought.

At least it is a bit cooler today - better for bumps and babes! - really struggled keeping him cool yesterday - we were one big sticky mess by the end of the day!

curiouselle · 28/06/2011 12:16

Thank You evs34 am trying to keep anxieties down, and that helps! I can imagine it is harder in the heat with a baby than a bump, fat feet at least don't cry!

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milliemuffin · 28/06/2011 14:04

Sorry to hear you're in pain mummyofprawn, hope you get some answers soon. I had alot of pain last night but I could tell mine was trapped wind so I had a windeze tablet, walked up the stairs and ... the pain soon went :)

KaraStarbuckThrace · 28/06/2011 15:15

Mummyofprawn, don't want to get your hopes up but that does sound a lot like the pain I was having a couple of days before DD was born. Hope the delivery suite can give you some reassurance and answers though.

Misshoohaa - I read your birth story, you are amazing! Am Sad and Angry that yet again a mum has been left alone and in pain because she 'wasn't in labour'. I used the G&A and had codeine before I was in established labour and my MWs were happy for me to do so, they could see that in the hours before DD was born (when my cervix was still only 2cm dilated!) that I was in a lot of pain.

Am glad it is cooler today, I was a pool of sweat and DS didn't have a good night's sleep. DD on the other hand was fab! I just put her in a babygro, and just draped a muslin over her last night plus we had fan on and windows open in our bedroom. DS just had duvet cover and a vest and nappy. Trouble with bour house is that the upstairs gets very hot as we have south west and south east facing windows!

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misshoohaa · 28/06/2011 15:57

Thanks for all your positive comments about my birth story. Writing it up took some motivation (id much rather be staring at or cuddle Xav!) but so glad I did it.

Go prawn hoping you are well on your way soon and everything goes well.

kara we introduced a dummy on the second night we were back from the hospital.... I think I had had half an hour sleep in two days and were in a vicious circle of nursing to sleep, putting the baby in his cot, him waking up screaming two minutes later, nursing etc etc. He is obsessed with his hands and spends most of his time trying to get them in his mouth! A dummy has really helped settle him and now he goes off by himself for naps (albeit we do have to stick the dummy back in a few times) but once he is asleep it falls out and he's fine. Im conscious i don't want it to become an issue but whilst sucking is the only self soothing technique he has I'm happy to oblige with a dummy rather than my finger! Once he has the dexterity to get his thumb in his mouth then we'll hopefully be able to phase it out.
Additionally the baby whisperer book has given me it's approval, so that helps!

takethatlady · 28/06/2011 16:04

mummyofprawn I hope all goes well at the delivery unit. I'm sure it won't be pre-eclampsia if all your checks have been negative. Hopefully it's the start of things for you :)

Hopefully pp is offline because she's having her baby. Yippee! (and Envy)

millie I feel your pain - I know how it feels to lose your mw appointments this late on and even if you know that in many ways it doesn't matter (as for me) it's still frustrating and anxiety-inducing. Thanks supersunny, I went to a clinic yesterday - they rang over the weekend to say I could come in if I hadn't had the baby. When I got there nobody had passed the message on so they were a bit narked but the mw saw me anyway. She seemed to be of the opinion that sweeps were completely pointless and just told me to have a lot of sex. Baby still only 1/5 engaged and has changed position but is still awkwardly positioned. More bouncing and more eating for me too, I'm afraid!

Feeling much more positive now I'm not melting all over the place. Mad thunder storms here today - for about two hours there was thunder, and then a couple of flashes of lightning, without any rain! Then it threw it down.

Also just gave myself an intensive pedicure - soaked feet, exfoliated, moisturised, rubbed with pumice stone, rubbed with buffing stick thingy, smoothed with foot file, soaked again, exfoliated and moisturised again. Then cut, filed and painted toes. It took a hell of a long time as bending is pretty damn painful, but I figured all the leaning forward and squishing of baby might force her down :) And now I have nice purple toenails :)

NurseSunshine · 28/06/2011 16:56

Am afraid i havent read the last zillion pages since i was on but just dropping in to say i am finally home. Jasmine Catriona was born on saturday 25.6.2011 at 7.37pm by forceps after an official 17 hours and 10 minutes of labour. She is 10 lbs 5 oz and was back to back, despite having been in the perfect position for the last 3 months!
Will write more another time, am still in shock really!

Hope everyone's well xxxx

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ConfessionsOfAnAchingFanjo · 28/06/2011 17:23

Good to hear from you Nurse. Well done getting such big girl out with only forceps. Congratulations Grin

Well the MW had a rummage in my fanjo, but the babies head was in the way of my cervix so she couldn't do a sweep! At least LO is right down now and DH has had the official word that I need sex Grin(now lets see if he can get over his OCD for a night...), plus lots and lots of walking/moving about for me too.

Hope all is well with you MummyOP. I've been getting a bit of upper leg pain as LO settles down into my pelvis, but nothing like what you're describing. Fingers crossed it's just baby getting nice and comfy/low rather than anything nasty.

HalleLouja · 28/06/2011 18:05

Congrats nurse x

PerpetualProvocateur · 28/06/2011 18:26

Just a quick one from me to announce that William Nicholas was born today at home in the birth pool at 2:17 pm, weighing 8 lbs 14 ounces.

We're besotted with our little man. Will catch up and post details when I get the chance!

milliemuffin · 28/06/2011 18:38

PP Huge congratulations on the arrival of your baby boy and congratulations on your home water birth aswell. Hope you're ok, look forward to hearing about the birth xx