should I expect any more clots to pass? (tmi sorry)

[pipsqueeke]

I had a scan on tuesday only to find the baby had stopped growing about a week ago. tuesday morning I passed the sac and had some clotting heavy bleeding etc weds had cramp and v heavy bleeding more cramping on thrus but did pass a v large clot(the placenta i'm assuming had the liver type look) bleeding then remained heavy (as thought it would) but tailed off a little last night. have this morning woken up and passed another smaller (but large enough for a 'plop' - tmi sorry) today. I thouhgt it was all finished with on thurs so this has set me back a bit

my last natural m/c at 5 weeks everything was pretty much finshed within 5 days, which was 2 days of intense cramps and v v heavy bleeding followed by just heavy bleeding. (first one at 7.5 weeks was done by op)

was doing quite a bit yesterday - althou DH would argue that fact! lol. any thoughts?

[belgo]

just a quick hijack, has anyone seen Milf? she was having a scan yesterday and I'd like to hear how she is.

[fawkeoff]

no it doesn't make you selfish.....it makes you human.You just dont want to go through the pain of losing another baby, i felt exactly the same way, but bit the bullet after a while.You may feel differantly about things in a few weeks.It will never fully go away, you will always feel a bit sad about it. Its been 6 and half years since my first and i still feel sad on dates i remember x

[pipsqueeke]

I know I still think about my first - that was ooh 9 years ago now that baby would have been born around DS's birthday (like the other two - I seem to catch around june time. lol)

belgo - no not heard anything. will look on my other thread to see if she's there - have you searched her name?

[belgo]

pips - I've searched her name, and it seems as if they won't scan her to make sure she has had a complete miscarriage. I think that's awful.

[pipsqueeke]

it's such a horrid thing to have happen. I found passing the sac the worst part.

[belgo]

it's shocking isn't it seeing the sac.

[belgo]

I still catch myself thinking of baby names.

[pipsqueeke]

truely it is, I still well up now thinking about it - if mum wasn't here with me I don't knwo how id' have managed seeing everything as I just broke down. DS was crying cos I was hysterical. the dogs were running about whiining and trying to jump up and make sure I was ok.

I'm thinking now about when the next one's due whilst also thinking do I really want to do this?

bro/his GF are coming on sun - the last time I saw them we were talking about the babys as they'd just found out she was expecting

how are you doing now?(sorry i'm rude not to ask b4)

(was scanned on weds and all is clear and has gone now - had neg tests so I guess that's all that then )

[belgo]

I'm fine. I was on my own when I actually miscarried - I'm glad my dds didn't see me in that state.

I've been a bit worried because dh didn't seem too keen on TTC again - but we've decided now that we will try.

[Jackstini]

Pip - I know what you mean about your ds.
When I came back from the EPU I saw the positive PT I had taken that morning and it just broke me. dd heard and came running in, flung her arms around me and patted my hair. Bless her - I thank my lucky stars for her every day now, even more so than before

[belgo]

Jacks - we hadn't told my dds I was pregnant, but dd1 must have picked up on it somehow because she pointed to my tummy and said 'baby' soon after my m/c. I told her, no there's no baby.

[Jackstini]

Oh Belgo - that must have been heartbreaking strange how they pick up things isn't it

[pipsqueeke]

belgo - i'm glad you're trying again - DH has pretty much left it up to me.

jack it is funny isn't it how they pick things up. we'd not told DS either - how exactly you tell a 16 month old god only knows but he used to cuddle me and say baby. hasn't done it since all of this happened, odd how they know - if indeed they do?

must have been heart breaking to tell DD thou.