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Recognising ADHD in children

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Lmccrean · 03/05/2009 16:56

How do you know what is just naughty behaviour and what is ADHD?

I think DD (6) may have ADHD but unsure what to do. See a doctor? Or is there someone else I should be contacting?

I feel like Im shouting at her all the time atm.

She was sent upstairs to put a vest on under her top (to hide builders bum) 40 mins ago. Ive laid out vest, and asked her in a variety of tones, to get ready. She just cant focus. Theres not even anything in her room to play with (whole other story - but basically she lost all her toys and books earlier because in 2 hours of tidy up time, she just added to the mess, even when I was there trying to give explicit instructions on what to do)

Or maybe Im too relaxed and if I was tougher she would know I mean what I say, and she would just do it! I gave up in the end with the room tidying cause Im exhausted. Im a single mum and really not coping very well atm, and I could actually see myself raising my hand to her

Last year, playing board games seemed to help extend her attention span, but I havent seen any further improvement recently.

Please can anyone give advice or tell me about their experiences x

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mummypig · 05/05/2009 13:26

I hope your plan continues to work, lmccrean and joburg and BB too.

Gilyan it's interesting to hear what you say about your brother, although a bit worrying. I have a kind of half brother who has also behaved like that and my mum reckons his emotional/social development has been a few years behind what you would expect, every time. Great that your brother is being responsible for his kid, though. Too often men want to stay boys and won't take enough responsibility for their own children.

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