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Has anyone ever had an exorcism performed on their children?

152 replies

RosemaryWoodhouse · 14/08/2007 00:08

I think my sweetheart's nephew could be suffering from demonic possession! I know it's not cool to consider this sort of thing in this day and age but when I look into his eyes it scares me. It's like there is no soul there, they are just so cold and inhuman - not a trace of compassion.

I feel guilty because my sweetheart's sister-in law just turns up at our house out of the blue without even considering whether we have plans or the inconvenience it might cause. Anyway, she came last week and I saw her on the path outside our house so I hid upstairs like a coward until she went away. It is so humiliating having to hide in your own house.

But this boy scares me. At his school there are problems because he has to see a pyschiatrist after pushing another child to the floor and repeatedly kicking him in the head. The other child's parents wanted him expelled but the school has a 'no exclusion' policy, so lucky for him. I know how they feel because he jumped on my cat once and tried to bite off its tail. He partially severed it and it had to be amputated. He picks things up and is always smashing stuff, and his mother says there is nothing she can do about it so he just behaves like a wild animal. I don't want him in my house - this isn't a normal little boy misbehaving, I think there is real evil in there.

The doctors have there theories, I have mine. I come from a church going family and the more I think about it the more I become convinced he could be possessed by a demon. I spoke to my minister about it and although he has no expertise in the area he has read of instances where children have been possessed (and apparently is quite common in Islam), and from my description he said he can't rule it out but would need to actually examine the child himself. I have been thinking of offering to babysit the child for the day (I know his mother would leap at the chance to foist him on to us) and to take him to see the priest. The way I see it even if he performs an exorcism and demonic possession isn't the cause, at least we will know for sure. I think if I just knew it was a mental sickness I wouldn't be so afraid of him and could make more effort.

My sweetheart is very unsure because his family is not religious at all and he says they would be furious if they found out I'd got someone to perform an exorcism on the child. I'm just at my wits end and I am in a genuine quandary about how to tackle this...

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MaloryTowersHasManners · 14/08/2007 11:14

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IntergalacticWalrus · 14/08/2007 11:16

I'd rather she masturbated in private as well, if it's all the smae with you.

harleyd · 14/08/2007 11:16

i keep reading the op and i cant stop lauging - i do hope she isnt serious

StarryStarryNight · 14/08/2007 11:18

Ummmm well, yes....

Lucylou21 · 14/08/2007 11:20

My dp's distant family decided that their child was possessed by a demon because of his bad behaviour. Well, it turns out that he had epilepsy and because they delayed in getting him treatment he is now permanantly brain damaged and will need care for the rest of his life.
Before jumping to any conclusions it would be best to rule out any medical reasons for the behaviour.

IntergalacticWalrus · 14/08/2007 11:24

stryy strrynight

slim22 · 14/08/2007 11:26

rosemary, I understand you are a college lecturer.
please let us know where we can sign up for your course?
Keep it up girl!

slim22 · 14/08/2007 11:28

starrystarrynight, did you see the post on culture vultures about VAn Gogh's starrystarrynight on the second life website?
It's amazing! have a look....

StarryStarryNight · 14/08/2007 11:29

Slim22, do you have a link for me please?

slim22 · 14/08/2007 11:30

sorry I'm not very computer litterate!
go to culture vulturres, it's right at the top

StarryStarryNight · 14/08/2007 11:34

Got it, WoW!

RoesmaryWoodhouse · 14/08/2007 11:46

I'm glad you all think it's funny.

tiredemma · 14/08/2007 11:47

nice try!

RoesmaryWoodhouse · 14/08/2007 11:48

Spoilsport!

StarryStarryNight · 14/08/2007 11:49

Try replacing the H with an L....

LelsandZaffy · 14/08/2007 11:49

How is your sweetheard doing Rosemary?? He sounds like a hero!

Peachy · 14/08/2007 11:50

Ah yes you again. Piss off then, there's a nice gal.

BTW my son has SN and can behave like that. You suggest he has a devil possession, or is evil, i'll smack you And I am SO not like that

Now, ta-ra

Lorayn · 14/08/2007 11:50

It's not necessarily funny rosemary, but it does seem rather strange, especially in an age of science.
If it eases your mind, then I'd speak to the priest again, but I think I'd be pretty pissed off if I found out my kids had been 'exorcised' by my SIL!!!
Then, of course, if the child isn't actually possessed surely the exorcism wouldn't really do much harm???

RosemaryWoodlouse · 14/08/2007 11:52

Keep my sweetheart out of this!

Lorayn · 14/08/2007 11:53

It's you that bought him up rosemary, I think people are just annoyed as a lot of the posts on here are deadly serious, this just seems........... deadly.

RosemaryWoodlouse · 14/08/2007 11:54
Hmm
NadineBaggott · 14/08/2007 11:54

are we talking Rosemary's baby here?

themildmanneredjanitor · 14/08/2007 11:54

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Lorayn · 14/08/2007 11:55

ok, I just realised that I'm not even answering the Op, thats what you get for being tired and nauseas, bloody pregnancy!!

RosemaryWoodlouse · 14/08/2007 11:55
Grin