My 8y DD will make coffee for us using the Tassimo. She only uses the kettle of boiling water when supervised.
I still run DD's bath and I rinse her hair for her too after shampoo/conditioner - else she doesn't get it all out fully which is not great for her hair. She could do it herslf if required.
She dresses herself and generally choses her clothes.
She generally gts her own breakfast and juice - normally toast or a sandwich.
She packs most of her school bag but I will generally give it a sneaky check and also sort her snack out and pop it in. She makes sure piano bag is sorted for Tuesdays and she makes sure her towl and goggles are ready for swimming.
We still do bedtime and have no intention of stopping that for a long time.
She can cook and bake pretty well, although i do hoover and help with hot stuff. She has her own sharpe kitchen knife (it is sharp I know as i sliced top of thumb nearly off last night with it) and various cooking and baking implements. She can follow a recipe well and enjoys it. But this is done for fun, never as a necessity. She made me and Dh a lovely mousakka followed by Brownies - yum!
IF required she can pop the hoover round, sort washing, put washing in machine, empty dishwasher, etc. but on the whole we don't ask her to do this. No reason for her to be doing so as yet here.
I still quite like doig stuff for her on the whole. I like the parenting aspects of it :0 I don't think I particularly mollycoddle, but TBH - as know she is capable - I on't care.