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Due August 2011, third and final trimester here we come!!!!

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KLou111 · 12/05/2011 12:22

Oooooo ladies, an exciting time for us all either already here or speedily arriving.
Can't believe how quick it's all going.

Bubbas will be here in no time!!!! Grin

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Hersetta · 01/06/2011 14:28

Hi all and greetings from the Maldives!

It's 6.20 in the evening here and just making use of the free internet to order a tesco delivery to arrive after we get home on Saturday night.

Hope everyone is well - will catch up properly next week but we're all having a fantastic time - DD is loving it and for the most part being very good.

Onlu update on my part is now i am 31+4 and DS got hiccups last night for the first time which was very cute. Am also suffering from terrible acid stomache and am eating my whole supply of fruit rennie. Had the same with DD so it's par for the course - the old wives tale is that it means baby has lots of hair!

Also got my issue resolved with my former employers who got rid of me a few weeks ago. They had to increase the compensation they offered me and pay my entire entitlement to SMP so ended up getting a 21k increase in what they originally offered so am well happy - don't think they are as i wasn't as cheap to get rid of as they had thought!!

Firawla · 01/06/2011 15:09

hope you are having a good holiday hersetta, lucky you in the maldives! sounds lovely, and great news about getting your pay thing resolved with your employees, that must be a relief

KTisPG · 01/06/2011 15:17

Just back from 28 week MW appointment and got my GTT results as well, even though they only did it yesterday! GTT normal so the Love Hearts addiction can continue unabated :o She has also referred me to the consultant midwives to plan my homebirth and seems to have really come round to the idea which is great. I'm a bit Hmm though because last time she saw me (4 weeks ago) she told me the baby was big and this time she said she thinks it will be smaller than my other two. I'll go with the latter I think

aStarInStrangeways · 01/06/2011 15:18

Ha ha, well done Hersetta - I love it when bastards get their comeuppance Grin

lilyraesmommy · 01/06/2011 16:03

hi guys i need a little advice as a bit worried i went today for my gtt so awaiting results but because alot of people are saying i am massive for 28+1 i asked the midwife to measure me for peace of mind so she was nice enough to do it and it showed i am measuring at 33 which is 3cm over top line she said not to worry and to have another measurement in 3 weeks with my own midwife and see how we go, she felt baby and said there isnt excessive water so im now thinking my gtt is gonna come back positive and im having a huge baby what does everyone think i could do with other point of views on this thanks guys x

WinterLover · 01/06/2011 16:08

I was told by my MW that the measure they do isnt always accurate depending on where the baby is positioned and the MW who does it.

My measurement is apparently spot on for my dates, however growth scan put me a 1w4d ahead of what I am now, yet there isnt more water around baby than normal.

Try not to worry, when will you get your results?

lilyraesmommy · 01/06/2011 16:55

i think they ring you within 3 days thanks for your advice

KLou111 · 01/06/2011 18:24

Totally confused about the whole measuring thing TBH. I was 28+6 at my last appointment and measuring 25cm, so think I am quite small but MW didn't seem too concerned Hmm
30 weeks tomorrow hurrah Grin

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WinterLover · 01/06/2011 18:33

KLou mine said 'yeah about 27cm that will do' so I probably didnt measure that! She did say I have a neat bump though which was nice :)

lilyraesmommy · 01/06/2011 18:53

awwww im 33 so i must be carrying an elephant compared to all you guys lol

WinterLover · 01/06/2011 19:02

Any of you guys know anything I can do to turn or dam well move baby? Mini me is head down in the mornings but by dinner/mid afternoon turns breech which is bloody painful. Basically as soon as I start moving around it settles breech, its head is about 2 inches to my left of my belly button and it hurts :(

Ive tried cold stuff any things that gets it moving but it only makes baby kick not move. Tried the gym ball tonight but thats not made a dam bit of difference...

KLou111 · 01/06/2011 19:07

How do you know which way around it is Winter I've been trying to work out if bubba has moved from breech to head down. Been feeling movement rather than a lot of kicking, but have no clue which way round he/she is!
It's nice when they say a neat bump isn't it? Apparently mine is too lol!

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WinterLover · 01/06/2011 19:16

MW could feel the head right where I get the pain, and kicks are usually on my upper right side, and its all squidgy low down. Was in that position when I had my scan yesterday too. Thats the only explaination they could come up with why I get this pain as if somethings trying to escape in one spot. Then again they could be wrong knowing my MWs Grin

Yeah it is nice, i tend to repeat it to anyone who says 'oh your getting big' - 'well my MW says im right size for my dates and I have a neat bump'

MrsVidic · 01/06/2011 19:19

I really wouldn't worry about measurements, they are always bollocks in my experience. With dd1 I measured small about 1-2 weeks under constantly and was told I'd have a 7 pounder- at my mw appointment at 41 weeks (she was 8.4)

This time I'm measuring the same but the baby feels far bigger

Firawla · 01/06/2011 20:02

lilyrae i think all you can do is wait and see your gtt result, then if you do have diabetes they will give you growth scans but otherwise try not to worry. its not totally accurate how they measure and even the growth scans have some room for error aswel so you never know there may be some weird reason why bump is looking big, but your baby will still be an okay size and not hugeeeee or anything? even if they are on the bigger side it should be fine unless they are going to be extremely big which im sure the hosp would pick up on?

i think mine is pretty big, but bump measured as being on target when the midwife did it, growth scan showed he's up near the top percentiles though and you can kind of see its a big baby by looking at the size of bump so the measurement is not everything i dont think.
mine is starting to feel quite heavy now and getting that downwards pressure feeling already, which i think maybe cos he is on the bigger side? i dont remember having much of that with ds1 but ds2 i had it badly, could hardly walk around at the end and he was big too

winter i hope you get your baby to cooperate and turn round, i have heard people saying on all fours scrubbing the floor kind of positions can help? i think the spinning babies website should have info on it. i was supposed to be looking to see what i can do about mine being back to back last time he was checked, but i have been lazy and not done anything about it so far

update from us, i think we have found a place to live, finally!!! i have put a holding deposit on it today so hopefully works out. so if we are able to move then will be lovely to finally be able to sort out my baby stuff, to make things feel more real and be a bit prepared, as its not really that long to go now, so definitely time to start getting sorted. and i am happy because this place is not tooo far from where we are now, it's a little bit far but walkable. i was thinking we would have to end up moving to a totally different area, but much rather stay within distance of people i know here, family, childrens centre etc.. but i am a bit anxious worrying that something is gonna go wrong with it b4 we get to move in, but hopefully it wont!

WinterLover · 01/06/2011 20:38

Thanks Il have a look at the spinning website, its as if s/he's lazy and likes to chill out when im walking or being active and only behaves when im laid down.

Yay thats excellent news about the house, fingers crossed for you :)

KTisPG · 02/06/2011 08:47

Great news about the house Firwala

I read somewhere (can't remember where now) that even on growth scans the margin of error is 1lb either way Shock

Annie456 · 02/06/2011 10:25

Thanks for all the sleeping advice ladies. Going to get a crib this weekend with blankets and will move on to a grobag after a month or so. This is my big shopping weekend so hoping to feel much better about everything once the crib is up and I have everything I need if Thomas / Rose makes an early appearance!!

Once the sleeping things have been purchased I'll be moving on to fretting about feeding equipment / breast pads and the like.....ahhh getting there slowly!

WinterLover · 02/06/2011 11:18

Annie im going shopping with mum and both my grandmas in 3 weeks, ive been told not to buy anything else as they are all wanting to get me bits Grin thing is im so grateful about it, but fretting ive not got things sorted yet!!

I think once babys room is finished and everything is stored in there il calm down a bit.

JenniL1977 · 02/06/2011 13:45

Hello ladies,

Haven't been on for ages, but I've been keeping up :) we've been away for a week to Cornwall (my god, it is sooooooo far away from Yorkshire!) with my SIL and her DP and their bairn who's 2 and an utter Thomas the Tank Engine addict. If I ever hear that theme tune again, I may actually go truly barmy. But he was good value for the week!

Well done Hersetta on your payout :)
Firawla great news on the house; hope things start to settle down for you now.

News here: my measurements are fine (27cm on 29wk bump, midwife says because I'm so slim usually that she's v happy with that), not really getting kicked any more, it's all movement as she turns over and round and does push-ups against my spine!
We picked up a buggy (Britax Vigour 4+) on ebay for £100! Whoop! Will borrow SIL's lie-flat Britax car seat for a few months while we need it, and we're done. Only mattress for the cot left now - and all the stuff I need. And a birthing pool. So actually, I'm not organised at all, am I?!
Have spent the last three mornings in various parts of the hospitals in Leeds - my staff sent me to A&E on Tuesday morning as I'd complained to one of them that my vision was funny and blurred in my left eye; they'd consulted Dr Google and the large medical section in my bookshop and decided I had pre-eclampsia () although I told them it absolutely wasn't, my blood pressure was fine and I had no other symptoms they still made me go... long story short, the (very young and very fit) ophthalmologist I saw this morning has diagnosed me with "sudden-onset pregnancy-related chorioretinopathy" - basically all the extra fluid we carry when we're pregnant has deposited itself behind my left eye and is pushing my retina forward. Nothing they can do and should go away by the time the baby is a couple of months old. But at least it's not the brain tumour I was starting to convince myself I had!
However excitement reigned when I was sent up to the maternity unit from A&E just to be checked over to be on the safe side - midwife I was talking to picked up the phone, expecting it to be reception telling her my notes were there for her, and I heard her say, "Ok... right... send your DH upstairs with the little ones, let me talk to your mum... so she's crowning? Ok, here's what you need to do..." and talked this woman's mum through her having the baby at home!!! She was amazing and calm and it was funny yet really awe inspiring; I could hear this lady's mum shouting down the phone, "Oooh, I can see an eye... now two eyes, and a nose... and a chin..... Oooooh, it's a boy!!". First-timers, don't fret - once she put the phone down she told me that it almost never happens with your first one; but that she has to do two or three of those phone calls a week?! Amazing.
I've got extra leucocytes in my urine though, so they've sent it off to be tested (my bloods a couple of weeks ago said the same as well) so I'm fighting some sort of infection - they think it's probably just the raging thrush I've had for the last 6 weeks, but are testing just to be sure.

Ok, lucnh time over, need to get back to work... will catch up properly later as I'm sure I've missed saying well done or congratulations to many people on here for something. Any news from wishwales at all, Morgan's still hanging on in there?

Oh, and, we've got the name. She will be called Elise. :)

aStarInStrangeways · 02/06/2011 14:02

Oh that has made me go a bit tingly Jenni, how amazing. My cousin-in-law was the other end of one of those phone calls; her husband delivered their little girl while being talked through by emergency staff. And she was their first, so it can happen! Wink

Was it nice to get a look at the maternity unit while you were there? I went in for monitoring a couple of weeks ago and found it quite good to see the rooms and the general environment (very calm and clean, lovely mws). Although DH and I did both have an 'oh fuck, we're really having another baby' reaction as well Grin

I believe wishwales' Morgan is still on the inside Grin Wishwales made it home a little while ago too so is relaxing in her own place, which is great.

Firawla that is brilliant news, so pleased for you :) Fingers crossed it all goes through fine. When will you know for sure?

RugbyWidow7 · 02/06/2011 14:13

I was measured again at 28+2 this week and came up at 29 - which I was told was fine.

Ordered the moses basket and nursing chair now too, so just need to take the plunge on the buggy!

Great to hear how you're all getting on after a few days offline. Great news firawla

Firawla · 02/06/2011 14:32

jenniL wow that must have been quite amazing hearing the midwife do that call! that has happened to a couple of my friends with their 3rd babies, husband's ended up having to deliver at home! i think that would freak me out if it happened to me though!!

hope your eye thing is okay, can you still see properly or is your vision going to be like blurry until your baby is born!?

star we are sorting out the referencing etc now, so hopefully if thats all ok then it will be fully confirmed, should be moving in a couple of weeks if it goes ok!

good to hear update of wishwales, must be nice for her to be at home again now after so long! her baby is doing great staying in there all this time!

annie and winter that sounds fun doing your big shops for the babies :D

my mil keeps trying to persuade us to buy a new different buggy, but i think the one we have is fine, lucky we dont need much for the baby really because we will have to buy some furniture now for moving, as we are getting the place unfurnished. we have a lot of stuff already but need to get a new bed etc, so i think we should get a kingsize one as our bed normally gets invaded by toddlers so with 3 of them we will need as much room as possible i think. will be quite excited if we get a kingsize, not had one before Grin

Anu3 · 02/06/2011 14:33

Hello ladies!

I have a couple of questions for you (yes again!)

1)How do i wash new baby clothes? Do i need to use a disinfectant (dettol / any other) and then also wash it using some baby / other detergent?

  1. I want to buy an electric breast pump - Any recommendations (Ive been told Modela Swing is a good one to get) and also what else do i need to buy with the pump.

Thanks!

Firawla · 02/06/2011 14:35

I've never used dettol on mine just whacked it in the washing machine with fairy non bio?