Need advice DS (6) has just written a christmas card for his friend who died and wants to give it to his mother

[Magrat]

he died from a long illness 2 months ago aged 6

do I let him give it to his friend's mother? I'm not sure I know what to do here

yes, I would - that is a lovely,sweet thing to do - and I'm sure the child's mum would be very touched. When my brother died his best school friend wrote something similar and I think my parents were very touched. What a sweet boy you have.

your DS is obviously a sensitive boy who is recalling a missed friend - give the card. it is a beautiful action, wonderful sentiment. the mum will appreciate it

What a sweet boy. I'm fortunate never to have been in this position, but I think if I had lost someone close to me so recently, I would be very pleased that he hadn't been forgotten. Growlygus is right, I think, that after a certain period of time it must seem as though everyone is getting on with their lives whilst you are still grieving.