Can I ask you all to keep my neighbour in your thoughts please

[memoo]

Her 18 month old DD drowned in the bath yesterday after she left her alone for a few moments. God knows how that poor woman is every going to pick herself up from this. Can't begin to imagine her pain

OMG! OMG! OMG!

That poor poor woman and the poor poor child.
This is my worst nightmare.

praying for her and all the family.

xx

memoo , how are you doing ? I know how hard it is .

Oh nno

so heartnreaking for them.

Oh that poor, poor woman and her family. My deepest sympathies go out to her.

that's dreadful. just tragic
crying for her.

I'm ok, thanks for asking, taking things day by day at the moment. xx

It is the only way , have you seen her at all ? Or do you not know her well enough ?

This is so sad I have tears in my eyes. I will be thinking of her and her family.

gosh what a awful thing to happen my thoughts are with you and your neighbour x

How very, very sad especially as it was preventable. I hope the mother gets plenty of love and support for herself as she will no doubt blame herself every second of every day to come

I don't feel like I know her well enough to go round. We have only ever had brief chats in the street, mostly about our babies

I don't think she is at home anyway.

God I don't even know wether to send a card or flowers, it seems so trite

Oh dear God, that's awful That poor, poor family.

Do send her a card, even if it is just saying how you loved those red curls. It's a little thing that keeps people functioning and that people are kind.

Been wondering how you've been Meemoo, was on another thread of yours. Be kind to yourself. This must be a huge shock for you and it can set your mind into a whirl.

memoo , I agree with Pancake , please send her a card and try and mention something personal about her little girl . She will have those cards for a very long time .
I personally wouldn't send flowers , after my son died a few people sent flowers and tbh they were just too bloody cheery to have in the house .

If you really do want to give her something to show you care then maybe some food for her freezer when she gets back home .
Be kind to yourself too . It is such a horrible shock to hear of something like this .

How awful, I hope you're ok memoo.