As much as he’s a lovely boy, he can be an absolute nightmare.
He is currently screaming the house down and no doubt waking the neighbours at either side with his disgusting behaviour.
He is screaming because he wants to get in my bed and I’ve said no.
For the past 4 nights he has had me up in the night so many times and nothing stops it. It’s not that he’s even used to coming in my bed, that happens probably once every two months and is never an issue
He is EXTREMELY stubborn and will carry on for a good 30 minutes after I’ve completely ignored him.
I honestly feel like I could walk out of this house and never come back.
I’m sick to death of the screaming and then me losing it and shouting at him.
I feel like a shit mum and no doubt the neighbours think the same with what they will hear. I feel so ashamed
Whenever he cries he scream cries, even when not being naughty (just sad) and it is ear piercing. I honestly cannot stand the sound any longer and I feel like I hate him.
I know that I don’t really but when he does this I end up laying in bed wishing I was dead and that I didn’t have him to put up with it anymore.
I know it’s late and that probably nobody is up but I am desperately sad and fed up.
How can such a lovely and smart little boy be so awful?
I used to feel like I was a good mum and lately I feel like maybe I shouldn’t have him cause clearly I can’t cope anymore. I’ve lost all of my confidence as a parent and I’m so embarrassed and ashamed of myself.
Why can’t I do this anymore?
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I can't stand my 4 year old
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Qwertyuiop123abc · 26/10/2017 03:17
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