Brighton friends - not good news

[desperatehousewife]

Noddy, Mabs, RnB etc - just had to tell you that went to hopsital this afternoon and they confirmed my worst fears - that I have lost the baby and it happened over the weekend. They don't know why - just said that not enough fluid around the baby. They are going to induce me over next couple of days (can't believe what we were talking about at lunch time today) then do a post mortem to see if they can discover why this has happened at this stage.

I'm in shock, but i'm ok. Will be in contact soon. Take care.
DHW x

DHW, terrible news. Please take care of yourself in the coming weeks and months. xx

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so sorry dhw

me too dhw.

So sorry to hear about this.

really sorry to hear this and will be thinking of you.

I'm so sorry.

dhw - what a very sad and terrible tihng to happen. So sorry.

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not a brighton person. but so sorry to read this take care of yourself, dhw.

Oh, DHW, I'm so sorry

so sorry to hear this xx

dhw I am very sorry to read about this.
Please use us here at MN as support as and when you need it. We are here for you.
claryx

am here anytime - please ring me or mail me. am so very very sorry i have no words

DHW - i am so sorry you are going through this, i can't imagine how terribe you're feeling. Is there no way they can induce you sooner, surely leavign you for a couple of weeks is just cruel, you need this sorted now, not in 2 weeks time.
I hope you and you're family get all the support you need.
You know there are hundreds of people on here willing to support you, or just listen if you need to talk.
So, so sorry.

Jingle - I think they are inducing today or tomorrow. I know she knows we are all with her in spirit.

So, so sorry for you and your family dhw.

Hope you can find some strength to help you through.

Thoughts are with you.

xx

am stunned by all the lovely messages - thanks everyone. Am still slightly in shock and am keeping it all together until the ordeal!

They gave me a pill last night to start things off (because I'm 25 weeks pg) and then will go naturally into labour at some point over next 24-48 hours then will have to give birth which I am devestated at having to do.

Will report back at some point when things settle down. Thanks for being there everyone.

dhw
x

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DHW... my heart really goes out to you x
I gave birth to James, my stillbirth son, several years ago. I was 30 weeks pregnant and i just want to say that please feel free to contact me at any time, if you want to talk or just offload.
The very best of wishes to you x

oh honney (((((((((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))))) hope things go as well as can be expected. and we're all here for you if/when you want to chat/vent/cry afterwards.

((((((((((((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))))) be good to yourself, don't expect too much.

I am so sorry

Thinking of you DHW

MP X

DHW - I don't "know" you either but I am desperately sorry that you are having to go through this and hope that you get all of the love and support that you need to get through the next few days initially and then through the longer grieving process.
Don't know what else to say.